You sound like a real catch. "If they don't like fucking ugly dudes, they shouldn't sell sex".
It's THEIR body. They can CHOOSE who to fuck. I used to have a few regulars who made me feel like a king and I'm a middle-aged fat fuck with a small dick. I know it's fantasy and not an authentic relationship, but I treated them kindly and asked how they liked me to do things.
Sometimes they are ticklish, or sensitive, or even anxious. Sometimes a gentle backrub or a foot massage is all it takes for a woman to feel appreciated and see beyond the purely physical. It helps that my face is decent, mind you, but I've been told by a few SPs that they would rather spend time with someone who treats them like a whole person than a better looking asshole on a power trip. Whether that's true or not, my experience has left me more than satisfied with those kinds of woman.