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-Does size matter at all? No. I make a lot of joke about it but I don't care.

-Do you enjoy sex, whether you have earth shattering orgasms or not. I know making a women cum is rewarding, but I can live without as long as there is foreplays. I will still like you even if I don't cum.

-If you and I were to spend an hour naked together. What might you enjoy the most?

A) intellectual and or emotional foreplay combined with physical ---> This

B) Oral sex, that encompasses more than genitals

C) Penetration

-And lastly, when it comes to penetration. 10-15 minutes or 30-45? As long as I can take it. If you plow me really hard 15 is fine. If we connect and my cervix feels safe you can fuck me for hours.
 
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@Not getting younger

Does size matter at all?
It does, sometimes too big can be painful and certain angles just don’t work at all.

Do you enjoy sex, whether you have earth shattering orgasms or not?
Of course, even in my personal life I don’t always cum but I still enjoy sex and will ask for more.

If you and I were to spend an hour naked together. What might you enjoy the most?

A) intellectual and or emotional foreplay combined with physical

B) Oral sex, that encompasses more than genitals

C) Penetration


I would say A), B) and D)Looking at your body. Seeing things that not many have seen before and I’m not talking about your dick.

And lastly, when it comes to penetration. 10-15 minutes or 30-45?
10-15 mins is a long time, I don’t know if many have realized that. Because usually it would be close to 25-30 mins including foreplay.

It’s good when it happens because you can most likely go for round 2 if your body allows it.
 
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whats your preference as a provider?

Client1: into all sorts of sexual acts, can perform , kinky etc but not much into sensual stuff/touch and lacks emotion

Client2: mostly likes sensual stuff lots of touch, reverse touch etc but lacks in the performance area. Also very emotionally present
 

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whats your preference as a provider?

Client1: into all sorts of sexual acts, can perform , kinky etc but not much into sensual stuff/touch and lacks emotion

Client2: mostly likes sensual stuff lots of touch, reverse touch etc but lacks in the performance area. Also very emotionally present
whats your preference as a provider?
It doesn’t matter to me, I’m not going to marry him, I’m just having sex with him. Both are fun for different reasons.
 
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Not getting younger

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whats your preference as a provider?
It doesn’t matter to me, I’m not going to marry him, I’m just having sex with him. Both are fun for different reasons.
On the whole, loosely speaking.
Do you think men in general understand intimacy?

And with respect to your personal ATFs you mentioned. Or any other provider that is reading. Was there a noticeable difference between which side of the spectrum they fell on.
 

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Well, at least you can say about her performance is that she truly gave a shit.
Lol
Reminds me of a joke:

What's the difference between an epileptic oyster shucker and an escort with diarrhea?

One of them has fits while shucking and one of them.....
 
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Is red snapper on the menu?

 

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On the whole, loosely speaking.
Do you think men in general understand intimacy?

And with respect to your personal ATFs you mentioned. Or any other provider that is reading. Was there a noticeable difference between which side of the spectrum they fell on.
Do you think men in general understand intimacy?
No, most think intimacy is just sex when it’s so much more than that.
 

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Do you think men in general understand intimacy?
No, most think intimacy is just sex when it’s so much more than that.
Your response interests me. Although we are paying to have sex, all of my fondest moments with ladies where as a result of an intimate moment. Maybe, I really don't now what intimacy means.

Can you expand on your response?.
 

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Your response interests me. Although we are paying to have sex, all of my fondest moments with ladies where as a result of an intimate moment. Maybe, I really don't now what intimacy means.

Can you expand on your response?.
Can you expand on your response?
Intimacy could be the moments you share on a bed lying and talking about everything. It could be those inside jokes you have. The laughs you share. It is not just sex, it’s everything that makes you feel connected to the person.
 

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On the whole, loosely speaking.
Do you think men in general understand intimacy?

And with respect to your personal ATFs you mentioned. Or any other provider that is reading. Was there a noticeable difference between which side of the spectrum they fell on.
This is such an interesting question. In my experience, the men I’ve dated in my civvie life understood intimacy and it wasn’t just narrowed down to sex.
As for clients, (during my agency days) I believe all of them thought intimacy is just sex, and quite possibly didn’t understand what it really meant.
Although, the dynamic with my clients definitely changed when I became Indy. Most of my regulars tend to book longer dates and we spend most of the time just talking, laughing, caressing, etc... So to answer your question, it really just depends on the man’s personality/ what stage they are in their lives/ what your exact definition of intimacy is.

As for which side of the spectrum they fell on, again it’s hard to make sweeping generalizations of this kind and really depends on the individual.
 

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Can you expand on your response?
Intimacy could be the moments you share on a bed lying and talking about everything. It could be those inside jokes you have. The laughs you share. It is not just sex, it’s everything that makes you feel connected to the person.
The ability to be completely open. Laugh, cry, bare your soul. Know each other intimately
 
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