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Really fascinating responses here regarding intimacy from an sp point of view. Continuing on with that- on a first date with a client do you prefer that he is vulnerable with you and opens up about things that he may not share with anyone else? For example, do you look at your client in a different light and are more attracted to him when he opens up about some of the challenges he may be facing in his personal life or with an SO or is that all too much for a first date and ends up being a mood killer?
How many clients do you see in an average month? How many are regulars?
20/month which is perfect for me because I have other engagements. People tend to book longer dates with me so I don’t need to see many. 40% are regulars but it doesn’t mean they come back every week, it could be a business man who has to travel to Montreal for work and will book me every time he’s in the city.
STD's
How do you protect yourself against catching anything?
Do you worry about STD's?
Do you get checked? If you do, regularly?
Have you ever refused service to someone because you had a suspicion he(she?) had an STD?
Do you have any kind of screening for a client before having sex in terms of STD's?
The standard in this industry, at least in Canada is BBBJ (I've traveled extensively in Latin America where the standard is CBJ). This is risky (IMO) & basically only prevents against catching AIDS.
I usually - but not always - play things safe & go for covered BJ.
Some STD's - like Syphilis & Genital Warts - can't even be prevented when using a condom.
Years ago I had a condom break while having sex with a paid lady - it didn't scare me too much, but it made me worry & I decided to get tested. The lady said she was clean & I needn't worry - but I can't trust words & just made it a point to not have sex for about a month & then get tested. Also what made her so confident I was clean(I was & I knew it 100%).
Forgive if it's already asked here, I tried looking but couldn't find it.
Many thanks for any answers & opinions.
I know it's an awkward question but I'm dying to ask since I saw this thread.
How do you protect yourself against catching anything?
Do you worry about STD's?
Do you get checked? If you do, regularly?
Have you ever refused service to someone because you had a suspicion he(she?) had an STD?
Do you have any kind of screening for a client before having sex in terms of STD's?
The standard in this industry, at least in Canada is BBBJ (I've traveled extensively in Latin America where the standard is CBJ). This is risky (IMO) & basically only prevents against catching AIDS.
I usually - but not always - play things safe & go for covered BJ.
Some STD's - like Syphilis & Genital Warts - can't even be prevented when using a condom.
Years ago I had a condom break while having sex with a paid lady - it didn't scare me too much, but it made me worry & I decided to get tested. The lady said she was clean & I needn't worry - but I can't trust words & just made it a point to not have sex for about a month & then get tested. Also what made her so confident I was clean(I was & I knew it 100%).
Forgive if it's already asked here, I tried looking but couldn't find it.
Many thanks for any answers & opinions.
I know it's an awkward question but I'm dying to ask since I saw this thread.
@Not getting younger
I have specifically stated in the very first post of this thread that we do not want to be asked those kind of questions. No one wants to relive their trauma. Kindly refrain from asking any similar questions in the future.
I have specifically stated in the very first post of this thread that we do not want to be asked those kind of questions. No one wants to relive their trauma. Kindly refrain from asking any similar questions in the future.
What is your preference, circumcised or uncircumcised penises?
It doesn’t matter, as long as it’s clean and healthy.
How serious are compliments an SP gives you on say your looks/appearance (for example - oh you're handsome etc...)? or vocalizes how much you feel good during the act etc...
I have always taken them with a grain of salt, not because I don't believe them....I do like myself too lol but simply because I always remember that this is a hobby...and avoid giving myself the wrong ideas...
How serious are compliments an SP gives you on say your looks/appearance (for example - oh you're handsome etc...)? or vocalizes how much you feel good during the act etc...
I only give meaningful compliments whether it’s on your looks, the way you smell or your humour. If I don’t mean it, I won’t say it.
I compliment most of my clients and they always seem surprised.
Personally, when I give a compliment, I am genuine. The reason being, I am on a date with you because the way you contacted me showed me that we would enjoy each other company. While enjoying your company and sharing things with you, I will vocalize everything I find great you. It could be about your life, your looks, or how great you are in bed.
Same happens when I am enjoying a nice conversation with a fan on my onlyfans and we exchange photos etc.
To me, it is really hard to not give compliments when it is due. Even in my personal life.
Thanks for providing your perspective…I always appreciate the compliments but there’s a side of me that’s also skeptical about its genuineness or maybe view it as an “act” in the context of the “nature” of the meeting.
At the end of the day, regardless of whether it is in real life, or in this industry, compliments/appreciation are always well received and we are all humans experiencing the same things, and that is what you have to ultimately remember. That’s the reason why, to me, mutual respect is very important, being aware and never crossing each other’s boundaries is also equally important
Percentage of clients with bad breath?
I don’t know, I provide mouthwash and most of my clients are kind enough to use it.
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