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What do girls in there 20's really think about seeing guys in there 50's. Do they find it creepy?
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I am sure some would be open to offer such service, but personally I am not a coach, I am not a teacher, it's not in my blood at all! I would say the best way to learn what you like and what your partner likes, is to find said partner. And to just do the thing, with women you share a connection with. There is no recipe, you'll have to dive in to discover what you like and what others like, and dislike.
Why would they do something they find creepy? Since a teenager, I've been attracted to "older" men. I always found it weirder to be with someone my age, actually.
I understand clients want to chat a bit and may, in the effort to make conversation, ask something that makes you feel awkward or maybe they shouldn't (e.g., "do you have a boyfriend?").
Curious - what questions do you wish clients NOT ask you whilst in a booking?
Curious - what questions do you wish clients NOT ask you whilst in a booking?
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"What is your worst experience / You probably meet really weird people and have terrible experiences, right?" Any variation of this.
From the "other side of the bed", I can say that some Providers really over-share/over inquire too.
Some small talk is nice: weather, sports, music, current events (let's leave out war and natural disasters), how's your day/week going (generally speaking-- we don't need to know about you BF stealing your car, your Mom throwing you out, etc.)
Sorry, but we all have our own problems we are trying to escape.
And then, there's the SPs who appear to be interviewing you for their Master's Degree thesis: Age, children, married/single/divorced, does your (ex)wife know, how long you been doing this, what were your parents relationship like, level education/sex education, level of religiosity...it goes on. At first it starts like a fun "getting to know you" conversation, then it gets annoying, concerning and downright creepy... I don't want to feel like Ill show up as "AR aged 59" in some sex study...
If I want share a bit I do...just watch the probing Qs.
I don't mind any questions. Easy enough to say "well, let's just say I work in a ...." and give some vague answer.
I've had ladies accidentally reveal real names and I'll give them a heads up ("hey that picture/email is tagged with name x, if that's actually you be careful.." etc. One just told me her name. I still only use the "stage name".
I am totally fascinated by the sp experience but want to learn but not be a jerk and get too intrusive.
But it dawned on me once that I did ask a lady "are you the only one in the unit?" Because I had some important stuff in my briefcase and I had left it with my clothes hanging in the bathroom on a hook on the door. She didn't seem bothered by the Q, and was a reg, but it hit me later that this question might strike another lady as something that someone nefarious might ask if he was planning some malevolence.
I've had ladies accidentally reveal real names and I'll give them a heads up ("hey that picture/email is tagged with name x, if that's actually you be careful.." etc. One just told me her name. I still only use the "stage name".
I am totally fascinated by the sp experience but want to learn but not be a jerk and get too intrusive.
But it dawned on me once that I did ask a lady "are you the only one in the unit?" Because I had some important stuff in my briefcase and I had left it with my clothes hanging in the bathroom on a hook on the door. She didn't seem bothered by the Q, and was a reg, but it hit me later that this question might strike another lady as something that someone nefarious might ask if he was planning some malevolence.
Only time I had it bad was when I had a stripper who I had before in previous visits. She started going on about some new age bullshit and... fuck it, there were other attractive girls there so I politely stopped it at one song.
I get to hear enough special needs bullshit on the internet.
Had another one say something that was just incorrect but it was just being misinformed so I can handle that.
And for those who haven't heard me do my Good Will Hunting bit
I just wish I could get some insight into the evolution of the market economy in the Southern colonies without her regurgitating VIckers and Woods like it's her own ideas.
Might as well just say nothing. SIgh.
Speaking for myself yes. Blokes like Jethro and Bazokajoe etc I believe are genuine like that w the ladies too. I reckon a number are not. I'd estimate 50/50...
Some people are probably putting on a persona, but most are probably roughly themselves. (Everyone is only part of who they really are in public. We never see the whole picture just from those interactions, online or not.)
You ever watch that Border Security show? They go through your phone and see the text messages. The Sps on the show cant show a regular job and there are lots of short trips over the border. If you do the opposite of that you are probably fine. If you want more tips watch the show - Im sure all the smugglers and criminals watch it to see how people get caught.
Nah.... On the board, I praise myself for looking like Brad Pitt. When in reality, I look more like Danny DeVito
Yes! That is one of my favorite shows . Although it can get boring after a while depending on how much you watch it.
I have seen that. I have my own tips that I follow when I'm traveling. You're probably right about criminals watching the show to figure out their methods / things they use to catch people.
