all of these are Sexy/not sappy...
Amy Winehouse - "You know I'm no good", "Me & Mr. Jones
Blank and Jones - "Desire (ambient Mix)
Britney Spears - "Breathe"
Bush -"Glycerine"
Chris Isaac - "Wicked Games"
Dave Matthews - "Crash"
David Usher - "Black Black Heart"
Deftones - "Change (in the house of flies)"
Delerium - "Terra Firma", "Myth", "Silence"
Depeche Mode - "In your Room", "Precious", "Policy of Truth",
Dido - "Who makes You Feel?", "I'm no Angel",
Dirty Vegas - "Days go by"
Duran Duran- "Come Undone"
Ella Fitzgerald - "Fever"
Elysian Fields - "Stop the Sun", "Baby Get Lost", "Live For the Touch", "Shooting Stars", "Black Acres" (the lead singer's (Jennifer Charles) has the sexiest voice ever)
Enigma - "Sadness"
Enya - "Flowers become screens"
Erika Badu - anything
Esther0 - "Superheroes", "I drive alone", "Gone", "If tha Mood"*** (very sexy)
Etta James - "At Last"
Evanescence - "your star'
Feist - "The Water", "Honey Honey"
Fiona Apple - "Criminal", "Slow Like Honey"
Garbage - "Queer", "Stroke of Luck", "Milk", Wicked Ways", "You Look so Fine"
Hooverphonic - "Eden", "Mad about you"
Janet Jackson - "Rope Burn", "Any time, Any place"
Jem - "come on closer"
King Cobb Steelie - "Mayday", "The Situation"
Kylie Monogue - "Slow"
Lenny Kravitz - "I belong to you",
Lovage - "Sex (I'm A)" (,-- sexiest song ever recorded), "Strangers on a train", "Lifeboat"
Madonna - "Erotica", "Justify my Love", "Drowned World", "Skin",
Massive Attack
Maxwell
Mazzy Star - "Fade into You"
Matthew Good - "apparations"
Moby - In this world
Morcheeba - "Otherwise", "The Sea", "Over and Over", "Bulletproof", "Aqualung"
Nelly Furtado - "Say it Right"
Nina Simone - "Feeling Good", "I put a spell on you"
Nine inch nails - Closer
Olive - "miracle"
Otis Redding - "these arms of mine"
Paula Cole - "feeln' Love"
Perfect Circle - "3 Libras"
Pearl Jam - "Black"
Portishead - (entire Dummy Album) especially "Glory Box"
Radiohead - "i might be wrong"
Red Hot chilli peppers - Under the bridge
Robin Thicke - "lost without you"
Requiem for a dream soundrack - theme song
Sarah Mclachlan - Posession, Wait, Ice, unchained melody, silence,
The smiths - "how soon is now
suzzanne vega - caramel
tlc - red light special
toni braxton - you're making me high
tori amos - Enjoy the silence
u2- Loveis blindess, so cruel, groud beneath her feet, with or without you, all i want is you