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[NotADcotor]

From the "other side of the bed", I can say that some Providers really over-share/over inquire too.

Only time I had it bad was when I had a stripper who I had before in previous visits. She started going on about some new age bullshit and... fuck it, there were other attractive girls there so I politely stopped it at one song.
I get to hear enough special needs bullshit on the internet.

Had another one say something that was just incorrect but it was just being misinformed so I can handle that.

And for those who haven't heard me do my Good Will Hunting bit

I just wish I could get some insight into the evolution of the market economy in the Southern colonies without her regurgitating VIckers and Woods like it's her own ideas.
Might as well just say nothing. SIgh.

 

[LC18]

[Everyone]

When you see someone interacting on the boards (merb, terb, perb), do you assume they’re acting/talking the same in person?

 

[kherg007]

[Everyone]

When you see someone interacting on the boards (merb, terb, perb), do you assume they’re acting/talking the same in person?

Speaking for myself yes. Blokes like Jethro and Bazokajoe etc I believe are genuine like that w the ladies too. I reckon a number are not. I'd estimate 50/50...

 

[Valcazar]

[Everyone]

When you see someone interacting on the boards (merb, terb, perb), do you assume they’re acting/talking the same in person?

Some people are probably putting on a persona, but most are probably roughly themselves. (Everyone is only part of who they really are in public. We never see the whole picture just from those interactions, online or not.)

 

[JayRoam]

From a SWer point of view, what makes a great agency?

 

[jimsa56]

what % of your sessions - end up with men not achieving climax ?

 

[Jami77]

That is very unfortunate and somewhat crazy to me .

Unless you disclose you are a sex worker how are they to know ?

My key things to do while traveling is never under any circumstances bring a work phone or anything that will tie me to the industry.

You ever watch that Border Security show? They go through your phone and see the text messages. The Sps on the show cant show a regular job and there are lots of short trips over the border. If you do the opposite of that you are probably fine. If you want more tips watch the show - Im sure all the smugglers and criminals watch it to see how people get caught.

 

[jalimon]

[Everyone]

When you see someone interacting on the boards (merb, terb, perb), do you assume they’re acting/talking the same in person?

Nah.... On the board, I praise myself for looking like Brad Pitt. When in reality, I look more like Danny DeVito

 

[sweetiepieexo]

You ever watch that Border Security show? They go through your phone and see the text messages. The Sps on the show cant show a regular job and there are lots of short trips over the border. If you do the opposite of that you are probably fine. If you want more tips watch the show - Im sure all the smugglers and criminals watch it to see how people get caught.

Yes! That is one of my favorite shows . Although it can get boring after a while depending on how much you watch it.

I have seen that. I have my own tips that I follow when I'm traveling. You're probably right about criminals watching the show to figure out their methods / things they use to catch people.

 

[Olivia-69]

What percent of clients do you actually get sexually excited with?

And what if anything differentiates them? Looks? Connection? What they do?

Like excited enough that you lose yourself a little, grab them a little too hard, make noises you don’t often make?

In 2023, I was less selective than in 2024 and currently. In 2023, 50% of my clients were new clients as regulars; when I had a high rotation of clientele, it was challenging to build connections unless we bonded for the first time. In 2024, I observed an increase in regular clientele to 75% and someone 90%, so when it comes to regular, we are 100% turned on at every date and enjoy doing that. That is why they could keep coming back and me seeing them again; otherwise, it would be a malaise, and time would feel too long. So I enjoy sex with my regular, especially.

 

[Olivia-69]

Do a lot of men really do not know what hygiene is?
How many leave skid marks?
Do these men look weird or do they look otherwise normal?

When you meet with a high volume of clientele, you would probably ask them all to take a shower just in case. But when you meet more regular clients, of course, over time, they know what you tolerate and what you don't. If my regular forgot to take a shower, I would smell it and ask him to go clean himself or have a shower with him at the beginning; otherwise, I wouldn't interact with him.

 

[Olivia-69]

Why do so many SP's have drug and/or drinking problems?

That's a very general question, and I have been asking the same question around me.

The answer depends on your mental and physical issues, your social circles, stress levels, and your Incall environment; some are not independent, even if you say they are(pressure from their pimps). Some people turn to substances because they feel forced to, while others do so to escape mentally while they are with clients(they don't like their new job) or to feel more energetic(too tired, but have to continue their shift). The first and last time I saw weed and cocaine on a single day was at a well-known spa place in Ottawa, and that was 75% of the reason I would no longer work for someone and a spa. You cannot control what you would be exposed to.

In my case, I prioritize working out and eating well. When I'm not feeling physically or mentally happy, I go to the gym with some music, cook, watch movies, study, or spend time with my family. This helps my body produce natural endorphins and positivity, which has always worked well for me. Also, I select my clients and focus more on meeting regulars that I like.

I guess some people have different issues they have to deal with. So, I don't think your question has no single answer, but there are many answers, and I'm sure some are missing from my list above.

 

[Olivia-69]

What do you do with your earnings (besides living expenses) ? holidays, investing (stocks, real estate, savings etc), buy clothes/shoes/drugs, cosmetic surgery, family, freeloader family/friends, charities

Stocks, real estates, family/friends, and CRA lol.

 

[Olivia-69]

ever had sex in public space? what’s your best experience you can recall which stands out among daily routine calls?

The best place I had sex was at the Nordik Spa, specifically in the Japanese bath. The atmosphere was perfect with yoga and soothing water music, along with a pleasant wood scent. We ended up getting caught because there are cameras around! It was a Tuesday night, and there weren’t many clients present. that day.

 

[Olivia-69]

what is something on ur wishlist about ur profession, romance, dating, sex life that is not fulfilled yet?

Civic professional career.

 

[Olivia-69]

How many clients do you see in an average month? How many are regulars?

2023: average 20 sessions per month for 400/h 50/50 regulars /new clients
2024: average 15 sessions per month for 500/h 75% regulars/ 25 new clients
2025: average 10 sessions per month for 500/h and some months 600/h (January to March). 3 new clients so far, in terms of percentage 100% regulars.

 

[rjjr]

Great thread @LC18 !!!

 

[dotdotdot69]

What would all you ladies do if you won $3 million in a lottery (tax free of course)? Retire? Travel and splurge?

 

[Olivia-69]

What would all you ladies do if you won $3 million in a lottery (tax free of course)? Retire? Travel and splurge?

I would probably invest and save $2 million for the rest of my life, focusing on long-term goals(including investments) and my retirement plan. The additional million would be for trips, help at least 80% of my family immigrate, and pay off the remainder of my mortgage. After all it is important to enjoy life when you are young as well, not just working lol.

 

[star003]

what’s your guilty pleasure?