Accept & Respect
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Kind of hard to equate buying groceries with buying sex. Its not a mainstream industry, and the mainstream norms of conduct simply aren't going to apply so directly. Its simply not the same, and you are simply not going to get a uniform set of customer behaviours, the way a grocery store will.
"I believe that the reason I have so much repeat business and have been very successful in this industry for as long as I have is not just because of my cock sucking ability, etc., but my great conversational skills as well as genuineness. "
now thats funny! :rofl:
now thats funny! :rofl:
Sophia - you chose this business, take the good with the bad. We don't need a lecture because you can't deal with customers. Get over yourself.
CapitalGuy, I completely disagree with you on this point.
I believe, especially having worked at many different jobs and in many different levels of authority (I was going to say positions but we all know where that would lead) over the years, that grocery stores or any other mainstream businesses as you refer to them, get all kinds of customers as well. In other words, mainstream does not equate standard/normal. I used to work at a Shoppers Drug Mart in a low income part of the GTA and the owner was very aware that not all of the customers who frequented it were exactly ideal. Fortunately for the staff he sided with us when the so called normal standard of behviour was not exhibited by such said customers. Not all bosses would be as understanding as he was and we were very grateful for it as it made our lives/jobs much easier. I don't, nor did he, make excuses for poor behaviour!
Having said that, I want to make it clear here that I don't hold the behaviour of some hobbyists against all men as they are simply not representative of all hobbyists/men.
Regardless of whether a situation is mainstream or not, I choose to conduct myself in the same manner at all times and therefore interact/engage with/treat my garbage collector the same way I interact/engage with/treat my doctor. This however is a reflection on myself and my value system. Simply said, if everyone acted this way, as some more mature, self respecting and therefore respectful in general people do, then interactions in general would run more smoothly.
My message is simply intended to enlighten those hobbyists who do conduct themselves in a less than desirable manner as to how to get better results, not just from myself, but other providers/ladies as well. Honey, and a little work/research on the part of the hobbyist, gets the Bee so to speak. Surely hobbyists can relate to this last statement, as evidenced by the number of posts on this very board that are responded to with, "Have you tried the Search button/feature?".
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Why is that so funny HEYHEY?
There are gentlemen who book 4 hour dinner dates with me. The first two hours are spent enjoying good food/wine, good company and good conversation. The last two are spent enjoying good playtime, whatever that may consist of. Even 1 hour clients often want to spend a few minutes on the couch sipping some wine and chatting/catching up, then making out like teenagers before we move on to more adult play.
As for genuineness, as witnessed by my genuine, albeit somewhat lost effort here to afford hobbyists a view into the service provider side of things, I get an A for effort if nothing else.
P.S. Ford for Mayor :rofl:
As someone mentioned previously, you have to take the good with the bad. Its simply business. Business is a competitive beast. People have choices and, as such, will try to maximize their money and convenience/service. I have several large customers who I cater to whom I dont go by the book in terms of hours or service. Why? Because others would love to have them as clients and repeat business is the best kind of business.
My advice to you is take the personal out of the equation and look at the business reasons why. Once you make the transaction you can be as personal as you choose
My advice to you is take the personal out of the equation and look at the business reasons why. Once you make the transaction you can be as personal as you choose
Why we see sps vary from person to person. The sex is one aspect that we all have in common but then there are a myriad of other reasons that will compel us to see one sp over another. I have been lucky enough to have seen Sophia, and yes the sex is great, but what will make me repeat with her is the personal connection I have found with her. I like her and I believe she also likes me (even if it might be an illusion on my part). I don't see a great number of sps but tend to visit the same ones because the ones I see I feel close towards. I enjoy and like them as people as well as the service they provide. I have always respected them and most sps reciprocate if treated with respect.
I can assure you elmo (is that tickle me?) that there is no need to get over myself as the majority of ladies feel the way I do, they're just not willing to put their necks on the line in the manner I have chosen in order to convey these sentiments. How do I know this, by conversations with other providers in the past/present, our own sections provided on some boards to inform each other of good/bad clients and the ongoing support I have received via PM from them. By the way, it may shock you to know that some hobbyists have also PMd me to state, and I quote, "well said", etc. No, this does not mean that they are "(cute) bum kissers", it simply means that they get it, so apparently not all members feel the way you do. Your reaction however does not surprise me as often any attempt to educate will be met with contempt on the part of those who don't like the message. I have no control over how you interpret my thoughts. I meant it to be educational, as stated in the post, yet you take it to be a lecture. All I can suggest here is that if you don't like what's on the telly, change the channel. No one forced you to read the post and if you chose to read and then comment on it, that's your right, as it was mine to post it in the first place. I believe it is called "Freedom of the Press".
You are however correct in that I did choose to get into this line of work, and like many of their chosen career, did not know exactly everything I was signing up for. Experience has taught me otherwise and believe you me, I deal with customers just fine, as evidenced by my reviews both here and elsewhere. Just as this industry has taught me many things, and will hopefully continue to do so, hobbyists can also learn from their experiences in and around this industry. Silly me for thinking some hobbyists might benefit form my insight as a service provider.
P.S. Some hobbyists like it when I lecture to them. Mind you, I'm usually wearing a hot secretary outfit with glasses, etc. and am commanding them to do naughty things. Just a FYI.
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As someone mentioned previously, you have to take the good with the bad. Its simply business. Business is a competitive beast. People have choices and, as such, will try to maximize their money and convenience/service. I have several large customers who I cater to whom I dont go by the book in terms of hours or service. Why? Because others would love to have them as clients and repeat business is the best kind of business.
My advice to you is take the personal out of the equation and look at the business reasons why. Once you make the transaction you can be as personal as you choose
Thank You Curious36!
This advice I will take to heart as it is conveyed in a manner that is conducive to the learning process. How something is communicated makes a big difference in how it is received.
However, one has to take the time to properly read a statement, which requires one to read it in it's entirety and to sometimes even read it twice, in order to fully interpret it's meaning. Only then can they react accordingly to the true point of the posting. Unfortunately, not everyone can/is willing to do this, but we all know that this only happens elsewhere, and never here on TERB
.P.S. The smiley face really helped so I wanted to give you a pretend it's naked :dance: back.
Truer words have never been spoken Luton and although I know that you like and respect me, I also know that I'm not your ATF. I believe she may go by the intials MF. Please correct me if I'm wrong. In answer to your doubts Luton, I would definitely repeat with you, so yes I do genuinely like you. Now the question becomes one of whether or not you think MF might like me and if a threesome could ever arise from this mutual liking? Food for thought Luton.
Sophia, I have never hidden the fact how much I enjoy seeing Malika, but I have also enjoyed Effie, Sydney deSade, Veronica Lodge and yourself. If you lived downtown my visits to you would be more regular since I live downtown. I have no doubt MF would like you and a threesome is definitely food for thought.Truer words have never been spoken Luton and although I know that you like and respect me, I also know that I'm not your ATF. I believe she may go by the intials MF. Please correct me if I'm wrong. In answer to your doubts Luton, I would definitely repeat with you, so yes I do genuinely like you. Now the question becomes one of whether or not you think MF might like me and if a threesome could ever arise from this mutual liking? Food for thought Luton.
First off, I have to say I like your writing skills ...and I am not buttering you up for a change of menu or something else.
In any business, you should expect bad apples (and for that matter everywhere and this board included). All you need to do is just weed them out, i.e. blocked calls, etc. No need for an argument. Don't let them spoil your day.
I would like to add to the fact that being a gentleman has nothing to do with age, but with education, upbringing, social skills, etc. although I would tend to agree that being older (and hopefully more mature), there is a tendency for one to act in a more gentle manner due to testosterone level change.
Miss Jessica Lee,
Thanx for joining me on the Gangplank! LOL
P.S. I have the same Missus Claus panties in my wardrobe. I'll have to break them out for another Xmas season.
sinsul santa sophia....has a nice ring to it........i will have to check out those panties
Sophia, I'm sure there are some really good stories behind this post....when you write the book please sign me up for an autographed copy.
Interacting with sex workers brings out the worst in a certain kind of man. Knowing that a woman is open-minded sexually (for a price) implies to them that she has no feelings. Some men just plain don't know how to talk to chicks, and their boorishnes is camouflaged shyness insecurity on inexperience. In the last season of Boardwalk Empire a male character told a female character "maybe I just don't understand women" She replies something to the effect of "think of yourself: the things you want and expect...now picture yourself in a dress."
Not saying you are wrong or you treat your clients poorly, but it brings to mind so many posts of guys bitching about the way they've gotten dicked around by SP's/agencies and the classic answer that is supposed to explain it all away is:
THIS BUSINESS IS LIKE NO OTHER.
It means rude behaviour should be accepted because it is johns dealing with prostitutes.
