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What is the nastiest thing you or anyone you've heard of have done with a client? I am talking about ultra crazy stuff here - the absolute craziest of crazy shit - maybe literal shit - maybe ball breakage - maybe passing out from insane throat jobs - etc etc. It is interesting to me and I am super curious. Thanks!
What is the nastiest thing you or anyone you've heard of have done with a client? I am talking about ultra crazy stuff here - the absolute craziest of crazy shit - maybe literal shit - maybe ball breakage - maybe passing out from insane throat jobs - etc etc. It is interesting to me and I am super curious. Thanks!
I remember hanging out with a friend who is also a companion. She told me with a straight face:
“I have to go home and shit in a Tupperware for my client. He’s gonna come pick it up later”.
So I guess that would be that.
 

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What is the nastiest thing you or anyone you've heard of have done with a client? I am talking about ultra crazy stuff here - the absolute craziest of crazy shit - maybe literal shit - maybe ball breakage - maybe passing out from insane throat jobs - etc etc. It is interesting to me and I am super curious. Thanks!
I remember hanging out with a friend who is also a companion. She told me with a straight face:
“I have to go home and shit in a Tupperware for my client. He’s gonna come pick it up later”.
So I guess that would be that.
I respect that hustle a lot. This is something else.
 

LC18

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What is the nastiest thing you or anyone you've heard of have done with a client? I am talking about ultra crazy stuff here - the absolute craziest of crazy shit - maybe literal shit - maybe ball breakage - maybe passing out from insane throat jobs - etc etc. It is interesting to me and I am super curious. Thanks!
Now that I think about it, the same companion once asked me if I wanted to see one of her clients who likes to
get puked on. He will facefuck you until you literally throw up.

I declined the offer and politely asked her to only refer GFE or PSE clients from that point.
 

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So these days screening requirements is becoming more and more common amongst sp's and many gents think that some of the info being asked for is very intrusive(I.e. personal ID, LinkedIn profile, work info etc). As a gent who may just be starting out in this hobby who is reluctant to provide a lot of personal details what assurances can sp's give him that his personal info doesn't fall into the wrong hands mistakingly? Do sp's have any kind of cyber security protocol where they protect client info that is provided and to not get hacked and prevent a situation like the AM scandal that broke out a few years ago?
So these days screening requirements is becoming more and more common amongst sp's and many gents think that some of the info being asked for is very intrusive(I.e. personal ID, LinkedIn profile, work info etc). As a gent who may just be starting out in this hobby who is reluctant to provide a lot of personal details what assurances can sp's give him that his personal info doesn't fall into the wrong hands mistakingly? Do sp's have any kind of cyber security protocol where they protect client info that is provided and to not get hacked and prevent a situation like the AM scandal that broke out a few years ago?

I see where these clients are coming from, but I would follow up your first question with what other assurances can a new client give a the provider that they aren't going to rape, murder, or otherwise hurt us? New clients wouldn't have references as on option, so what is a provider supposed to do besides ask for these other options? For these clients the immediate fear is being exposed, whereas our immediate fear is for our lives and physical safety, so we're not starting out on an even footing here.

The good news is we don't want to be outed either, and discretion is very important to protect our personal lives as well as our business model. It's literally in our best interest to protect your details. The other good news is if you're talking about seeing an indy provider, the chances of anyone being interested in hacking her for that info compared to a mega site like Ashley Madison, is extremely extremely low. It's just wouldn't be worth the hackers effort for the small amount of data they could possibly get.

I can't speak for everyone, but I use encrypted email and file storage for my admin, I think this is pretty common as I learnt to do that from the advice of other providers. Some clients will find it easier to text me screening details, and when they do I delete them from my device once I've finished with my process, and anything I think I need to keep is safely stored in my encrypted drive.
 

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Sesta/Fosta voted by Trump. "If you have been a sex worker within the last 10 yrs, you are not admissible to enter the United State". I got my sex worker ban.

Information that was communicated to my Capital One and I was terminated without no reason given to me.

Also a lot of ladies these days see there account close for the deposit the receive from Onlyfans.
Sorry to hear that, Amanda.
A lot of the Ontario-based SWs I follow on Twitter appear to be taking frequent trips to the US and advertise that they regularly see clients there. I always worry that they're playing with fire.
 
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I am curious to know what are your views on monogamy after being a companion for a few years? Do you view it to be something not realistic or something feasible, a social construct? It makes me curious as some clientele are married and infidelity even in general, can be rampant.
 

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I am curious to know what are your views on monogamy after being a companion for a few years? Do you view it to be something not realistic or something feasible, a social construct? It makes me curious as some clientele are married and infidelity even in general, can be rampant.
I love my dogs. Lol

Lol honestly I try not to think about all that because I cannot base my relationship on my opinion of what I saw in this industry. I would be biased and it would be unfair to the men in front of me. If he cheats he is out. Really i dont have time to waste enabling primal instinct that can be controled. Are men monogamous in general? No. I know that but hey, your problem to deal with.
 

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IIRC the divorce rate dropped back in Oz once the brothels there became legal...
 

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IIRC the divorce rate dropped back in Oz once the brothels there became legal...
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And just like that, it became easier to drop your pants rather than dealing with your unhappiness. No judgement, but it is what it is.
 

kherg007

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And just like that, it became easier to drop your pants rather than dealing with your unhappiness. No judgement, but it is what it is.
Sometimes the only unhappiness is a spouse who doesn't want to have sex. Thus a no strings attached session with a lady for whom one is punching above their weight now and then keeps the ship of state sailing forward.
At least the mates of mine back in Oz who have partaken believe this.
 

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Sometimes the only unhappiness is a spouse who doesn't want to have sex. Thus a no strings attached session with a lady for whom one is punching above their weight now and then keeps the ship of state sailing forward.
At least the mates of mine back in Oz who have partaken believe this.
Well we could talk about it a long time and justify it but there is always 3 version of a story. There is a reason why she doesnt want to anymore. Probably the same as theirs.
 

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If this is for the wife, realistically you’re far more likely to out yourself via web pages left open, phones, messages, different behaviours, unexplained gaps in time, unexplained money flow or the wrong BBJ/DATY….
Yeah that was the perspective I was asking the question from. A lot of gents in this hobby have wives or gf's who they want to keep this a secret from. Giving an ID or other personal info out to an escort always carries some risk. Even moreso these days with the amount of cyber crime and hacking that goes on. Sure you can get caught other ways like you said if you don't cover your tracks well but giving out personal info to an escort or agency who may have no form of cyber security is pretty risky as well. I guess as a gent who has a wife or gf you want to do your best to cover ALL your tracks the best you can
 

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I am curious to know what are your views on monogamy after being a companion for a few years? Do you view it to be something not realistic or something feasible, a social construct? It makes me curious as some clientele are married and infidelity even in general, can be rampant.
I am curious to know what are your views on monogamy after being a companion for a few years? Do you view it to be something not realistic or something feasible, a social construct? It makes me curious as some clientele are married and infidelity even in general, can be rampant. I don’t think humans are made to be with only one person for the rest of their life. I also don’t believe I can be in a committed relationship with someone who sleep around. So therefore I chose to remain single.
 

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anywhere i want;)
Sesta/Fosta voted by Trump. "If you have been a sex worker within the last 10 yrs, you are not admissible to enter the United State". I got my sex worker ban.

Information that was communicated to my Capital One and I was terminated without no reason given to me.

Also a lot of ladies these days see there account close for the deposit the receive from Onlyfans.

That is very unfortunate and somewhat crazy to me .

Unless you disclose you are a sex worker how are they to know ?

My key things to do while traveling is never under any circumstances bring a work phone or anything that will tie me to the industry.
 

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That is very unfortunate and somewhat crazy to me .

Unless you disclose you are a sex worker how are they to know ?

My key things to do while traveling is never under any circumstances bring a work phone or anything that will tie me to the industry.
I did none of those things but thanks for the advice. Facial recognition system.
 
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