Okay, and that's admirable...but again, that involves the guy doing something wrong. In an exact 1:1 scenario, with the genders switched and the friend's partner instead being a client...would you out him?
So a girlfriend I know begins to date a guy I don't know, who is prolific in the lifestyle?
I think I'd still be in the same position...but to be honest I feel less remorse for the guy and I'd probably warn the girl a lot easier.
If they were serious and I knew he was playing her...I'd say it one time and it's up to her to decide.
If I knew them both...maybe a different story.
Apples with apples. I don't know the guy, and I know the girl...you betcha
And not in a tattle tail I'm telling on you screaming it out kinda way.
This reminds me of something that happened to me years ago.
Girl sitting on the edge of a bridge. We seen this driving in by a car. We stop. My friend gets out first, and tried to talk this girl off the edge. Did she not jump off right in front of us. Crazy. Still, something had to be said, and I feel we did the right thing. Hard to sleep a couple weeks...
A friend of mine committed suicide on NYE maybe three weeks ago. For all the stuff we did see, and figured it's normal growing pains...I wish I said something.
Life has brought me to a place of not fearing the consequences of directions your heart tells you to go.
I may not have the best ability of textually expressing my complete thoughts to you all here...but I don't think people would want to read something so long anyways.
The point of sayin 'plug' her was to try include all facets of the situation...and get as many people responding.
Plus I'm a bit of a dirty minded boy.