Seeing SP off the clock

[Katewinters]

I don't know why some people are getting so grumpy?

Escorts get paided for there time, so if you want to spend 4-5 hours with a sp you contacted then it should be compensated, unless the lady offers getting a drink afterwards with you?

If you can find a lady who willing to do that for free, great! But it shouldn't be expected that they are going to spend. Time with you for free, but greatly appericated if its offered

 

[testind]

I don't know why some people are getting so grumpy?

Escorts get paided for there time, so if you want to spend 4-5 hours with a sp you contacted then it should be compensated, unless the lady offers getting a drink afterwards with you?

If you can find a lady who willing to do that for free, great! But it shouldn't be expected that they are going to spend. Time with you for free, but greatly appericated if its offered

Escorts not only get paid for their time, but also for the type of sexual service provided, ie:BBBj, Greek, all differ in price. Just like a massage therapist charges for time, and type of massage.

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

Escorts not only get paid for their time, but also for the type of sexual service provided, ie:BBBj, Greek, all differ in price. Just like a massage therapist charges for time, and type of massage.

and you were doing so well hon.

the key word is AND as in both. So a lady can charge for both and adjust the rate for both. You just admitted it.

 

[toughb]

You really want to date an SP? I mean you really, really like her from what you see.

Firstly don't book her.

Get to know her through PMs, chat etc.

Let time pass and see if you're both enjoying the time you spend talking.

Then ask her out. Ask her to go to something different. Possibly a play and dinner. Meet her some where. Don't pick her up. Ensure she knows there is no sex involved and that you like her. Yes her. If it's free sex you're after forget it.

You're now not a client and you have a shot at becoming something special. A companion that she knows likes her.

Good luck.

 

[Klute]

Tough B,

That would only work if she gave you a non work email address and made it clear it was an off the clock arrangement. Otherwise it's safe to assume that when you make a date with an escort it is a pfp arrangement. Didn't an SP on the board (not sweet petite Jessica) have this scenaio backfire on her recently? No wonder the girls are gun shy.

You want a date then go on POV.

Klute

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

Tough B,

That would only work if she gave you a non work email address and made it clear it was an off the clock arrangement. Otherwise it's safe to assume that when you make a date with an escort it is a pfp arrangement. Didn't petite Jessica have this scenaio backfire on her recently? No wonder the girls are gun shy.

You want a date then go on POV.

Klute

I dont think it was her I think is was .... I want to say Celeste maybe. It was a lady with a mins. rate rate for dinner and play. I remember that thread. well remember it "ish"

 

[Klute]

Some SP went on a dinner call, did the hotel room visit after and then got stiffed as the guy claimed he did did not realize it was a bought/paid for encounter.

Klute

 

[Klute]

Thanks for the clarification, SPJ. By the way I miss the 'bottoms up' signature pic.

Klute

 

[toughb]

Tough B,

That would only work if she gave you a non work email address and made it clear it was an off the clock arrangement. Otherwise it's safe to assume that when you make a date with an escort it is a pfp arrangement. Didn't an SP on the board (not sweet petite Jessica) have this scenaio backfire on her recently? No wonder the girls are gun shy.

You want a date then go on POV.

Klute

From personal experience I can tell you that you can get to know an SP through chat and this boards pm system. There was never a client/SP relationship.

As a rule SPs don't date clients.

 

[testind]

You really want to date an SP? I mean you really, really like her from what you see.

Firstly don't book her.

Get to know her through PMs, chat etc.

Let time pass and see if you're both enjoying the time you spend talking.

Then ask her out. Ask her to go to something different. Possibly a play and dinner. Meet her some where. Don't pick her up. Ensure she knows there is no sex involved and that you like her. Yes her. If it's free sex you're after forget it.

You're now not a client and you have a shot at becoming something special. A companion that she knows likes her.

Good luck.

With many of the posts, it's as though once you pay for play, you will never have a chance to possibly build anything more than just pay for play with these specific sp's. It will from then on, always be business. Almost like you're blacklisted by them.

 

[Curious36]

Had a plumber over to fix a septic issue. He took about an hour to do the job. Friends were over for a bbq and some drinks. After the plumber was done I offered him a beer and a cuban cigar. He accepted, few beers later hes having a good time, nice guy got along well. He is there for about 3 hours and towards the end helping himself to more beer. I didnt think this was a bad thing as he might take this into consideration when sending me the bill. Bill comes and the fucker charged me for the entire 3 hours!! Then again it was his time....hmmmmmmm

 

[oil&gas]

Not that I buy your plumber story but try something similar next time after a
1 hour session with an outcall escort in your residence. Make her stay for two
additional hours and treat her to a few drinks and see if you will get charged
for 1 instead of 3 hours.

Make sure you settle the payment first with your plumber before
you offer him a beer. Plumbers are rarely as mercenary as escorts
and they charge you only according to the amount of plumbing work
done not the number of hours spent.

 

[Curious36]

Not that I buy your plumber story but try something similar next time after a
1 hour session with an outcall escort in your residence. Make her stay for two
additional hours and treat her to a few drinks and see if you will get charged
for 1 instead of 3 hours.

Make sure you settle the payment first with your plumber before

....
you offer him a beer.

True story. Not that I care if you believe but anyhow once bitten twice shy. Obviously will take precautions next time. I told enough people about this incident and his company that I am sure I cost him some business, so we are all good. BTW I was bbqing ribs and chicken which he enjoyed as well. Guess I was naive in assuming....lesson learned...some are just pricks. If Im with escort I EXPECT to pay for all her time weather its a bbq or formal dinner out. I assumed the plumber would be off the clock since it is an entirely different scenario.....

 

[Miss.Lexi]

I don't understand the logic behind many of the arguments here.


Some of the men seem to think that an escort should not be compensated for dinner/drink time.
Now, I would agree, if the lady asked the man out (as said in the original post). However, if the
man (as a client), asks the lady out for dinner and drinks, then he is taking up her time with the
expectation that she will be attentive. If this is the case, then why is it not considered "service
rendered", and not requiring a compensation?


I shake my head when I read some of the men's responses. Do some of you guys even understand
the premise of this forum? Escorting is a "Pay for Time" industry. If free time is what you're looking
for, then you should really try eHarmony or PoF


On that note; I'm still available tonight, so if any gentlemen is willing to pay for my "time", then call me

 

[toughb]

I don't understand the logic behind many of the arguments here.


Some of the men seem to think that an escort should not be compensated for dinner/drink time.
Now, I would agree, if the lady asked the man out (as said in the original post). However, if the
man (as a client), asks the lady out for dinner and drinks, then he is taking up her time with the
expectation that she will be attentive. If this is the case, then why is it not considered "service
rendered", and not requiring a compensation?


I shake my head when I read some of the men's responses. Do some of you guys even understand
the premise of this forum? Escorting is a "Pay for Time" industry. If free time is what you're looking
for, then you should really try eHarmony or PoF


On that note; I'm still available tonight, so if any gentlemen is willing to pay for my "time", then call me

Pay; time; next thing you know you'll want us to bring the condominium...

 

[testind]

I don't understand the logic behind many of the arguments here.


Some of the men seem to think that an escort should not be compensated for dinner/drink time.
Now, I would agree, if the lady asked the man out (as said in the original post). However, if the
man (as a client), asks the lady out for dinner and drinks, then he is taking up her time with the
expectation that she will be attentive. If this is the case, then why is it not considered "service
rendered", and not requiring a compensation?


I shake my head when I read some of the men's responses. Do some of you guys even understand
the premise of this forum? Escorting is a "Pay for Time" industry. If free time is what you're looking
for, then you should really try eHarmony or PoF


On that note; I'm still available tonight, so if any gentlemen is willing to pay for my "time", then call me

You'd be surprised how many service providers push you out the door, the moment you blow your load! Even when still have many minutes left!!

 

[pointz]

variety is the spice of life my friend ... don't you like this pic too?

I like the one before better as well.

 

[pointz]

I was wondering what your experience has been with seeing SPs off the clock. Sometime when I hit it off, they are willing to go have dinner or drinks off the clock. In fact, I have one regular who always insists that I take her out for a nice dinner and then go back to her place for an hour session. She doesn't charge me for the time spent outside of the bedroom. Other ladies insist on charging their regular rate regardless of whether it's in or out of the bed. I know it's all business but I feel a little odd that I should have to pay the same rate when I'm the one entertaining, especially if they like to drink. Can you share your experience?

You should probably just do whatever you're comfortable with. If you don't feel that paying the same rate for outside of the bedroom time is fair, then go out with the lady who doesn't charge that.

 

[outlander]

You pay for the SPs time. What happens in that time(food, movies, sex, etc) is decided between the two or three of you. It's not that hard to understand.

Only exception is if the SP tells you that she wants/decides to hang out with you as "friends" and not a client, since you might be her long time regular. But don't assume she's that into you just because she compliments you on your huge throbbing dick and tells you how awesome you are.

Just because you are paying for GFE, it doesn't make her your real life girlfriend.

 

[pointz]

did you guys vote in the poll?

Did you set it up? I will vote! I like this pic too, but the one before was better .