I don't mind any questions. Easy enough to say "well, let's just say I work in a ...." and give some vague answer.
I've had ladies accidentally reveal real names and I'll give them a heads up ("hey that picture/email is tagged with name x, if that's actually you be careful.." etc. One just told me her name. I still only use the "stage name".
I am totally fascinated by the sp experience but want to learn but not be a jerk and get too intrusive.
But it dawned on me once that I did ask a lady "are you the only one in the unit?" Because I had some important stuff in my briefcase and I had left it with my clothes hanging in the bathroom on a hook on the door. She didn't seem bothered by the Q, and was a reg, but it hit me later that this question might strike another lady as something that someone nefarious might ask if he was planning some malevolence.
I've had ladies accidentally reveal real names and I'll give them a heads up ("hey that picture/email is tagged with name x, if that's actually you be careful.." etc. One just told me her name. I still only use the "stage name".
I am totally fascinated by the sp experience but want to learn but not be a jerk and get too intrusive.
But it dawned on me once that I did ask a lady "are you the only one in the unit?" Because I had some important stuff in my briefcase and I had left it with my clothes hanging in the bathroom on a hook on the door. She didn't seem bothered by the Q, and was a reg, but it hit me later that this question might strike another lady as something that someone nefarious might ask if he was planning some malevolence.