The Ask-A-Hooker Thread

[amber-jade]

what's the longest you've went without sex? -- not very long

Can escorting be lonely at times? -- not in my case no,

Do your relationships usually end from jealosy from your job, or stem from your job? -- in my case it only makes us feel closer

How would you compare work sex to SO sex or flings where you want to fuck someones brains out b/c you can't resist them? -- i have ZERO complaints j and i are a perfect match of dom/sub..

Do you ever yearn for non-work sex. -- no...i have it every day

Is work sex enough to fulfill your needs? I'm trying to imagine myself in an sp's position where I'm fucking girls I'm mostly not attracted to and then see one that I am attracted to in regular life and wanting to maul her, in a good way of course. We pick you girls, you don't pick us, does this make any sense? -- TOTALLY fulfill my needs? no, but if you are asking do i ''get off'' yes yesyes ooohoohooh YEEEESSSS

How often do you meet a client, hope to see him again, but never do? -- more than a few times

I met an sp who changed agencies and lost many of her regulars, she seemed genuinely hurt which surprised me. Do you hurt sometimes when a client moves on or is it just business? -- no never, i just want to hear all about it the next time we chat [/QUOTE]

 

[moresex4me]

I've had both and found both to be very, very sensual. I really enjoy playing with the senses and I think clients that have lost one sense are aware of the different ways in which you can enhance and stimulate the others, it is for me one of the better times I have had.
As for dealing with the logistics of it, email is a wonderful thing and I've always been a pretty heavy tech user - even in my youth so I haven't had many issues in finding alternative ways to communicate. Vision impaired clients can easily talk on the phone and hearing impaired clients can use a computer (and I had my first computer back when I was knee high to a C-64 so I've always been comfortable using alt. technology). The deaf clients I saw could speech read and communicate very well and though my ASL is practically non-existant I made sure I knew enough to properly greet them and make them know I made an effort.

In your "youth"? You are still pretty young, my dear! And I would say your youth fell into the dawn of the internet as a mainstream medium!

 

[Kyra.Graves]

Can escorting be lonely at times? Life can be lonely at times, escorting is no different.

Do your relationships usually end from jealosy from your job, or stem from your job? Relationships as in Significant Others or relationships in general? I don't get involved when I am doing this, it's too hard for me to maintain both as I am not so detached. I have however met some wonderful people via this industry that I keep in my life in one way or another and the reverse is also true, this industry has cost me some personal relationships where friends could not handle the idea of what I choose to do for various reasons. The social pressures from this job are different from any other I've worked and it can be very difficult to balance at times.

Is work sex enough to fulfill your needs? I'm trying to imagine myself in an sp's position where I'm fucking girls I'm mostly not attracted to and then see one that I am attracted to in regular life and wanting to maul her, in a good way of course. We pick you girls, you don't pick us, does this make any sense?
It's true that we don't pick our clients but speaking for myself I do screen them. If I don't feel comfortable with something I will ask someone to leave, if there is no chemistry I will ask them to leave, etc. I may not find my clients 'hot' in the traditional sense but I am generally attracted to them, this is where the kindness, polite and respect factor come in. There is something to be said for someone that walks in the door that tells you how beautiful you look, that you have pretty eyes, or that they've been dying to meet you, etc. Someone that is genuinely happy to see you, someone that is attracted and interested in you. That is a very attractive quality and it does turn most people on. The same way that clients enjoy how the GFE is attentive, makes the client feel attractive, interesting, etc. the reverse is true for the SP. So if you add to that the person is generally well groomed and rarely is anyone unattractive (most clients are actually average to good looking and I've yet to meet one that didn't have at least one or two very attractive features that you can focus on) it's easy to find the person attractive.
When I see someone on the street and think they are good looking I immediately wonder about their personality. Since starting in sex work I have become a personality person, I really don't care what you look like but my time is far too valuable to spend with someone that is great looking and horrible on the inside. If they are good looking inside and out then yes I would be interested but this job has taught me that nothing matters more than who you are and how you interact with the world around you.

How often do you meet a client, hope to see him again, but never do? Frequently

I met an sp who changed agencies and lost many of her regulars, she seemed genuinely hurt which surprised me. Do you hurt sometimes when a client moves on or is it just business?
It depends on the client and our relationship, but yes it can and does sometimes hurt. We are still people and we are building personal relationships, anytime one is relationship selling the breakdown of that relationship can be hurtful if not handled well. Good clients handle it well and in return I am happy for them, I understand that this is a business for both of us and the business is a fantasy. On the other hand if the relationship comes to an end and leaves unanswered questions or ends badly then of course one can be hurt.

 

[Rockload6]

I've had both and found both to be very, very sensual. I really enjoy playing with the senses and I think clients that have lost one sense are aware of the different ways in which you can enhance and stimulate the others, it is for me one of the better times I have had.
As for dealing with the logistics of it, email is a wonderful thing and I've always been a pretty heavy tech user - even in my youth so I haven't had many issues in finding alternative ways to communicate. Vision impaired clients can easily talk on the phone and hearing impaired clients can use a computer (and I had my first computer back when I was knee high to a C-64 so I've always been comfortable using alt. technology). The deaf clients I saw could speech read and communicate very well and though my ASL is practically non-existant I made sure I knew enough to properly greet them and make them know I made an effort.

Did you ever ask how the blind men came to choosing you? Or do you think the agency would have intervened there?

 

[Kyra.Graves]

In your "youth"? You are still pretty young, my dear! And I would say your youth fell into the dawn of the internet as a mainstream medium!

My first computer had a cassette recorder, remember those? But yes I was very young at that time, I think I needed a booster seat to sit at it. I was however 'online' long before a lot of others... I remember using my old dial-up modem to call friends, you just dialed the telephone number.

 

[BallzDeep]

I will sometimes compliment escorts on their appearance but often wonder if it comes across as cheesy, as in her thinking 'whatever, heard it all before', apparently this isn't the case??? I guess everyone likes a compliment.

Kyra, um, you missed question 1.

 

[moresex4me]

My first computer had a cassette recorder, remember those? But yes I was very young at that time, I think I needed a booster seat to sit at it. I was however 'online' long before a lot of others... I remember using my old dial-up modem to call friends, you just dialed the telephone number.

The first personal desktop I used did not have any disk drives, was purely RAM, and did nothing except execute simple code in BASIC:

10 Print "Kyra is beautiful"
20 End

Yes, that's right, a PET 2K. And I was young, pre-pubescent actually. I was an adult when I discovered the internet with my 4800 dial up modem. I got broadband cable in 1996, as soon as it launched (I lived in a new area that had the infrastructure already).

Before I hijack this thread, how much, and how, has technology helped make things easier?

 

[Kyra.Graves]

Did you ever ask the blind men came to choosing you? Or do you think the agency would have intervened there?

Sorry I don't understand your question. Did I ever ask why someone visually impaired selected me or was it because the agency suggested me?

Often agencies will try to match the lady that they see as a best fit for the clients needs. It's not just physical but also personality and for some clients/ladies it's more about personality matching than anything else. When I interview an agency I try to see how they screen clients and if they are willing to match clients via my client preferences, I believe in a good match over quantity. In a good agency they will have a lady that will fit most client needs, I have a fairly niche market and would often be referred clients which are best suited to that. In one situation the agency referred the client to me, in another the client requested me because of a previous conversation we had via email, I handled most the logistics for him as he was new to seeing escorts. I don't remember the specifics of all situations though, nor if I even knew them at the time.
I hope that is what you were asking. =)

 

[moresex4me]

I will sometimes compliment escorts on their appearance but often wonder if it comes across as cheesy, as in her thinking 'whatever, heard it all before', apparently this isn't the case??? I guess everyone likes a compliment.

Kyra, um, you missed question 1.

She did miss question 1... my guess is not very long...

 

[moresex4me]

I think I did a bad thing... Cycleguy, we do NOT want to hijack this thread with talk of useless old machines...

So back to Kyra... what is the longest you've gone without sex (with someone else, as I know you like to masturbate...

 

[Cycleguy007]

I think I did a bad thing... Cycleguy, we do NOT want to hijack this thread with talk of useless old machines...

You're right! I have rectified the situation! Sorry everyone... (I get carried away sometimes... Carry on....)

 

[Kyra.Graves]

I will sometimes compliment escorts on their appearance but often wonder if it comes across as cheesy, as in her thinking 'whatever, heard it all before', apparently this isn't the case??? I guess everyone likes a compliment.

Kyra, um, you missed question 1.

Didn't miss it, edited it and several others out. I don't answer questions that I have nothing to add to, I feel are self serving or I simply find uninteresting.

As for compliments - it's only good if it's genuine and if it's not then don't say it. The point was the reaction and the kindness involved, most girls can read a guys reaction when they meet and if he's less than enthusiastic then the session might also be the same however if he is happy to see her then she is going to feel sexy, attractive and want to be there so you are going to have a much better time. Even the fact that a client has made an effort to see you can go a long way towards setting the tone for the call. Calling last minute and saying "I'm so glad you were available it seemed like no one was going to be, the first few girls I wanted to see today were all off" not so good, telling her "I have been looking at your pictures for awhile now and finally I get to meet you" is a much better way to start out. It's not so much a compliment as not letting her know that she was your last pic and the lady you are seeing by default.

 

[smylee52]

no
micro with asian SP's... although we were in a mansion, there was never more then 5.
i was the only "white" girl lol

so a micro is an incall in a mansion ?

 

[genintoronto]

What's the longest you've went without sex? Too long.

Can escorting be lonely at times? Since I don't hang out with people from the industry, yes, sometimes it can be, in the sense that while I can talk about my job with some people around me who know about it, I don't have any close friend who I can share my experience with who knows from experience what I'm talking about.

Do your relationships usually end from jealosy from your job, or stem from your job? The one relationship I've had that ended while working in this industry ended from my side, and it had nothing to do with my job.

How would you compare work sex to SO sex or flings where you want to fuck someones brains out b/c you can't resist them? Not comparable. To me, it's like reading for school and reading for my own pleasure: both can be enjoyable, and I get something out of both. But the objectives aren't the same, my focus isn't on the same things, and the experience isn't the same.

Do you ever yearn for non-work sex. I'm a woman, and a not too shabby one. I can have sex whenever I want.

Is work sex enough to fulfill your needs? I'm trying to imagine myself in an sp's position where I'm fucking girls I'm mostly not attracted to and then see one that I am attracted to in regular life and wanting to maul her, in a good way of course. We pick you girls, you don't pick us, does this make any sense? My sexual needs? No, definitely not. I'm not there to fulfill my needs, but those of my clients. Which of course doesn't mean that I can't get a kick out of it as well, but sex-for-pay isn't about me, it's about the one paying.

How often do you meet a client, hope to see him again, but never do? I saw this client once, a guy who is into financial domination. All he wanted me to do was to verbally humiliate him, "order" him to give me more money for the pleasure of my presence, and refuse him any services as I asked for (and got) more money from him. Not suprisingly, I really liked this client, and not only because of the money thing! But he sent me an email a couple weeks later, thanking me for a great session, and apologizing that he wouldn't see me again. Apparently, my french accent made me sounds (in his words) "too innocent and not bitchy enough" for the financial castrating bitch that he was looking for.

I met an sp who changed agencies and lost many of her regulars, she seemed genuinely hurt which surprised me. Do you hurt sometimes when a client moves on or is it just business? As I've said many times in this and other threads before, I'm not a big believer in monogamy in my personal life, so the last place I'd be looking for monogamy is in this industry.

 

[moresex4me]

Didn`t miss it, edited it and several others out. I don`t answer questions that I have nothing to add to, I feel are self serving or I simply find uninteresting.

As for compliments - it`s only good if it`s genuine and if it`s not then don`t say it. The point was the reaction and the kindness involved, most girls can read a guys reaction when they meet and if he`s less than enthusiastic then the session might also be the same however if he is happy to see her then she is going to feel sexy, attractive and want to be there so you are going to have a much better time. Even the fact that a client has made an effort to see you can go a long way towards setting the tone for the call. Calling last minute and saying "I`m so glad you were available it seemed like no one was going to be, the first few girls I wanted to see today were all off" not so good, telling her "I have been looking at your pictures for awhile now and finally I get to meet you" is a much better way to start out. It`s not so much a compliment as not letting her know that she was your last pic and the lady you are seeing by default.

Okay, I honestly mean this as a compliment... your new pics are incredibly hot... wowza!

EDIT: Another potential hijacking, but spared by this thread: https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=237746

 

[Rockslinger]

Have you ever participated in a sexual event involving small animals?

(Rock: Your questions are getting weirder and weirder.)

 

[Hiding]

What's the longest you've went without sex?

Almost 16 years. Then I lost my virginity, got involved in serial 'longterm' (I'm young, so longterm is a year+) relationships, then got into the industry. I'm dreading the day I have to worry about when/if I'll get laid.

Can escorting be lonely at times?

I have best friends to share it with, and a busy personal life outside of it.

Do your relationships usually end from jealosy from your job, or stem from your job?

Neither.

How would you compare work sex to SO sex or flings where you want to fuck someones brains out b/c you can't resist them?

There are quite a few people with whom its comparable for me, but that again might just be me.

Do you ever yearn for non-work sex.

No.

Is work sex enough to fulfill your needs?

One person fulfilling my needs sounds like an awfully large workload for him(Her? Unlikely but possible). Work sex, in the style I'm lucky enough to be able to work (intense PSEs for some, and intense GFEs for others) is the closest I've found so far... plus I think the scenario of working as an SP is hot in general. It does more than enough to keep me happy but not completely fulfilled.

How often do you meet a client, hope to see him again, but never do?

A couple times before I started seeing more regulars than not.

I met an sp who changed agencies and lost many of her regulars, she seemed genuinely hurt which surprised me. Do you hurt sometimes when a client moves on or is it just business?

I'm never hurt, but as per above there are a handful I've seen that I'd like to see again every now and then. Usually I'm the one recommending someone else, not because I don't like the client but because there might be someone else he'd enjoy as well.

Have you ever participated in a sexual event involving small animals

No, that'd be a new one. Crickets, though.

 

[Rockload6]

Two questions:

1. Do you lovely ladies prefer a man to be clean shaven on the face?

2. Does a beard cause issue with DATY or any other services?

I ask because I have a fairly short but well groomed Chin Curtain style beard (Think Abe Lincoln but a lot less thick - no hair past the chin and jaw line) and I would prefer not to shave, but I'm considering it for an upcoming session.

Thanks in advance.

 

[Miss Maya Blue]

1. Do you lovely ladies prefer a man to be clean shaven on the face?
absolutely. it doesnt take much for stubble to begin to irritate my face or down below.

2. Does a beard cause issue with DATY or any other services?
it does sometimes admittedly. make out with a full beard can be a little strange. i find it harder to enjoy it. though there are exceptions to this rule.

also. i know some of you men love the idea of pussy juice on your beard. i'm not so much a fan of this delicacy

 

[Carrie Moon]

if your beard is soft it's fine.. but if it's stubbly hell no! as a test rub your chin on the inside of your forearm to feel if it's soft or harsh.