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Yes, but in our stupid, WASP inspired, prudish North American society, the overwhelming notion is still that women have something to give away (Pussy) and the guys have to fight for it. So, the women will 'give away' their goods to the perceived highest suitor. Unfortunately, this is reality, still.... kinda like 1890 Victorian England, lol
Women should grow up and grow some balls, be independent, look for an equal rather than a handsome, rich guy to take care of them.
 
Meister said:
Yes, but in our stupid, WASP inspired, prudish North American society, the overwhelming notion is still that women have something to give away (Pussy) and the guys have to fight for it. So, the women will 'give away' their goods to the perceived highest suitor. Unfortunately, this is reality, still.... kinda like 1890 Victorian England, lol
Women should grow up and grow some balls, be independent, look for an equal rather than a handsome, rich guy to take care of them.
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Canadian and American societies are far less prudish or WASP inspired than they were in the past. It's also worth keeping in mind that Toronto is nowadays very far from a WASP society.
 
If I had to stereotype about the bad women of lavalife, I'd say that indeed, they are all looking for Dr. Brad Pitt (well put). They think that they are god's gift, they've been raised to think that they never have to "settle" for anything in life - especially a man. But they are 40 years old, way past their best before date and most likely never married, never lived with anyone and still think that Dr. Brad Pitt is out there searching for them. I've spoken to enough of them to know, the old phrase, "I won't settle" sets off buzzers and alarm bails - "Bail out" "Bail out". I remember this one chick on LL sent me a note and in the note (and her profile) she wrote, and I quote, "better off alone than poorly accompanied" Excellent. Thanks for the heads up baby. You will be alone the rest of your life.

Fortunately, not all women on LL are like this. Make no mistake, there are LOTS of them, but not all of them.

On the flip side of the coin, if you talk to experienced women from on line dating they will often times tell you the same thing - that a great many of the men want to date every woman (and score with) on there.

The women are all looking for Dr. Brad Pitt and the men are all looking for a treasure trove of pussy.

So the men can be every bit as shallow as the women.

I'd probably generalize that women are looking for it all - tall, goodlooking, well educated, successful, excellent lover, charming, faithful, big cock, clean, excellent dresser - the list is endless.

Men, they just want good looking and we'll cope with the rest.
 
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Women find this pic hilarious because it speaks to them about their frustrations in finding a man for which they don't feel they settled.

Men find it hilarious because it shows how stubborn women are and in being so stubborn in never being willing to compromise - they end up dead and life passes them by.
 
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wetnose said:
A friend of mine once put in a "dream" profile - 25, stolen photo of hunk, white, $120K a year salary, BMW, Bay St. condo, 6ft, and the same text that he regularly used.

Result: 5 PMs received in 20 mins, and he setup a date. He didn't even turn up and the girl said it was OK, and still kept on hassling him for a replacement, rofl.
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I say skip the dating services and go to the Philippines. There you will be tall and rich and have hot young chicks that want to date you.
 
Mr.Doggystyle said:
so to sum it up, best bet is to meet girls in person rather than dating sites
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I never used LL or Match.com much but I did use eHarmony. And the women there seemed to be mostly professional (teachers, RNs, accountants, lawyers, doctors)....the type I'm looking for. They didn't seem to be fake profiles. Great personalities, lot into traveling, reading, exploring the city and so on.....stuff I'd like to do with a partner.

But I figure they're looking for someone who's something "more" than them. So I've now come to the rationalization that if I make $105,000 and she makes $105,000, she's shooting for someone who makes $130,000 AND is a better looker than me.

Because other than that --- I can go toe to toe with any guy out there. I have no problem in holding a 27/28+ year old woman's attention in the bars...but no luck online. And with the bars, I don't know who they are and they don't know me.
 
Samurai Joey said:
I have always felt that the best, most reliable way to meet a compatible woman is to be introduced by friends. If you are, in your own words, relatively well-off financially and not unattractive, you should have plenty of friends likewise, and therefore you should let it be known that you are available, and hence let your friends try to match-make you.
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I agree with the theory that the best way is through friends. But keep in mind, when you're 34....those friends have married up and their friends have married up and everyone's having kids now. So there's not a lot of single friends floating around any more.

Boy, it does get tough if you don't meet someone at university! :(
 
The women are all looking for Dr. Brad Pitt and the men are all looking for a treasure trove of pussy.
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I'm not. I'm looking for something more than that.

But i didn't get too far.

I guess now it'll have to be speed dating because I'm all out of ideas now.
 
Serpent said:
I agree with the theory that the best way is through friends. But keep in mind, when you're 34....those friends have married up and their friends have married up and everyone's having kids now. So there's not a lot of single friends floating around any more.

Boy, it does get tough if you don't meet someone at university! :(
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Good luck trying to get one of your married girlfriends to set you up on dates with some of her single friends. Never gonna happen! This issue is worthy of its own discussion thread. LOL
 
Serpent said:
I'm not. I'm looking for something more than that.

But i didn't get too far.

I guess now it'll have to be speed dating because I'm all out of ideas now.
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Done the online (LL, POF, Match, eHarmony) and speed dating, not much luck there...heard "MeetUp.com" is a place to meet people too.
 
Serpent said:
Hope so. Otherwise we're fucked, no?
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Well a friend I went to school with (and ran into during a speed dating event) met some guy on Meetup (don't know what type of event it was) but in less than a year they are now living together...

It's a hit and miss similar to speed dating...some of the MeetUp events there are mostly guys pending on the type of events...probably best to sign up for events that women enjoy like hiking or wine tasting etc.
 
wetnose said:
A friend of mine once put in a "dream" profile - 25, stolen photo of hunk, white, $120K a year salary, BMW, Bay St. condo, 6ft, and the same text that he regularly used.

Result: 5 PMs received in 20 mins, and he setup a date. He didn't even turn up and the girl said it was OK, and still kept on hassling him for a replacement, rofl.
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I hate to say it and sound cold but I actually was happy to hear about this. It's almost like a litte peice of payback for all of us guys that have been chasing down these women all these years who think they are "God Almighty".
 
black booty lover said:
I hate to say it and sound cold but I actually was happy to hear about this. It's almost like a litte peice of payback for all of us guys that have been chasing down these women all these years who think they are "God Almighty".
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Don't chase 'em. Nobody is worth chasing really.

After trying out online dating....I know it won't work so i don't "chase them". But i had the most hope for online dating because you put your profile up, you have the opportunity to be honest and open and that's not true in a face to face setting where people are adjusting their behavior based on what they think the other person wants/likes.

Anyways......I've realized that women will date guys they feel comfortable with. Maybe we should start taking HR courses. Or RN classes at the local college. Or some activity where there's a chance to socialize with women in THEIR comfort zone. This is why university is such a great place but damn....I was chasing a career back then! :(
 
I never had much luck on the Lavalife website but the Lava chat site and a couple others were a gold mine. Many girls would tell me half the guys couldn't carry a conversation and the other half were obnoxious pigs. I don't think they had a lot to choose from which was great for me. I never did that well just going to bars so I was surprised by the success I had on chat.

We'd chat, then if we liked the sound of each other and what we had to say we'd exchange pictures by e-mail. You can find out a fair bit about a person in a 5 or 10 minute chat.

That was a few years ago so I don't know what they're like now.
 
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