I got a poll of a different kind, if you know what I mean :eyebrows:they can`t all be pics of my ass ... c`mon lol ... did you guys vote in the poll?
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?411048-Sweet-Jessica-s-New-Sig-Pic
maybe we should have a new one ...
Seeing SP off the clock
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Just voted. Damn, the majority prefers the new pic. I still like the old one.https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?411048-Sweet-Jessica-s-New-Sig-Pic
no I didn`t set it up ... but maybe we should do it again ...
Well, not blacklisted, branded
In my case, it took Loki a few hundred hours on the clock to convince me being with him was fun , safe, consistent, and something I wanted to explore. When I decided to let our relation go beyond financial. I basically told him I would never let him book me again. If he had not remained a gentleman and left he would never have seen me again
.But he did accept my decision and I ran after him to the elevator and asked him if he needed a girlfriend. It was a huge pain for both of us to get over how we met. And all the advice I got from other girls here was extremely valuable.
Not true...if you see an escort enough time and you both enjoy eachothers time , there can be something more, if you treat her as just another hole to stick your dick in, you will get the business attitude, but if you genuinely find that both parties enjoy eachothers company then it can lead to something more,
It isn't that difficult to figure out...if the escort enjoys your company to the point where she initiates the offer for a dinner out sometime...then its off the clock...mind you it wouldn't hurt to confirm this before hand to be sure there isn't any miscommunication.
If the guy initiates the offer she is entitled to be compensated for her time and companionship
Surprise, Surprise!
Some women actually enjoy the company of some of the men they meet.
The chemistry between them becomes more important than any sort of $$$ exchanged because the woman feels appreciated, respected and valued.
Might not happen often but whoa!, it does happen.
Believe it or not - even in the 'business' - a woman likes a particular man enough so that the companionship of the man becomes more important than the $$$.
At a certain point, a woman can no longer escort. It has nothing to do with age. It has everything to do with what that woman wants her life to be.
Some women actually enjoy the company of some of the men they meet.
The chemistry between them becomes more important than any sort of $$$ exchanged because the woman feels appreciated, respected and valued.
Might not happen often but whoa!, it does happen.
Believe it or not - even in the 'business' - a woman likes a particular man enough so that the companionship of the man becomes more important than the $$$.
At a certain point, a woman can no longer escort. It has nothing to do with age. It has everything to do with what that woman wants her life to be.
I see most women when I go to Montreal on business. I got into the habit of scheduling my sp's to arrive at 7 pm, for 2 hours usually, after which I would eat. I typically saw Indy's or a high end girl from French Kiss who typically only saw 1 client a night. It was not unusual for them to suggest a bite to eat as they were getting ready to leave. All off the clock but of course I paid for the meal. On the rare occasion I wanted a "dinner date" with sex and food I paid the normal hourly rate for the whole time without question. I think that's only fair.
I'm not someone who needs to be seen in public with eye-candy so my own opinion is that paying $300 or $350 an hour to eat is not good value for money no matter how sparkling a wit she is.
I'm not someone who needs to be seen in public with eye-candy so my own opinion is that paying $300 or $350 an hour to eat is not good value for money no matter how sparkling a wit she is.
I think I'll cast Olivia Munn:Well, not blacklisted, branded
In my case, it took Loki a few hundred hours on the clock to convince me being with him was fun , safe, consistent, and something I wanted to explore. When I decided to let our relation go beyond financial. I basically told him I would never let him book me again. If he had not remained a gentleman and left he would never have seen me again
But he did accept my decision and I ran after him to the elevator and asked him if he needed a girlfriend. It was a huge pain for both of us to get over how we met. And all the advice I got from other girls here was extremely valuable.
for mrsCALoki in the movie version, since they're both partially Chinese.
Who would portray Loki?
Michael York?
Ron Wood?
Eddie Izzard?
Eric Braeden?
Tom Hiddleston?
???????
+1, very well said. Had one SP about 5 yrs ago who just wanted to come over and cuddle cuz she hated sleeping alone at the hotel.
Here is an interesting one. A lady doctor friend of mine bumped into her lawayer who handled her divorce case a yr or so ago and sat together in the subway train. They chit chatted and discussed a bit about how things were going after divorce and such and she got some advices from him. She thought it was a social talk. Haha.. she got a bill from him the following week for consulting fee.
They chit chatted and discussed a bit about how things were going after divorce and such and she got some advices from him. She thought it was a social talk. Haha.. she got a bill from him the following week for consulting fee.[/QUOTE]
Guess she didn't ensure it was "off the clock"...:wink:
Guess she didn't ensure it was "off the clock"...:wink:
Its simple: Want dinner/drinks with a lady, find a civilian. Want sex, hire an escort. End of story. P.S. even if an escort has dinner with you, give up the fantasy/delusion, they are not interested in dating you.
escort fees and lawyers fees per hour are the same
So we can say escort fees and lawyers fees per hour are the same ?
So we can say escort fees and lawyers fees per hour are the same ?
Pretty much, I think people need to remember that this businesss at the end of the day and this is bread and butter for most providers, it should'nt be expected that a provider should offer her free time to anyone, ultimately it is up to the provider how she spends her free time. If one is looking for someone's free time this is the wrong place to find it.
I will say most providers charge less then their regular hourly rates for dinner dates. I believe if a provider can afford to give some free quality either if it is added free time to a session, lunch or dinner she will give some of her free time. It depends on her relationship with her client, also that she is not losing business else where.
I will say most providers charge less then their regular hourly rates for dinner dates. I believe if a provider can afford to give some free quality either if it is added free time to a session, lunch or dinner she will give some of her free time. It depends on her relationship with her client, also that she is not losing business else where.
"Clothes off / clock on - Clothes on / clock off."
This approach has been fail-safe for me. I also have no expectation that an sp will want to spend her time with me off the clock because as Olivia says it is a business for her, and recreation for me. Therefore i respect her right to manage herself and her business as she sees fit. The many times that "off the clock time " has happened though it just seems to happen organically typically after a great session. Those experiences have now built up to more bookings with regular ladies where we are both more liberal with our time (yes I value my time too and in the ladies cases they are happy to offer some off the clock time, lunch, dinner, etc...) because we are comfortable hanging out.
Its really not all that complicated.
This approach has been fail-safe for me. I also have no expectation that an sp will want to spend her time with me off the clock because as Olivia says it is a business for her, and recreation for me. Therefore i respect her right to manage herself and her business as she sees fit. The many times that "off the clock time " has happened though it just seems to happen organically typically after a great session. Those experiences have now built up to more bookings with regular ladies where we are both more liberal with our time (yes I value my time too and in the ladies cases they are happy to offer some off the clock time, lunch, dinner, etc...) because we are comfortable hanging out.
Its really not all that complicated.
