If you had the chance, would you want to marry a SP and havre kids with her? How would you explain it to your friends and family when they ask you how both of you met? How about to your kids?
Do you think you need to date her first before marrying her?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hRN7nh7-eZI
Over the years, there are easily half a dozen industry women who have met family or friends (but not my mom, lol) at certain social gatherings when they were my date. We have a cover story of course, but people don't really pry too much as they respect me and are polite.