As the OP of this thread, I just want to say that I think that based on the conversations had in here that it does rely heavily on quality. I for one am more than happy to spend whatever ladies like Amber, Jenesis, ifyouseekamy, KK, Gianna, Xina, Ashlee, Nikki Jameson, Heidi, etc etc charge because I know they're credible. However, here in Durham we are in the middle of a conundrum.
On one hand, we have a lot of scammers who rob clients or bait and switch us either with services not being provided that were agreed to or getting a completely different lady at the door than we were expecting. This problem is two-fold because it affects both the legitimate ladies working as well as us clients. These scammer SPs charge all variety of price points. They can range anywhere from $80-$400/hh. So it automatically says to us as clients that price is not indicative of quality or legitimacy. This then affects you legit ladies because any new clients who have faced this issue are immediately skeptical of every provider going forward unless they know to look somewhere like here to find out, which most men don't.
I think if we all worked together, clients and legit SPs, to try to rid Durham of these scammers by reporting ads enough to get them taken down, placing anonymous tips to crime stoppers, etc when we can, it would go a long way to tell them they aren't welcome here. While I understand that sounds ludacris, if we don't do something about it they will just eventually be all that's left. All our lovely ladies will either move on or be the only reliable providers left aside from scammers.
On the other hand, you have cheap, low-balling, trolling, fake booking, bad clients. Which again is a two-fold problem. The fact is there are more bad clients/potential clients than there are good ones. Now, unfortunately, I don't know how much is good clients can do to help our ladies with that. If any of you ladies have any ideas, please feel free to share. But, off the top of my head, the best thing I can think of is for SPs to automatically block and not entertain any of those clients as best as possible. I know most of you already do this. But I also know others who just try to ignore and disregard these clients. Maybe ladies can work better together to bring more good SPs to advertise here on terb? Maybe SPs can work towards supporting each other (even if they don't work together directly) in some ways instead of competing? But these are the clients who keep us from having more of the good ladies here. They're just as bad as the scammers. They drive good SPs away with their bullshit.
Idk I'm really just spilling my brain vomit on to the page rn. This is such a complex issue here in Durham that I'm not quite sure how much can be done.