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LP191

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While I am seeing posts about cutting down on seeing SP’s.. how about we also brainstorm good ways to have a date and possibly get laid without spending any big money!?

I swear every woman on these dating apps wants to do drinks and some food for a first date, without fail it’s always some restaurant that wants to charge $15 for an appetizer and the rest is uphill from there

Last time I said sure to this idea for a date, the girl didn’t have “her purse” with her at the restaurant.. and after I paid for everything all I got was a kiss in the car and handjob action while we were making out and then she said we gotta wait for date 2 to go further

What did she wanna do for date 2? Drinks again AND A MOVIE… that’s $150 right there

please fill me in on some cheap ways to have a date and still get it in!!
 

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While I am seeing posts about cutting down on seeing SP’s.. how about we also brainstorm good ways to have a date and possibly get laid without spending any big money!?

I swear every woman on these dating apps wants to do drinks and some food for a first date, without fail it’s always some restaurant that wants to charge $15 for an appetizer and the rest is uphill from there

Last time I said sure to this idea for a date, the girl didn’t have “her purse” with her at the restaurant.. and after I paid for everything all I got was a kiss in the car and handjob action while we were making out and then she said we gotta wait for date 2 to go further

What did she wanna do for date 2? Drinks again AND A MOVIE… that’s $150 right there

please fill me in on some cheap ways to have a date and still get it in!!
That's why I always laugh when single guys tell me they have never paid for sex.

Btw maybe it's my old age, but I can count on one hand the number of times I've gotten even an hj on the first date...

Mind you, by date 3 it was usually bbfs (pre-AIDs).

If fs didn't happen by date 3 or 4 I knew it would never happen, so I would stop investing time, effort, and money.
 

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While I am seeing posts about cutting down on seeing SP’s.. how about we also brainstorm good ways to have a date and possibly get laid without spending any big money!?

I swear every woman on these dating apps wants to do drinks and some food for a first date, without fail it’s always some restaurant that wants to charge $15 for an appetizer and the rest is uphill from there

Last time I said sure to this idea for a date, the girl didn’t have “her purse” with her at the restaurant.. and after I paid for everything all I got was a kiss in the car and handjob action while we were making out and then she said we gotta wait for date 2 to go further

What did she wanna do for date 2? Drinks again AND A MOVIE… that’s $150 right there

please fill me in on some cheap ways to have a date and still get it in!!
Wait, you are taking civvie girls out to somewhere fancy on first date?? Just meet up for a coffee or something so you can ditch if she’s not your type, and you are spending 150 per date so by the time you get laid that’s like $450 assuming 3 dates. 😂
 

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April 26. Not too expensive. Not too dangerous. All you need is a light jacket and some loose change.
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LP191

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Wait, you are taking civvie girls out to somewhere fancy on first date?? Just meet up for a coffee or something so you can ditch if she’s not your type, and you are spending 150 per date so by the time you get laid that’s like $450 assuming 3 dates. 😂
Some of these bitches think coffee dates are a shitty thing to do lol
 
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superman2006

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Some of these bitches think coffee dates are a shitty thing to do lol
Move onto next. Don’t play by her rules lol.
 

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That's why I always laugh when single guys tell me they have never paid for sex.

Btw maybe it's my old age, but I can count on one hand the number of times I've gotten even an hj on the first date...

Mind you, by date 3 it was usually bbfs (pre-AIDs).

If fs didn't happen by date 3 or 4 I knew it would never happen, so I would stop investing time, effort, and money.
"Btw maybe it's my old age, but I can count on one hand the number of times I've gotten even an hj on the first date..."

How else would you count it but on one hand?
 

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While I am seeing posts about cutting down on seeing SP’s.. how about we also brainstorm good ways to have a date and possibly get laid without spending any big money!?

I swear every woman on these dating apps wants to do drinks and some food for a first date, without fail it’s always some restaurant that wants to charge $15 for an appetizer and the rest is uphill from there

Last time I said sure to this idea for a date, the girl didn’t have “her purse” with her at the restaurant.. and after I paid for everything all I got was a kiss in the car and handjob action while we were making out and then she said we gotta wait for date 2 to go further

What did she wanna do for date 2? Drinks again AND A MOVIE… that’s $150 right there

please fill me in on some cheap ways to have a date and still get it in!!
😥 $15 appetizers. Maybe if you didn’t take her to Montana's the first date, more than a hj might be forthcoming. 😂

Seriously tho, if you have a bit more of an imagination, you can probably come up with date ideas that won’t empty your wallet, that also will be fun for you both. If the girl is active, or outdoorsy there are a lot of options. A nice hike at a beautiful quiet park / conservation area, go to the beach in the summer. Up the romance a bit with preparing a picnic/ snacks, maybe a bottle of wine. If she is more a gym type and/ or adventurous try indoor rock climbing or indoor skydiving etc…. Of course these type of options all require the right person, and the girl who is more high maintenance appearance wise, probably won’t be into these kind of dates. Tho it will filter out the types who measure the quality of the date by the impact it has on your wallet.
 

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😥 $15 appetizers. Maybe if you didn’t take her to Montana's the first date, more than a hj might be forthcoming. 😂

Seriously tho, if you have a bit more of an imagination, you can probably come up with date ideas that won’t empty your wallet, that also will be fun for you both. If the girl is active, or outdoorsy there are a lot of options. A nice hike at a beautiful quiet park / conservation area, go to the beach in the summer. Up the romance a bit with preparing a picnic/ snacks, maybe a bottle of wine. If she is more a gym type and/ or adventurous try indoor rock climbing or indoor skydiving etc…. Of course these type of options all require the right person, and the girl who is more high maintenance appearance wise, probably won’t be into these kind of dates. Tho it will filter out the types who measure the quality of the date by the impact it has on your wallet.
I would take a date that is outside of the box then the standard dinner/movie date. Creativity goes a long way.
 

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"Btw maybe it's my old age, but I can count on one hand the number of times I've gotten even an hj on the first date..."

How else would you count it but on one hand?
 
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Since all you want is to get laid, I would stick to escort.

If you want to make a real connection it's different. You shouldn't count your money like that when it matters.
 

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Since all you want is to get laid, I would stick to escort.

If you want to make a real connection it's different. You shouldn't count your money like that when it matters.
That is my opinion. Most girls don't put out on the first date. They leave that for drunken one night stands but on an actual "date" it usually doesn't happen so just save the money for an escort if the goal is to just bust a nut.
 

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Since all you want is to get laid, I would stick to escort.

If you want to make a real connection it's different. You shouldn't count your money like that when it matters.
This. A civilian date is more about getting to know another person and enjoying their company for a few hours, and if the chemistry is right that can lead to some more physical fun. If you want something transactional where you have a guaranteed sexual experience for however many dollars you can afford, then just go see an escort.
 
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