I don't understand the timeline. You went back to see him at no charge yet you had no feelings for him at that time.
Falling for a SP / SP falling for a client.
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Been there done that bought the t shirt sold it !
I actually ended up in a few serious relationships during my sp days and yes I broke my own golden rule with a client by being in relationship with a few at different times But seriously shit happens when your least expecting it people do fall in love from the weirdest circumstances last I checked I'm human not just a sex machine but those relationships didn't pan out, so nowI find myself cutting off regs that want to get too serious ,once bitten twice shy
I actually ended up in a few serious relationships during my sp days and yes I broke my own golden rule with a client by being in relationship with a few at different times But seriously shit happens when your least expecting it people do fall in love from the weirdest circumstances last I checked I'm human not just a sex machine but those relationships didn't pan out, so nowI find myself cutting off regs that want to get too serious ,once bitten twice shy
Getting your head around dating a girl who has sex for a living isn't that hard. Once you fall for a girl, rationalizing is easy. You simply focus on who and what she is TO YOU. You just don't think about what she does when she's working.
The hard part is dealing with the psychology that comes with the territory. There's a lot of emotional baggage, habits and most importantly, attitudes that get formed from participating in the biz.
The hard part is dealing with the psychology that comes with the territory. There's a lot of emotional baggage, habits and most importantly, attitudes that get formed from participating in the biz.
He must've been hot or just Effie's type and a nice guy to boot. She crossed the line but what the hell. She's young and needs to have her own personal fun too. Eventually, she developed feelings. Lucky guy!
And subordinates should not secretly date the receptionist who's having a secret affair with one of the bosses. (My two cents - yikes!)
I disagree. Its hard for both client and SP... unless both are completely polyamorous by nature, neither would want the other banging anyone but each other.
Anthony Horowitz the author of the "Alex Rider" series.
Point is at what point does seeing your SP become dating your SP. And at what point does dating your SP become routine. Keep it fresh.
Anything is possible, but is it advisable or responsible? I've had a few close-calls, some SP's are remarkable people, but I always think " do I really want to complicate my life this way?" Ivory from Mirage gave me her number and wanted to hang out but then a few months later I learned she was facing criminal charges. Lesson learned.
I know of many escort that have married there clients .
Our private life is just that " our private life" so many are quick to judge .
This is our job , and at the end of our day ,just like your self we go home to our family .
I have no issues with dating a client , as long as they try to change who I am
Our private life is just that " our private life" so many are quick to judge .
This is our job , and at the end of our day ,just like your self we go home to our family .
I have no issues with dating a client , as long as they try to change who I am
Now we all know about my youtube video I did when I was catching feelings for one of my clients, that "crush" lasted about a month then of course my adventures in the male strip club where I was falling hard for a stripper. So not only am I a SP I've also been a client and this whole falling for a client or SP and everything in between is complicated and confusing and at the end of the day we have to remember we are all human (well most of us) There is no fast and hard rules of how to handle being caught up with your feelings and caring and maybe even loving someone.
and honestly the rules and boundaries of that relationship should be handled with the persons involved.
) There is no fast and hard rules of how to handle being caught up with your feelings and caring and maybe even loving someone.and honestly the rules and boundaries of that relationship should be handled with the persons involved.
Sure, but it applies to both parties. Being in the game, this game, for any extended period of time has consequences.
I can understand why someone could fall for Effie within 10 minutes. She's got a bit of everything a guy could want in a women. I have the same kind of mentality, hard to explain but I know within a few minutes if I'm going to like an SP or not. Nothing to do with her appearance or service but some kind of vibe or something I get right after we greet. I too fell for an MPA it lasted 4 years until she moved out of town, hard not seeing her anymore but I wouldn't trade those 4 years for anything.
