I too have the same question Maya! I know that I don't walk around with a huge smile on my face (only because I never used to smile a lot when I was in my teens - bad teeth lol..) but I know that I am very friendly and courteous when people do talk to me. I always have a smile (unless they are scary) and I'm very animated because it doesn't happen very often! Haha... I know that I don't have a frightening appearance - heck, plenty of older ladies approach me to ask me for directions, or for help with bags or just to strike up a conversation so, what the hell is wrong with men in this city? I
always have old black men, 14 year olds, high-rastafari, or 'Be-My-African-Goddess' types approaching me - I kid you not. I have to beat them off with a stick
I am old fashioned as well, and do very well when men approach me however, the thought of me approaching a guy is.... frightening almost? lol.... I am quite shy and really would have no damned idea what to say when I approach a guy. Heck, when I read Tboy's post about approaching guys, I tried to replicate a conversation in my head in which I would approach a guy.
Noir: "Hi, I'm Noir nice to meet you"
Man: "Hi, how are you Noir?"
Noir: "Not too shabby, yourself?"
Man: "I'm having a lovely day."
DEAD PAN AWKWARD SILENCE
Noir: "Ah...well... it was nice meeting you" *Sweating with nervous smile*
I have no damned idea what to say! lol.... (Approaching ladies is a different story. ^_-)
So to conclude my rant...Please men of Toronto - I'm begging you! Chat it up with the single ladies! Some of them need you too.