ex icarus said:
Q1. I've never met one lesbian who's an SP.
Q2. Yes.. of course. The more the merrier.
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Q1. I've never met one lesbian who's an SP.
Q2. Yes.. of course. The more the merrier.
Not as uncommon as most people would think, and probably in part because of the reason you state. But from what I hear (both within the industry and from my non-industry circles), my impression is that they are more dykes in the strip club and pro-BDSM scenes than in the escort business.ex icarus said:
I did suggest to a friend of mine that she should try pro-domming, and gave her some general advices on sex work when she started.ex icarus said:
Other friends, I would strongly discourage them from entering the sex work industry. It's all dependent on the individual.
What would be the best way to ask if the SP does extras? I feel a bit uncomfortable asking over the phone, "BTW, do you offer greek or BBBJ's?"
When I see an escort I like, on my second visit I like to bring a gift. Usually chocolate without nuts(in case of allergies), liquor, etc. What suggestions would you like? Personal, and just overall.
On visits, I usually bring extra cash along, because if the escort is good I like to leave a tip. How much is a good tip? I usually tip between 50-100, depending on how ming blowing(and other blowings) they are.
For incalls, I like to have a few things ready. Tea, coffee, cold drinks, clean towel in the shower and one by the bed for her to spit my sperm on, etc. Would you recommend anything else?
This is just a curiousity question. Asides from condoms for STD's and the like, how many escorts are on the pill to protect against pregnancy? Which brings another question, how many escorts have ever become pregnant by a client?
The last question was meant with no disrespect, but merely to satisfy my curiousity.
When I see an escort I like, on my second visit I like to bring a gift. Usually chocolate without nuts(in case of allergies), liquor, etc. What suggestions would you like? Personal, and just overall.
On visits, I usually bring extra cash along, because if the escort is good I like to leave a tip. How much is a good tip? I usually tip between 50-100, depending on how ming blowing(and other blowings) they are.
For incalls, I like to have a few things ready. Tea, coffee, cold drinks, clean towel in the shower and one by the bed for her to spit my sperm on, etc. Would you recommend anything else?
This is just a curiousity question. Asides from condoms for STD's and the like, how many escorts are on the pill to protect against pregnancy? Which brings another question, how many escorts have ever become pregnant by a client?
The last question was meant with no disrespect, but merely to satisfy my curiousity.
What would be the best way to ask if the SP does extras? I feel a bit uncomfortable asking over the phone, "BTW, do you offer greek or BBBJ's?".
Being an agency girl, I can't answer that question when it comes to the phone, but I think that a good way to get an answer to your question is to do your research here on terb. Alternatively, I regularly have clients asking me during the action whether I'm ok with X or Z. Often the answer is no, but I'm never offended or made uncomfortable because they ask. We just carry on, and I do my best to make them forget about X or Z by leaving them exhausted with the other letters of the alphabet on my menu.
When I see an escort I like, on my second visit I like to bring a gift. Usually chocolate without nuts(in case of allergies), liquor, etc. What suggestions would you like? Personal, and just overall.
This is very thoughtful of you, and I'm sure the ladies you see are all grateful for the little things you bring them. Flowers, gift certificate for a pedi-mani, facials, massage, etc., lingerie, movie tickets, sex toys, are other suggestions that comes to mind. Of course, a tip is always a nice and appreciated gift as well.
On visits, I usually bring extra cash along, because if the escort is good I like to leave a tip. How much is a good tip? I usually tip between 50-100, depending on how ming blowing(and other blowings) they are.
Any tip is a good tip! I've usually gotten between $20 and $100.
For incalls, I like to have a few things ready. Tea, coffee, cold drinks, clean towel in the shower and one by the bed for her to spit my sperm on, etc. Would you recommend anything else?
I guess you mean outcalls. Mouthwash and liquid shower gel (in a 'feminine' flavor) in the bathroom. Baby wipes are great to have by the bed as well to quickly clean up. She should bring her own condoms, but just in case, I would have some ready.
Being an agency girl, I can't answer that question when it comes to the phone, but I think that a good way to get an answer to your question is to do your research here on terb. Alternatively, I regularly have clients asking me during the action whether I'm ok with X or Z. Often the answer is no, but I'm never offended or made uncomfortable because they ask. We just carry on, and I do my best to make them forget about X or Z by leaving them exhausted with the other letters of the alphabet on my menu.
When I see an escort I like, on my second visit I like to bring a gift. Usually chocolate without nuts(in case of allergies), liquor, etc. What suggestions would you like? Personal, and just overall.
This is very thoughtful of you, and I'm sure the ladies you see are all grateful for the little things you bring them. Flowers, gift certificate for a pedi-mani, facials, massage, etc., lingerie, movie tickets, sex toys, are other suggestions that comes to mind. Of course, a tip is always a nice and appreciated gift as well.
On visits, I usually bring extra cash along, because if the escort is good I like to leave a tip. How much is a good tip? I usually tip between 50-100, depending on how ming blowing(and other blowings) they are.
Any tip is a good tip! I've usually gotten between $20 and $100.
For incalls, I like to have a few things ready. Tea, coffee, cold drinks, clean towel in the shower and one by the bed for her to spit my sperm on, etc. Would you recommend anything else?
I guess you mean outcalls. Mouthwash and liquid shower gel (in a 'feminine' flavor) in the bathroom. Baby wipes are great to have by the bed as well to quickly clean up. She should bring her own condoms, but just in case, I would have some ready.
What would be the best way to ask if the SP does extras? I feel a bit uncomfortable asking over the phone, "BTW, do you offer greek or BBBJ's?"
I find it's not what you ask but how you ask that is important and as Gen mentioned do your research in advance. Some ladies will have the information on the site and some will not, if they do not I find the most important thing is to be respectful when making an inquiry. Saying "I've always fantasized about xyz, do you think that's something that is possible?" is usually okay but asking "Do you like it in your cornhole?" (direct quote from someone that asked me) is more often than not going to get you hung up on. It sounds like you are polite and respectful so just keep it up and you'll be fine.
When I see an escort I like, on my second visit I like to bring a gift. Usually chocolate without nuts(in case of allergies), liquor, etc. What suggestions would you like? Personal, and just overall.
As Gen said any gift is always appreciated. Some of the best gifts I've had are from clients that took a few moments to get to know me in our first meeting and tailored the gift appropriately. An example and a not so expensive one (photocopy & time) woulld be a client that gave me some papers he completed in University, I was interested in the topics and found them to be a wonderful read. Another client knew I was interested in wine and had ordered a case of one he thought I'd like, I'm still enjoying it today.
Oh and if you want to get Gen a gift I have a list of toys that she might appreciate, I've been busy testing more and am pretty sure that a couple of them would be to her liking.
Which brings another question, how many escorts have ever become pregnant by a client?
I don't know any.
I find it's not what you ask but how you ask that is important and as Gen mentioned do your research in advance. Some ladies will have the information on the site and some will not, if they do not I find the most important thing is to be respectful when making an inquiry. Saying "I've always fantasized about xyz, do you think that's something that is possible?" is usually okay but asking "Do you like it in your cornhole?" (direct quote from someone that asked me) is more often than not going to get you hung up on. It sounds like you are polite and respectful so just keep it up and you'll be fine.
When I see an escort I like, on my second visit I like to bring a gift. Usually chocolate without nuts(in case of allergies), liquor, etc. What suggestions would you like? Personal, and just overall.
As Gen said any gift is always appreciated. Some of the best gifts I've had are from clients that took a few moments to get to know me in our first meeting and tailored the gift appropriately. An example and a not so expensive one (photocopy & time) woulld be a client that gave me some papers he completed in University, I was interested in the topics and found them to be a wonderful read. Another client knew I was interested in wine and had ordered a case of one he thought I'd like, I'm still enjoying it today.
Oh and if you want to get Gen a gift I have a list of toys that she might appreciate, I've been busy testing more and am pretty sure that a couple of them would be to her liking.
Which brings another question, how many escorts have ever become pregnant by a client?
I don't know any.
This is by far the most interesting thread I've read in a long time! I am not even half done with the pages, still reading....
Excellent response!Kyra_to said:
Hi there Gents... and LADIES..of course!!
How many ladies have become pregnant by clients??
Ill answer this one...
Although they have not personally been my friends..I have seen several ladies become pregnant in this industry.
I love to have fun in my appointments...but let's keep it real... the amount of time's that I am asked to engage without a condom..still amazes me.
Pregnancy..yes an issue... but the least of my worries... in comparison to the STD's that are rampant out there these days. I think that is my all time shocker... still to this day... the rest...heck..to each their own... LOL..
How many ladies have become pregnant by clients??
Ill answer this one...
Although they have not personally been my friends..I have seen several ladies become pregnant in this industry.
I love to have fun in my appointments...but let's keep it real... the amount of time's that I am asked to engage without a condom..still amazes me.
Pregnancy..yes an issue... but the least of my worries... in comparison to the STD's that are rampant out there these days. I think that is my all time shocker... still to this day... the rest...heck..to each their own... LOL..
I find these responses interesting. I have often hesitated to bring a gift, fearing the girl would see it as sort of "pathetic", and consider me as a potential stalker. I may reconsider.genintoronto said:
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Deme said:
Hi,
Your web page is great! But as for the pregger's fantasy I am not interested in getting a girl pregnant. One child is enough. Our child is a darling baby but, they are so much work.
EU
If that's the lady's reaction to receiving a gift from a client, you may want to consider seeing someone else.johnhenrygalt said:
The only think I could think of that might make me feel uncomfortable would be receiving a very expensive gift from a client I barely know. But a small something, especially if it's tailored to me and my taste, will always bring a smile to my face.
Kyra: WOW! That new pic is fucking amazing!
i love all speeds, being on the "sexually submissive side" ,nottyboi said:
i tend to like what you like
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=236147
don't know anyone who got pregnant..
re: asking for extras.. just be polite is right... and of course check the girls website if she has one.
re: asking for extras.. just be polite is right... and of course check the girls website if she has one.
agree!!! wowzagenintoronto said:
I have been reading this post and have found a lot of interesting info. Although I have not read it in its entirety I would like to know if any of you ladies have shown up at a hotel room (for example) and when the door opens it is someone you know. How do you feel about continuing with the transaction?
5 men at one sex party and just me. It was personal not work time. DP with both in my pussy at the same time. The best part was they were both cops! I felt like I was the star of a porno. That was before I started escorting so I guess you could say that my sex life has gotten more tame since I started getting paid for sex. Of course I liked it. I don't do things that I don't like.IndianDude said:
Thanks Gen, Carrie. I was quite happy with the new pics, did them only yesterday and the photographer was super fast to get them back to me this morning. I think the new 'on the desk' series suit my personality.genintoronto said:
If it was completely decriminalized, the prices might drop since more women might come into the business since there would be less risk involved. I think risk of arrest keeps many women from becoming escorts (as well as social stigma).pokerdude said:
Prostitution is legal in Canada, but if it was decriminalized (taken out of the criminal code) my life as an incall escort would be better. Then I would be completely legal and feel safe working from my own place-it would not be considered a bawdy house. I would be able to work with other women legally (bawdy house law) and so wouldn't be isolated and therefore more vulnerable to violence, theft etc. If I had a boyfriend or husband, the law wouldn't automatically consider him a pimp because he lives off the avails of prostituion by sharing the rent and other expenses with me.
I already pay taxes and I'm an incorporated business (this gets me a better tax rate).
If you don't pay taxes, you can't buy big ticket items like a house or a car so I pay taxes.pokerdude said:
I've had sex with transpeople but just for fun not with a client. If all of us were willing why not? I'd like to know that the client already knows them and recommends them as someone who is not on drugs or crazy etc. I'd feel safer using my place too.
