I literally walked right into that one.No. I’d supply the “worm”.
(Sorry, couldn’t let that one go by …).






I literally walked right into that one.No. I’d supply the “worm”.
(Sorry, couldn’t let that one go by …).
This. A civilian date is more about getting to know another person and enjoying their company for a few hours, and if the chemistry is right that can lead to some more physical fun. If you want something transactional where you have a guaranteed sexual experience for however many dollars you can afford, then just go see an escort.Since all you want is to get laid, I would stick to escort.
If you want to make a real connection it's different. You shouldn't count your money like that when it matters.
I’ll also add that I’ve found that a bit of an adrenaline rush is also an aphrodisiac. (For some, not all). Sharing a thrill with some (mild) danger or adventure or just some physical exertion, like rock climbing, skiing or hiking, gets the blood flowing and often lets inhibitions down. I love eating a great meal with a beautiful companion, sharing a few glasses of wine, but there are alternatives that are a little less stuffy, and more relaxed and really fun. Of course you have to choose your date well. These dates won’t be often be well received by the girls who spend hours applying layers of makeup and doing their hair and wear long nail extensions etc…$15 appetizers. Maybe if you didn’t take her to Montana's the first date, more than a hj might be forthcoming.
Seriously tho, if you have a bit more of an imagination, you can probably come up with date ideas that won’t empty your wallet, that also will be fun for you both. If the girl is active, or outdoorsy there are a lot of options. A nice hike at a beautiful quiet park / conservation area, go to the beach in the summer. Up the romance a bit with preparing a picnic/ snacks, maybe a bottle of wine. If she is more a gym type and/ or adventurous try indoor rock climbing or indoor skydiving etc…. Of course these type of options all require the right person, and the girl who is more high maintenance appearance wise, probably won’t be into these kind of dates. Tho it will filter out the types who measure the quality of the date by the impact it has on your wallet.
But eventually you want the dinner out with drinks or something that requires money before sex happens yes?I would take a date that is outside of the box then the standard dinner/movie date. Creativity goes a long way.
I have been lucky in the past going for a date and splitting on drinks and still getting it in, but it’s few and far betweenSince the topic on hand is about finding the cheapest date to fuck I'd say OP needs to stop seeing women more than 3 times who wanna empty his wallet for the price to fuck. Go back to seeing a SP or find ladies who put out quicker than others.
If you're dating someone for the long term aspect then sure do some stuff in a public setting to see who you're dealing with and ask a few questions that relate to things you'd want long term so you both don't waste your time. Why date someone for months then ask a question that could lead to a possible break up unless one of your intention is to use the person and get fucked too which does happen.
I dunno. From the sounds of things from some of the studs on terb they would need both hands and both feet to count the number of times they've gotten lucky on first dates..."Btw maybe it's my old age, but I can count on one hand the number of times I've gotten even an hj on the first date..."
How else would you count it but on one hand?
Personally, I want money for sex. That is why I am a sex worker. I don't want dinner and drinks. I can do that myself.But eventually you want the dinner out with drinks or something that requires money before sex happens yes?
Bingo! You KNOW pretty quickly if there's chemistry or not. And anyone scoffing at coffee for a first meet, isn't anyone looking for that chemistry.A civilian date is more about getting to know another person and enjoying their company for a few hours, and if the chemistry is right that can lead to some more physical fun. If you want something transactional where you have a guaranteed sexual experience for however many dollars you can afford, then just go see an escort.
Or. A quarter pounder and a big gulp.Take her to McDs and offer her 2 things off the value menu instead of 1. Tell her she's earned it ^_~!
If a date does not equal sex then what’s in it for the guy?Personally, I want money for sex. That is why I am a sex worker. I don't want dinner and drinks. I can do that myself.
If I wanted a date, I want something unique and to me a date does not equal sex. Doesn't matter what you spend.
Long term meaningful relationship built on trust and respect.If a date does not equal sex then what’s in it for the guy?
It is investment in a possible future emotionally connected relationship.If a date does not equal sex then what’s in it for the guy?
These dating and relationship threads are the best advertisements for sex workers imaginable, and Terb doesn’t even charge for them.Bingo! You KNOW pretty quickly if there's chemistry or not. And anyone scoffing at coffee for a first meet, isn't anyone looking for that chemistry.
So pay for sex if you need instant gratification. It IS cheaper.
Either way the man will be paying for it.It is investment in a possible future emotionally connected relationship.
If you just want sex - pay for it.
Point being what exactly?????Either way the man will be paying for it.