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whats your preference as a provider?
Client1: into all sorts of sexual acts, can perform , kinky etc but not much into sensual stuff/touch and lacks emotion
Client2: mostly likes sensual stuff lots of touch, reverse touch etc but lacks in the performance area. Also very emotionally present
Client1: into all sorts of sexual acts, can perform , kinky etc but not much into sensual stuff/touch and lacks emotion
Client2: mostly likes sensual stuff lots of touch, reverse touch etc but lacks in the performance area. Also very emotionally present
whats your preference as a provider?
It doesn’t matter to me, I’m not going to marry him, I’m just having sex with him. Both are fun for different reasons.
On the whole, loosely speaking.
Do you think men in general understand intimacy?
And with respect to your personal ATFs you mentioned. Or any other provider that is reading. Was there a noticeable difference between which side of the spectrum they fell on.
..............because the rates are seasonal like the price of tomatoes.@LC18 Why does your website not have rates?!
Yes, I charge by the pound of the person requesting my services.
Do you think men in general understand intimacy?
No, most think intimacy is just sex when it’s so much more than that.
Your response interests me. Although we are paying to have sex, all of my fondest moments with ladies where as a result of an intimate moment. Maybe, I really don't now what intimacy means.
Can you expand on your response?.
Can you expand on your response?
Intimacy could be the moments you share on a bed lying and talking about everything. It could be those inside jokes you have. The laughs you share. It is not just sex, it’s everything that makes you feel connected to the person.
This is such an interesting question. In my experience, the men I’ve dated in my civvie life understood intimacy and it wasn’t just narrowed down to sex.
As for clients, (during my agency days) I believe all of them thought intimacy is just sex, and quite possibly didn’t understand what it really meant.
Although, the dynamic with my clients definitely changed when I became Indy. Most of my regulars tend to book longer dates and we spend most of the time just talking, laughing, caressing, etc... So to answer your question, it really just depends on the man’s personality/ what stage they are in their lives/ what your exact definition of intimacy is.
As for which side of the spectrum they fell on, again it’s hard to make sweeping generalizations of this kind and really depends on the individual.
The ability to be completely open. Laugh, cry, bare your soul. Know each other intimately
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Really fascinating responses here regarding intimacy from an sp point of view. Continuing on with that- on a first date with a client do you prefer that he is vulnerable with you and opens up about things that he may not share with anyone else? For example, do you look at your client in a different light and are more attracted to him when he opens up about some of the challenges he may be facing in his personal life or with an SO or is that all too much for a first date and ends up being a mood killer?
How many clients do you see in an average month? How many are regulars?
20/month which is perfect for me because I have other engagements. People tend to book longer dates with me so I don’t need to see many. 40% are regulars but it doesn’t mean they come back every week, it could be a business man who has to travel to Montreal for work and will book me every time he’s in the city.
STD's
How do you protect yourself against catching anything?
Do you worry about STD's?
Do you get checked? If you do, regularly?
Have you ever refused service to someone because you had a suspicion he(she?) had an STD?
Do you have any kind of screening for a client before having sex in terms of STD's?
The standard in this industry, at least in Canada is BBBJ (I've traveled extensively in Latin America where the standard is CBJ). This is risky (IMO) & basically only prevents against catching AIDS.
I usually - but not always - play things safe & go for covered BJ.
Some STD's - like Syphilis & Genital Warts - can't even be prevented when using a condom.
Years ago I had a condom break while having sex with a paid lady - it didn't scare me too much, but it made me worry & I decided to get tested. The lady said she was clean & I needn't worry - but I can't trust words & just made it a point to not have sex for about a month & then get tested. Also what made her so confident I was clean(I was & I knew it 100%).
Forgive if it's already asked here, I tried looking but couldn't find it.
Many thanks for any answers & opinions.
I know it's an awkward question but I'm dying to ask since I saw this thread.
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How do you protect yourself against catching anything?
Do you worry about STD's?
Do you get checked? If you do, regularly?
Have you ever refused service to someone because you had a suspicion he(she?) had an STD?
Do you have any kind of screening for a client before having sex in terms of STD's?
The standard in this industry, at least in Canada is BBBJ (I've traveled extensively in Latin America where the standard is CBJ). This is risky (IMO) & basically only prevents against catching AIDS.
I usually - but not always - play things safe & go for covered BJ.
Some STD's - like Syphilis & Genital Warts - can't even be prevented when using a condom.
Years ago I had a condom break while having sex with a paid lady - it didn't scare me too much, but it made me worry & I decided to get tested. The lady said she was clean & I needn't worry - but I can't trust words & just made it a point to not have sex for about a month & then get tested. Also what made her so confident I was clean(I was & I knew it 100%).
Forgive if it's already asked here, I tried looking but couldn't find it.
Many thanks for any answers & opinions.
I know it's an awkward question but I'm dying to ask since I saw this thread.
🥲
