Like previously mentioned, this is a “hobby” or often referred to as such. I’d love to collect classic cars, but I can’t afford that hobby. I don’t partake in that in which I can not afford.
Well said.Like previously mentioned, this is a “hobby” or often referred to as such. I’d love to collect classic cars, but I can’t afford that hobby. I don’t partake in that in which I can not afford.
This is it right here. This is a hobby for you guys. A luxury item. I know men feel they will die without sex but technically you can live without it.Like previously mentioned, this is a “hobby” or often referred to as such. I’d love to collect classic cars, but I can’t afford that hobby. I don’t partake in that in which I can not afford.
I think you use the word "communism" without fully understanding what it means.as someone mentioned earlier in the thread, Toronto is the place to go.. nothing here in the Wasteland, only a cpl good ladies, Ifuseek, Mimi and maybe 1 or 2 others. I make the drive to Scarb or Markham anytime. Not so worried about the gas prices, is what it is, no point in complaining about it, communism at is best is setting in and said for a yrs. not getting in to politics.
I have a feeling I'd quite enjoy being milked by youWe are not just to milk you guys for the most we can, we are just trying to avoid a pay cut.
You expect women having sex with strangers (sometimes injuring their back, legs, neck, and orifices) to work for what someone makes at Walmart (an establishment I refuse to patronize for myriad reasons) ??Just for my understanding, independent SPs that live in the region, host in same places, get paid in cash/no taxes, earn more than regular folks e.g. people breaking their backs and legs in Walmart. Then how is 40 to 50% increase in rates justified?
You expect women having sex with strangers (sometimes injuring their back, legs, neck, and orifices) to work for what someone makes at Walmart (an establishment I refuse to patronize for myriad reasons) ??
I love sex, but I can't imagine having to do it for a living, having sex with people I would never fuck for free or even by choice. Imagine fucking people who degrade you, force their cock down your throat and get off by hearing you gag. or some fat guy pounding you like a piece of meat instead of a human being. I'm not knocking rough sex if it truly is mutually enjoyable, but you're paying for a complete package. If you want to pay old rates, you're going to get women who are either desperate (addicted and / or pimped out) or you're going to get scammed. I tried to play cheapskate in my 20s and all that happened was that I got blacklisted among any of the women I actually WANTED to see. (different city, MUCH different time - pre-internet)
BTW. There is no communism happening. This is a perfect example of what happens in a free market economy. Commodity prices are set by oligarchs and speculators. Taxes are the price we pay for a civilized society. I'm beyond grateful to live in this country and I prefer to look at what I have instead of what I don't have.
Agree totally... my 2 cents.. with rising inflation, if you got anything left over for hobbying then have at her... I should say 3 cents... price went up!You expect women having sex with strangers (sometimes injuring their back, legs, neck, and orifices) to work for what someone makes at Walmart (an establishment I refuse to patronize for myriad reasons) ??
I love sex, but I can't imagine having to do it for a living, having sex with people I would never fuck for free or even by choice. Imagine fucking people who degrade you, force their cock down your throat and get off by hearing you gag. or some fat guy pounding you like a piece of meat instead of a human being. I'm not knocking rough sex if it truly is mutually enjoyable, but you're paying for a complete package. If you want to pay old rates, you're going to get women who are either desperate (addicted and / or pimped out) or you're going to get scammed. I tried to play cheapskate in my 20s and all that happened was that I got blacklisted among any of the women I actually WANTED to see. (different city, MUCH different time - pre-internet)
BTW. There is no communism happening. This is a perfect example of what happens in a free market economy. Commodity prices are set by oligarchs and speculators. Taxes are the price we pay for a civilized society. I'm beyond grateful to live in this country and I prefer to look at what I have instead of what I don't have.
Speaking from First hand(or is it mouth) knowledge....I have a feeling I'd quite enjoy being milked by you
With gas up, I can't afford to drive into town to hobby as much so if they jack up prices too much I'll pay more out my way and save the drive.I couldn’t help but lay it out there to understand how others are feeling. Gone are the days of $120hh to $140hh in Durham. The SPs seem to be raising their prices in the range of $160hh to $200hh. I understand in the west end the prices were already jacked up and they have voluminous SPs. I’m just concerned for both the availability of SPs in Durham and our affordability. It’s not like our income is also going up to match inflating prices, thanks to taxes. Hobbying affordability comes with extra cash/leftover.
Also heard from Pickering Angels, last week’s visit, that their prices are going up and N/NR options will be removed.
How are you guys feeling about these price hikes and affordability of hobbling in our region?
I often see 3 a weekI personally never had any issues with what an sp charges. I pay what is asked. Everything else seems to be going up these days so its expected that sp's would be charging more too. If your a guy that usually sees 1-3 sp's a month cut your hobby time down to 1 sp a month if its becoming too unafforablr. For a lot of girls being an sp is their sole source of income so they feel the pinch of paying more for everything even moreso then a guy who partakes in this hobby.
Lol, be sure to post reviews of toftt experiences with new or younger providers. With rising rates, it’s more important than ever to share information to avoid flushing your money down the toilet.I often see 3 a week
I totally agree with your post!! I am being selective on who I see for many reasons,some of which you mentioned in your post,but the biggest reason I’m only seeing regulars is becuz I am looking for reliability and my regulars have shown reliability over the yrs!! Considering I’m only around for a little bit (I have 2 part time jobs now) I don’t want to deal with “no shows” and “time wasters “!!!!I get that it is hard right now. You guys are not making more and cost of living has gone up leaving less money in your hobby pocket. But it is your hobby pocket. A luxury item. Our expenses just to make money have gone up. Double the gas, 50% more in hotel costs, ad fees have gone up etc. This is our overhead. So to make our same salary as last year or two years - we have to raise rates. One is luxury spending vrs expense spending. We are not making more. We didn’t get a raise, we are just trying to cover the increased cost of our expenses. Not even for the higher cost of living. Just to cover costs.
For example. It cost me an extra $100 in gas to go to Ottawa a couple of weeks ago. Hotel was about $150 more then last year over the 3 nights. If I don’t raise my rates then I am making $250 less this trip then past trips. If I raise my rates $20, then that expense number difference gets partially covered and while I still make less, it is not by as much.
We are not just to milk you guys for the most we can, we are just trying to avoid a pay cut.
I want to also point out that this Durham attitude of “if we don’t pay, they will lower their rates” as not worked. All it has done is make Durham a wasteland. We had multiple agencies, several indies and touring ladies. Now there are no agencies (C&E is not an agency really) barely any touring ladies and only a select few of regular indies who live and therefore work in Durham for convenience of location. So be careful that you guys don’t drive everyone out completely. I personally will only see regulars now in Durham because I can’t stand all the hagglers here. It is a big difference from other locations just FYI. It is turning off escorts from this area.
These past 2 years has been a game changerI totally agree with your post!! I am being selective on who I see for many reasons,some of which you mentioned in your post,but the biggest reason I’m only seeing regulars is becuz I am looking for reliability and my regulars have shown reliability over the yrs!! Considering I’m only around for a little bit (I have 2 part time jobs now) I don’t want to deal with “no shows” and “time wasters “!!!!
My rates went up by $20 to cover the cost of my incall situation so technically “my rates” haven’t gone up..
Thanx for posting jenesis
TERB accounts for maybe 20% of us that see SPs. We are not God lolLol, be sure to post reviews of toftt experiences with new or younger providers. With rising rates, it’s more important than ever to share information to avoid flushing your money down the toilet.
just posted a bad toftt myself this morning to alert others
There are alot of lassies in Oshawa that charge normal rates. 120-140 for half hour. Be selective and you will find normal girls. Even 100. Not difficult. They have expenses too. Not greedy providers are bestTERB accounts for maybe 20% of us that see SPs. We are not God lol