I respect your experience, and I don't mean to devalue it. However, if you hear many people talk about their trips to Cuba or Jamaica, they will all tell you how wonderful it is. Just like in Cuba/Jamaica, I am not sure
if the places you visit are reflective of the overall country.
My point was that just like generalizing Americans or Canadians is a flawed premise, doing the same for the Chinese is also flawed.
When I travel for business, it's always to the eastern coastal areas which are the richest and best developed areas. Everyone has a motorized vehicle and enjoy a standard of living that is comparable to, say, people in Italy or Spain.
It certainly is not representative of the rest of the country. This is the four hundred million odd Chinese who have caused China to surpass America as the world's largest market for new cars.
However, I have taken the time personally to travel throughout the country over the past fifteen years or so, I have been into the west, into places like Sichuan, which is still largely state run, and into agricultural communities. I went to the three gorges area while the dam was being constructed and spoke with people who were having their villages relocated.
I think I have a good grip on the problems China faces, the progress they have made, and I have seen with my own eyes the radical, unbelievable improvement in the quality of life in every part of the country.
Statistically, incomes in China are doubling every ten years in US dollar terms. Practically, the impact of that on people's standard of living over the decade and a half I have been visiting China is impossible to understate.
For most people it is the difference between living in tiny, dirt floor, drab concrete structure, without plumbing, and with a disgusting community toilet shared in the whole neighborhood, to living in a modern constructed home with plumbing, a proper toilet, internet broadband, electricity, heat. It means riding a motor scooter to get to work instead of a rusty old bicycle. It means shopping in a modern grocery store rather than a street market. It means having the money to travel, and being able to send your one child to university.
Let me be clear that I have visited the same family homes twelve or fifteen years ago, and again in more recent years, and seen the difference in their homes, their clothes, their buying power. I have used those disgusting, smelly, mosquito infested community toilets they used to have and appreciated the new modern plumbing they now have myself on my own visits to the homes of the various friends I have made over the years.
There are certainly concerns, the biggest being corruption and the second biggest being pollution. These are widely seen as hard problems to solve in a country that has developed rapidly, and they are. The air in Beijing is horrible. Everyone knows. They are food safety concerns. There are garbage disposal problems.
But every single Chinese is enormously proud of that country and what they have done, every one of them is better off, and the government, for all the concerns, is enormously popular with the people, which given what it has delivered, isn't too surprising.