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LostCost

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You speak wisdom. This race to the bottom only reinforces the idea of accepting exploitation instead of understanding that sex workers deserve to keep up with the cost of living. Its the same mentality I encounter when trying to book gigs for my side hustle and people offer me what I got paid in 1985. Then I"M the asshole because I wont do setup, soundcheck, three sets , pack-up and teardown for $100 (usually tying up my time from 6PM-3AM, not including travel time).

These women are putting your dick in their mouth, or down their throat, often getting your cum in their throat. They're also getting pounded by unattractive guys (or fat guys such as yours truly). Look at their overhead costs, then factor in what their job is. whether they enjoy their job is irrelevant - they don't deserve to be devalued. People will say to me "If you want that much you won't work very often." or "I thought playing music was fun. Besides, you're already making good money.". My side hustle is fun because I play what I want, with whom I want, for people I want. If I'm playing overplayed covers in a bar for drunks, that isn't fun. My pay scale is based on how much I will enjoy the gig. What's my point? I have often said that if I'm going to be a musical prostitute, I'm damned well going to be a highly paid musical prostitute. I can almost guarantee that the people complaining the most about SP rates aren't as hot or charming as they think they are.

I can't afford to hobby very often, and my little soldier needs help to stand at attention so when I do, I'm happy to spend the money for a woman who is cool to be with and who knows I value her as a human being. That connection increases the odds of a satisfying time for both of us. Instead of looking for the cheapest session, I'm perfectly content to indulge less often.
They fuck dudes in their personal lives raw for free so if they don't like fucking ugly dudes, they shouldn't sell sex. I wouldn't mind the price increase if services were decent, but nowadays, a lot of SPs are charging more for less.
 

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Harsh reality is, this sounds like a “you” problem. SPs are also facing inflation. While I’m not a fan of cost of living and inflation going up vs pay increase for most jobs, that isn’t the SPs fault. If they’re still getting reliable and frequent service seekers then the price increase isn’t unwarranted.
thing is once inflation comes down will th esp prices go back down I think not as people will have to get used to paying more and hence prices will stick or you choose not to go or you wont be able too because you have less money at the end of each month to spend on it
 
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LostCost

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thing is once inflation comes down will th esp prices go back down I think not as people will have to get used to paying more and hence prices will stick or you choose not to go or you wont be able too because you have less money at the end of each month to spend on it
I'm black so I can't even see them anyways.
 

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I'm black so I can't even see them anyways.
Is that why you appear so angry at escorts? Not all of us refuse black guys but you seem to have us all labeled the same.
 
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While I still stand by my previous comment on this thread, only thing I’ve still tried to wrap my head around is how some SPs charge the same prices as GFE/PSE providers for nothing but a Cbj and Fs only 🤷‍♂️ 160-200 hh doesn’t make sense for that. From a marketing perspective, charging the same or more for less than the competition/other businesses around you doesn’t seem like a smart business decision because clients will just go where they get more for their money. Idk just something I have noticed recently, not trying to bash or talk shit, just an observation.
 
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LostCost

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Is that why you appear so angry at escorts? Not all of us refuse black guys but you seem to have us all labeled the same.
I'm referring to the girls who charge 200hh for cbj and full service. The statement I previously said is the truth, and i'm not angry. Just take a look at their onlyfans.
 
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I'm referring to the girls who charge 200hh for cbj and full service. The statement I previously said is the truth, and i'm not angry. Just take a look at their onlyfans.
I don’t see a reason why black guys even need this site. They are so gifted down there, girls should be throwing themselves at them. These guys don’t even need to work hard unlike the rest of us lol I wish I was black, I would take pride looking down and elsewhere (mostly physically fit). :)
 

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I don’t see a reason why black guys even need this site. They are so gifted down there, girls should be throwing themselves at them. These guys don’t even need to work hard unlike the rest of us lol I wish I was black, I would take pride looking down and elsewhere (mostly physically fit). :)
The average length for black people is 14.75 cm, by comparison, the average white dicks is at 14.5 cm. Black dicks are less than 2% bigger than white dicks on average.

Here is some science for you instead of your outdated stereotypes:

Like how do you think your statement makes all the black people who have average and below average sized dicks? Did you ever think how you are putting them down with your abnormal porn expectations?
 
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LostCost

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I don’t see a reason why black guys even need this site. They are so gifted down there, girls should be throwing themselves at them. These guys don’t even need to work hard unlike the rest of us lol I wish I was black, I would take pride looking down and elsewhere (mostly physically fit). :)
Not necessary. I sometimes feel like being black has a negative effect on my sex life because i am not the ideal black guy. I know the no black has nothing to do with race, but lets be real here, I highly doubt that SPs only have bad experiences with black men.
 

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Not necessary. I sometimes feel like being black has a negative effect on my sex life because i am not the ideal black guy. I know the no black has nothing to do with race, but lets be real here, I highly doubt that SPs only have bad experiences with black men.
You aren’t lying man. I’m black and I have the same issue. I don’t believe they only had bad experiences at all with only black men. It’s the stereotype unfortunately
 

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I highly doubt that SPs only have bad experiences with black men.
The issue wouldn't be having all their bad experiences be with black men, but the odds. Rightly or wrong that would be the thing.

People too often have this all or nothing thing. Sure dating a single mother can work out and dating someone without kids can blow up in your face, but unless you are desperate, why take the chance.
 

LostCost

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Yeah man I can agree with that
I've heard a lot of reasons. Here are a few:
  1. Dicks are too big
  2. I don't want other clients to think I have a pimp
  3. Most pimps are black men
  4. Black guys are too aggressive in bed
  5. Black guys don't like condoms
  6. Black men always try to lowball or refuse to pay
  7. Black men are rude
  8. Scared of getting robbed
Some of them are valid/true, but some are just ridiculous!
 

Jarrett5150

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I've heard a lot of reasons. Here are a few:
  1. Dicks are too big
  2. I don't want other clients to think I have a pimp
  3. Most pimps are black men
  4. Black guys are too aggressive in bed
  5. Black guys don't like condoms
  6. Black men always try to lowball or refuse to pay
  7. Black men are rude
  8. Scared of getting robbed
Some of them are valid/true, but some are just ridiculous!
Lmao this is so true 😂😂😂
 

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They fuck dudes in their personal lives raw for free so if they don't like fucking ugly dudes, they shouldn't sell sex. I wouldn't mind the price increase if services were decent, but nowadays, a lot of SPs are charging more for less.
You sound like a real catch. "If they don't like fucking ugly dudes, they shouldn't sell sex".
It's THEIR body. They can CHOOSE who to fuck. I used to have a few regulars who made me feel like a king and I'm a middle-aged fat fuck with a small dick. I know it's fantasy and not an authentic relationship, but I treated them kindly and asked how they liked me to do things.

Sometimes they are ticklish, or sensitive, or even anxious. Sometimes a gentle backrub or a foot massage is all it takes for a woman to feel appreciated and see beyond the purely physical. It helps that my face is decent, mind you, but I've been told by a few SPs that they would rather spend time with someone who treats them like a whole person than a better looking asshole on a power trip. Whether that's true or not, my experience has left me more than satisfied with those kinds of woman.
 
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