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Thanks for starting this interesting thread-
As a newbie in indulging into this “hobby”, I noticed that bare back oral (both bbbj and daty) is very sought after. Now, I am so nervous about STIs I would only chose CBJ and daty using Lorals ( look it up if you don’t know it).
As a provider, would you enjoy providing CBJ more and receiving using a product like Lorals or bb is always better for enjoyment? Would you be able to make covered as enjoyable to a client as a BBBj?

I will do whatever it takes to make my client comfortable. I do have flavored dental dam, female condom and non lubricated condom for bj. BUT the line is thin between being safe and projecting your stress on your provider. If you really try to be safe go see an all safe provider (no fluid exchange at all) or masturbate home.
 
Here is my question
I'm a man that is looking to book
I email them questions not on their site
I'm trying to understand if what I request they can fulfill
And I get ignored and I feel not treated fairly and honestly
I'm not looking just to chat but seriously book them
 
Here is my question
I'm a man that is looking to book
I email them questions not on their site
I'm trying to understand if what I request they can fulfill
And I get ignored and I feel not treated fairly and honestly
I'm not looking just to chat but seriously book them


I'm a man that is looking to book
I email them questions not on their site
I'm trying to understand if what I request they can fulfill
And I get ignored and I feel not treated fairly and honestly

I'm not looking just to chat but seriously book them
Are you trying to book an independent companion? Because if so, I would strongly recommend that you read my thread on “booking an indy”. If after that you still have questions, please do not hesitate to send me a direct message.
 
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Here is my question
I'm a man that is looking to book
I email them questions not on their site
I'm trying to understand if what I request they can fulfill
And I get ignored and I feel not treated fairly and honestly
I'm not looking just to chat but seriously book them
You ask for an outfit request that is essential for you in order to book and you wont buy it if we dont have it.

For most provider you are not interested in spending time with them but more or so with your outfit.

I would take their silence as a no and move on.
 
You ask for an outfit request that is essential for you in order to book and you wont buy it if we dont have it.

For most provider you are not interested in spending time with them but more or so with your outfit.

I would take their silence as a no and move on.
Actually it wasnt about an outfit
I was responding to her plea for financial help after she was left almost homeless by an ex
I just think it's rude to not respond at all to someone serious
 
what is something on ur wishlist about ur profession, romance, dating, sex life that is not fulfilled yet?
 
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A hypothetical scenario.

Somehow you have managed to do the Cobra Commander "Citizens of the World" thing where you take over all TVs all over the world for like 5 minutes.

What would you most want to say to the world about Sex Workers and this industry?
 
Thanks to the ladies who have participated in this post. Thoughtful, honest and insightful info from a providers personal POV.

I dont think this applies the the ladies who has responded to this post already but why do some ladies advertise showing their face?
 
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Thanks to the ladies who have participated in this post. Thoughtful, honest and insightful info from a providers personal POV.

I dont think this applies the the ladies who has responded to this post already but why do some ladies advertise showing their face?
It's a choice. Some rather be more private and others don't I guess. Marketing also.
 
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It's a choice. Some rather be more private and others don't I guess. Marketing also.

But every choice leads to its consequences. There is a deep down social stigma to your profession. As you fully reveal you face, how do you deal with your family? I mean not your own family, I mean your dad and mom and your siblings. Have you ever worried about how they look on you?
 
A travel date. I would love one, one day. I dont advertize them because I couldn't do it with a stranger BUT with the right person...
I’ve never met you, but I’d bet you’d be a great travel companion. But the lucky guy better be in good health from a cardiac point of view, just saying. 😊
 
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what is something on ur wishlist about ur profession, romance, dating, sex life that is not fulfilled yet?

what is something on ur wishlist about ur profession, romance, dating, sex life that is not fulfilled yet?
I think I’ve fulfilled most of my goals:

• I have a good reputation (I think)
• raised my rates to a comfortable point
• 60 mins booking are rare
• I’m busy but not overbooked
• I have good regular clients



On a materialistic aspect, I’d like to be gifted jewelry (that we pick together). I’m ok if it never happens.
 
But every choice leads to its consequences. There is a deep down social stigma to your profession. As you fully reveal you face, how do you deal with your family? I mean not your own family, I mean your dad and mom and your siblings. Have you ever worried about how they look on you?

They know what I do. I mean I am stable financially, I have no substance abuse problem, nobody put a gun in my head to do that (I started at 28yrs). I have no apparent signs of trauma other than a light aprehension in front of an unknown foreskin and a ptsd in airport. I mean what do you want them to say? Its my life.