The Ask-A-Hooker Thread

[goalie000]

What time of Day do you prefer to see clients? Does it matter?

 

[Carrie Moon]

personally.. I like afternoon delight. but no.. it really doesn't matter.

 

[Twinklegirl]

how often do you find clients that want to crossdress and how do you feel about it?

I've had a few who like to wear stockings, panties or nylons. I have no problem with it. That's why I'm here...so men can explore their kinky side without judgement. It's a lot of fun

 

[skypilot]

Hi,

We are at over 700 posts on this thread and Studbone is a new member. Please be nice to him.

Yo Stud, welcum aboard!!!!

BTW Gen is a good escort. I reviewed her and enjoyed the services.

EU

Fuck Studbone. He should spend his time reviewing the thread instead of wasting ours.
Yo Bone, you should change the stud to head.

 

[herames]

like the this thread...hope this hasn't been asked before:

have you ever blackmailed (for good reasons) a client?

flipside..have you ever been black mailed..maybe a bible thumping bastard of sorts!?

 

[GotGusto]

Michael, are you or have you ever been married? Just curious because you clearly have lots of money. Just wondering if you've been burned in a "real" relationship and that's why you hobby. Women flock to men with money like flies to shit, so it's not as though the "real" thing is unattainable for you.

 

[Carrie Moon]

I was married but my wife and son were killed over 20 years ago. That event and various activities when I was serving in uniform have “fucked my mind” to this day. I could use the DMS IV term of “antisocial personality disorder” but the vernacular is more succinct.

I started seeing escorts because I wanted someone who would look and act like my wife. I would try to descend into a fantasy of past life the way an addict would use a drug to avoid the present life.

I have attempted relationships but based on the evidence I must conclude that I am not an easy person to be with no matter what I may think of myself.

The last relationship I attempted was with a stunningly beautiful lady who was not in love with me, but who I trusted, and thought a future could be built even if it started as a matter of convenience. After a year I was ready to move forward. Unbeknownst to her, I had picked out a five carat stone and was going to have her sit with a designer for the setting and the band. I really am terrible at design and wanted this to be something unique. There was a whole series of things planned, a new condo downtown, honeymoon to Tahiti etc. At the last moment my instinct kicked in. I lied to her and told her I was going bankrupt due to tax problems. Never heard from her again.

I spent the last six months trying to do the charity thing and give away a lot of money. What a waste. The charity industry is where you find the true whores. So back to being a selfish pig.

I view the “real” relationships that are based on my money as simply dishonest escorts. A scam by another name. I will not have a relationship with anyone I work with so that eliminates the majority of my female contact.

I have been repeatedly told that I look too intense and intimidating so in the absence of a display of wealth women will avoid me. I live in a very modest home and drive an ordinary car so there are no outward signs of having a few dollars more than average (I am positive there are many others on this board with far more dough than me). I never go to bars clubs etc and would look ridiculously out of place if I did.

I find many SP’s are incredibly interesting with lives and interests that most of the guys here miss out on. It takes some time and longer visits to get past the surface veneer.

It may not be the perfect life but its how I will live it for the next little while.

Wow.. interesting insight into your hobbying mentality.. Maybe we should see if others would contribute this way in the ask a John thread.

 

[Carrie Moon]

Extended visits and travel.

I'm planning a holiday, an 11 day cruise around the Mediterranean, and have thought about bringing a companion but always end up thinking it would be a bad idea.

http://www.cunard.com/ourships/qm2/accommodations/popUps/Q2-queenmary.asp

Obviously it would have to be someone I have already met and there is chemistry, tolerance etc. There would have to be an understanding about rates and services. These are what I call the obvious issues.

Are there concerns or thoughts from the lady's perspective of such a long encounter, especially where it would be inconvenient to leave if there is a personality conflict.

I think it's generally a bad idea. My longest appt was 2 1/2 days.. and it wasn't with someone I had previously met. I found it difficult to refuse however b/c of the large sum of money involved and would do it again for the same reason. It was stressful for me.. because we were not a match at all.. in any way.. but for him it was a fantasy come true and he was very happy.

Now.. had it been with a regular I'd at least spent some several hour appts with and some overnights.. and we were both comfortable with one another.. it would be okay. If there was friendship and chemistry.. in this particular case there was not on my side of it.

I've enjoyed holidays with friends.. and even with friends you can fight. Being a paid companion means not really ever being truly yourself... so this is unrealistic.

My opinion.. I'm sure others have opposite ones.

 

[goalie000]

This has probably already been asked, BUT, anyway. "How did you get started in this Business? (One Lady told me it was a Girlfriend of hers who did it and suggested it to her)

 

[enduser1]

This has probably already been asked, BUT, anyway. "How did you get started in this Business? (One Lady told me it was a Girlfriend of hers who did it and suggested it to her)

Cool Question!

 

[Kyra.Graves]

I think it's generally a bad idea. My longest appt was 2 1/2 days.. and it wasn't with someone I had previously met. I found it difficult to refuse however b/c of the large sum of money involved and would do it again for the same reason. It was stressful for me.. because we were not a match at all.. in any way.. but for him it was a fantasy come true and he was very happy.

Now.. had it been with a regular I'd at least spent some several hour appts with and some overnights.. and we were both comfortable with one another.. it would be okay. If there was friendship and chemistry.. in this particular case there was not on my side of it.

I've enjoyed holidays with friends.. and even with friends you can fight. Being a paid companion means not really ever being truly yourself... so this is unrealistic.

My opinion.. I'm sure others have opposite ones.

Yep, I disagree.

My longest appt. was 14 days and I had a fantastic time, I've also done many one week and under appts. and didn't have any issues.
I think the trick to a successful engagement is to manage client expectations and to ensure that you are financially free to do as you choose, the pressure of money should not be a deciding factor in anything one does if it is then you'll often make compromises that one isn't comfortable with.

In advance of a long call I ensure that the client and I have had a conversation about his expectations and what I can realistically offer. Basically we interview each other, I have to source his needs and expectations for the visit and clearly communicate my own. I also have to be clear that on a long engagement I do have needs and expectations that I might not have during a 3 hour appt., so the client has to be aware that the lady he sees for short durations is only part of the package he gets on a longer trip. Many clients enjoy that you will be relaxing and being yourself, others do not, they want the fantasy of the woman catering to them 24/7. Some ladies can provide that type of experience but I know that over the course of a week I cannot and making sure the client understands that is key.

I do agree that one should not travel with someone they don't know but if that type of arrangement has been made then taking steps to source their expectations and communicating your own limitations is paramount.

I believe it's possible to be yourself when being a paid companion, many clients actually prefer that to a persona. It's not easy however to be oneself and money cannot be the influencing factor. If I am in need of the money, feel I have no recourse but to be there then I am going to look at it as a client engagement and am going in with the mindset of making a sale. If however I am financially comfortable I am going in with the knowledge that if I am unhappy I can leave at any time, I have the ability to not only walk on the client but the industry if I so choose so I am going in with the mindset that it's a social engagement and thus I can be myself.
It's also important that the client in those situations knows that if they truly want the lady to be herself that means knowing that she is falliable and that we have all the faults any human has. Things that someone can hide during a 3 hour engagement are simply far to taxing to do for an entire week, if a client accepts that then it's very easy to be oneself with them.

 

[out4fun]

it tastes just fine

Ihave no problem with the taste. I've taken the whole shot right in my mouth on several occassions. The first time was at the request of a girl that wanted to see it done. She had me lay on my back, and then pull my legs over my head, and then she helped me release right into my mouth. It felt really slutty.I also found out, that when I was really relaxed, I was able to suck myself in this position.

QUOTE=centreofmass]Jenn, I can say with certainty that I have NEVER tasted my own cum, nor have I ever had the urge to try it. That's why I ask the ladies how it tastes, and so far, they have all said that it tastes great!
Of course, I would love to also get your opinion

Btw, excellent thread! The best thread yet, on terb.[/QUOTE]

 

[Carrie Moon]

Yep, I disagree.

My longest appt. was 14 days and I had a fantastic time, I've also done many one week and under appts. and didn't have any issues.
I think the trick to a successful engagement is to manage client expectations and to ensure that you are financially free to do as you choose, the pressure of money should not be a deciding factor in anything one does if it is then you'll often make compromises that one isn't comfortable with.

In advance of a long call I ensure that the client and I have had a conversation about his expectations and what I can realistically offer. Basically we interview each other, I have to source his needs and expectations for the visit and clearly communicate my own. I also have to be clear that on a long engagement I do have needs and expectations that I might not have during a 3 hour appt., so the client has to be aware that the lady he sees for short durations is only part of the package he gets on a longer trip. Many clients enjoy that you will be relaxing and being yourself, others do not, they want the fantasy of the woman catering to them 24/7. Some ladies can provide that type of experience but I know that over the course of a week I cannot and making sure the client understands that is key.

I do agree that one should not travel with someone they don't know but if that type of arrangement has been made then taking steps to source their expectations and communicating your own limitations is paramount.

I believe it's possible to be yourself when being a paid companion, many clients actually prefer that to a persona. It's not easy however to be oneself and money cannot be the influencing factor. If I am in need of the money, feel I have no recourse but to be there then I am going to look at it as a client engagement and am going in with the mindset of making a sale. If however I am financially comfortable I am going in with the knowledge that if I am unhappy I can leave at any time, I have the ability to not only walk on the client but the industry if I so choose so I am going in with the mindset that it's a social engagement and thus I can be myself.
It's also important that the client in those situations knows that if they truly want the lady to be herself that means knowing that she is falliable and that we have all the faults any human has. Things that someone can hide during a 3 hour engagement are simply far to taxing to do for an entire week, if a client accepts that then it's very easy to be oneself with them.

I'm glad you have had such success.. but I still believe it's highly unrealistic to expect most to go well.. hell I've had bad and good experiences with boyfriends/best friends etc as I'm sure have most people when spending time 24/7.. it can ruin a friendship. My last vacation was fabulous as I went with a friend I've traveled with many times before and we are compatible.

It's one thing if you can get away if things go awry.. but if you are on a ship together? not a good plan. Not saying it can't work out.. just not likely. Michael.. perhaps you should take Kyra

 

[Rockslinger]

This has probably already been asked, BUT, anyway. "How did you get started in this Business?

I started a thread on this subject a short while back. A lot of interesting feedback from the ladies.

 

[Rockslinger]

Maybe we are starting to scrap the bottom of the barrel on questions. I have a couple more.

1) Have you ever met a man with 3 testicles or one or none?

2) Are you lefthanded?

 

[Jasmine Love]

It's been mentioned by a few terbites that many SPs and dancers have
black boyfriends.

Any particular reason?

Black men have swag, style and big packages. Happy? lol

 

[jetwolf]

What's the most number of SOG's a client had in a session? How long was the session?

On the flip side, what's the most number of times you came in a session?

 

[fmauhv]

It has been 2 days since I told Gen how hot she is!!!lol This thread is dying and I thought I would try and revise it!!

 

[fmauhv]

Revive, my bad

 

[ex icarus]

I've run into a few SPs who I suspected were lesbians in their private lives (not just bi). It makes some sense in that they are probably better able to separate the physical and emotional aspects of the sex. So my question is, how common are lesbian SPs?

One other question: if a good friend of yours complains about being poor would you recommend this job to them?