Have you ever caught feelings for a client? Yes
If so, how did you handle the situation? We both had feelings but were living in two different cities neither of us wanted to relocate. We gave it a try and it didn’t work.
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Have you ever caught feelings for a client? Yes
If so, how did you handle the situation? We both had feelings but were living in two different cities neither of us wanted to relocate. We gave it a try and it didn’t work.
Do you ever see gentlemen when you're on your period or do you take a five day sabbatical?
This one made me giggle a little because I was on my period during the first booking I ever did... And it was a 3 hour booking LOL.
After that experience (which was lovely!), I have no qualms whatsoever about seeing clients while I'm on my period. Although I'm a part-time provider so often it can be many days or even weeks between clients due to my vanilla work and school schedule anyways. Since that first experience I've only had a booking fall on my period one other time. Both times I used makeup sponges to prevent things from getting messy, which was a suggestion other providers had told me about and I had heard Billie Piper's character reference in the show "Secret Diary of a Call Girl". Worked wonderfully, albeit a bit difficult to remove afterwards- haha definitely required my patience!
Fun thread BTW!
This one made me giggle a little because I was on my period during the first booking I ever did... And it was a 3 hour booking LOL.
After that experience (which was lovely!), I have no qualms whatsoever about seeing clients while I'm on my period. Although I'm a part-time provider so often it can be many days or even weeks between clients due to my vanilla work and school schedule anyways. Since that first experience I've only had a booking fall on my period one other time. Both times I used makeup sponges to prevent things from getting messy, which was a suggestion other providers had told me about and I had heard Billie Piper's character reference in the show "Secret Diary of a Call Girl". Worked wonderfully, albeit a bit difficult to remove afterwards- haha definitely required my patience!
Fun thread BTW!
Ok, the elephant in the room maybe.
First, thank you for starting this thread. Some questions and answers are insightful and revealing. My priorities are connections/personalities. I have different sources for that.
Why don’t more SPs participate here? Would really help getting a sense, before booking.
First, thank you for starting this thread. Some questions and answers are insightful and revealing. My priorities are connections/personalities. I have different sources for that.
Why don’t more SPs participate here? Would really help getting a sense, before booking.
So these days screening requirements is becoming more and more common amongst sp's and many gents think that some of the info being asked for is very intrusive(I.e. personal ID, LinkedIn profile, work info etc). As a gent who may just be starting out in this hobby who is reluctant to provide a lot of personal details what assurances can sp's give him that his personal info doesn't fall into the wrong hands mistakingly? Do sp's have any kind of cyber security protocol where they protect client info that is provided and to not get hacked and prevent a situation like the AM scandal that broke out a few years ago?
Why don’t more SPs participate here? Because you guys scare them, some men on here are really rude whenever we post on here so the SPs have stopped coming on here. I’ve seen a few threads on which SPs were treated harshly. No wonder they don’t want to participate.
And that’s a crying shame. Your website, some things said there, first caught my attention a few months ago. Like women that have visible ink, posting here takes confidence. I can be such a moth to flame. The more you interacted with us, the more threads you started, the topics, the more post I read. The more I knew I wanted to meet you.
This thread sealed it. Sure, some questions I found interesting, the honesty in replies. The willingness to open up, communicate. Hopefully someday when you’re in town Lena.
Obviously a lot us, are curious about this or that. Appreciate the thread no less. Can’t help but think, if more providers were active, more of us, would benefit immensely when trying to decide who we might want to meet.
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Exactly, I read it every time a woman posts an opinion, dares to push back or diverges from the ‘correct’ opinions. The hyenas converge and it is a double standard.
As a gent who may just be starting out in this hobby who is reluctant to provide a lot of personal details what assurances can sp's give him that his personal info doesn't fall into the wrong hands mistakingly? Do sp's have any kind of cyber security protocol where they protect client info that is provided and to not get hacked and prevent a situation like the AM scandal that broke out a few years ago? I don’t know, I don’t ask for anything that’s not already public matter. Your full name and your LinkedIn profile aren’t private. Your phone number can be found easily.
What is the nastiest thing you or anyone you've heard of have done with a client? I am talking about ultra crazy stuff here - the absolute craziest of crazy shit - maybe literal shit - maybe ball breakage - maybe passing out from insane throat jobs - etc etc. It is interesting to me and I am super curious. Thanks!
What is the nastiest thing you or anyone you've heard of have done with a client? I am talking about ultra crazy stuff here - the absolute craziest of crazy shit - maybe literal shit - maybe ball breakage - maybe passing out from insane throat jobs - etc etc. It is interesting to me and I am super curious. Thanks!
I remember hanging out with a friend who is also a companion. She told me with a straight face:
“I have to go home and shit in a Tupperware for my client. He’s gonna come pick it up later”.
I respect that hustle a lot. This is something else.
Now that I think about it, the same companion once asked me if I wanted to see one of her clients who likes to
get puked on. He will facefuck you until you literally throw up.
I declined the offer and politely asked her to only refer GFE or PSE clients from that point.
Lol, far be it from me to judge what anyone does behind closed doors.
This adds new meanings to, dash and dine, sloppy seconds, out of the “mouth” of babes, care packages and Tupperware parties, and then some.
Well I sure wouldnt like the tupperware back LOL
So these days screening requirements is becoming more and more common amongst sp's and many gents think that some of the info being asked for is very intrusive(I.e. personal ID, LinkedIn profile, work info etc). As a gent who may just be starting out in this hobby who is reluctant to provide a lot of personal details what assurances can sp's give him that his personal info doesn't fall into the wrong hands mistakingly? Do sp's have any kind of cyber security protocol where they protect client info that is provided and to not get hacked and prevent a situation like the AM scandal that broke out a few years ago?
I see where these clients are coming from, but I would follow up your first question with what other assurances can a new client give a the provider that they aren't going to rape, murder, or otherwise hurt us? New clients wouldn't have references as on option, so what is a provider supposed to do besides ask for these other options? For these clients the immediate fear is being exposed, whereas our immediate fear is for our lives and physical safety, so we're not starting out on an even footing here.
The good news is we don't want to be outed either, and discretion is very important to protect our personal lives as well as our business model. It's literally in our best interest to protect your details. The other good news is if you're talking about seeing an indy provider, the chances of anyone being interested in hacking her for that info compared to a mega site like Ashley Madison, is extremely extremely low. It's just wouldn't be worth the hackers effort for the small amount of data they could possibly get.
I can't speak for everyone, but I use encrypted email and file storage for my admin, I think this is pretty common as I learnt to do that from the advice of other providers. Some clients will find it easier to text me screening details, and when they do I delete them from my device once I've finished with my process, and anything I think I need to keep is safely stored in my encrypted drive.
Sorry to hear that, Amanda.
A lot of the Ontario-based SWs I follow on Twitter appear to be taking frequent trips to the US and advertise that they regularly see clients there. I always worry that they're playing with fire.
If this is for the wife, realistically you’re far more likely to out yourself via web pages left open, phones, messages, different behaviours, unexplained gaps in time, unexplained money flow or the wrong BBJ/DATY….
Imagine this would be the first time a client pays to have a shitty time.....
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I am curious to know what are your views on monogamy after being a companion for a few years? Do you view it to be something not realistic or something feasible, a social construct? It makes me curious as some clientele are married and infidelity even in general, can be rampant.
