Sugar Dating Experience

[RobI]

Last paragraph is a bad scenario! “No rules” is a right phrase! It includes some games such as … Two hours with an SB and knock on the door - second guy is coming for his turn. One of real facts…

Yeah, been in that situation too - a lot of these girls don't have money skills (or just work in jobs that don't cover much), so try to make the most of it, don't throw it around, but make it clear if they help you, you help them

 

[waxtrax]

Need a quick advice. Got a young SB asking for $300 ppm drinks/dinner (non-intimate) for first meet. She's pretty hot tho but should I pass? Or is this still common? I still haven't encounter anyone who will come out first meeting (non cash).

 

[Leimonis]

Need a quick advice. Got a young SB asking for $300 ppm drinks/dinner (non-intimate) for first meet. She's pretty hot tho but should I pass? Or is this still common? I still haven't encounter anyone who will come out first meeting (non cash).

In these situations I always assume that there would not be a second date. Or it will again be a platonic because she can’t feel pressured etc.
Why would she ever put out when she can collect money for eating and drinking?

 

[jsanchez]

Need a quick advice. Got a young SB asking for $300 ppm drinks/dinner (non-intimate) for first meet. She's pretty hot tho but should I pass?

She's getting dinner/drinks and $300 and you're getting?
Pass.

 

[shack]

Need a quick advice. Got a young SB asking for $300 ppm drinks/dinner (non-intimate) for first meet. She's pretty hot tho but should I pass? Or is this still common? I still haven't encounter anyone who will come out first meeting (non cash).

I always tell them that on a meet and greet 1st date, there are no expectations on either side. No expectation of sex and no expectation of money. The term mutually beneficial gets used a lot. In this case, she gets the benefit of 3 bills and you get the benefit of paying for dinner? There is nothing mutually beneficial there. It is just unfair.

I also tell them that I have many friends and family members that I can go to dinner with. I'm not that lonely to have to pay someone $300 to have dinner with me. If, after dinner, we decide to consummate the arrangement, I'll be glad to pay the agreed upon amount.

DO NOT EVER PAY HER MONEY FOR A MEET AND GREET.

 

[waxtrax]

True true, I just gotta stick to my gut feeling. I know deep down paying money on first meet is not something I'm comfortable with. But I was just curious if this is still a trend the hotter/younger SB are, will always ask money up front.

 

[shack]

True true, I just gotta stick to my gut feeling. I know deep down paying money on first meet is not something I'm comfortable with. But I was just curious if this is still a trend the hotter/younger SB are, will always ask money up front.

It is not trend, thankfully. (Paying not asking)

It only becomes one if we succumb to their inappropriate demands.

 

[dchoye]

What’s the point of paying someone $300 to have dinner without any intimacy ?
I can hire a companion for my elderly mother to come to her place and help prepare a meal and sit and be social with her for an hour at $25/hour

 

[systemerror]

Simps. Don't know any better.

 

[Leimonis]

This is the latest shit along those lines that I’ve been getting :

I’m open to moving things in a non-platonic direction, though I prefer us getting to know each other first of course. Iwill say I really don’t meet for free since it’s usually quite a hassle to “look presentable”, does that work for you?

And when I pointed out that I’m not looking to be rinsed she wouldn’t give up:

I mean, understandable— I’m willing to work with you on thatfront, but it also just feels a little pressuring to move quickly to incentivise intimacy, which is something I feel should be a little more built up or things can feel very one-sided, emotionally.

 

[Leimonis]

I can hire a companion for my elderly mother to come to her place and help prepare a meal and sit and be social with her for an hour at $25/hour

I am going to steal this and report back

 

[Cholla]

I am reading posts and just wondering.., This is kind of “romantic arrangement” which is fine. We agree on rate, etc. Then one side, SB, began asking for something extra - maybe gifts, dinners, even trips, etc. Why the other side - paying party - can’t introduce “tariffs” (very popular word now) in a form of anal, CIM, maybe even 3some as a “retaliation measure”?

 

[Leimonis]

I am reading posts and just wondering.., This is kind of “romantic arrangement” which is fine. We agree on rate, etc. Then one side, SB, began asking for something extra - maybe gifts, dinners, even trips, etc. Why the other side - paying party - can’t introduce “tariffs” (very popular word now) in a form of anal, CIM, maybe even 3some as a “retaliation measure”?

Those exchanges and tariffs can take any shape and form. Many years ago I knew a guy who would routinely beat up his gf and he would give her new shoes for a small beating and once he gave her a fur coat for a fairly brutal beating.
but I wouldn’t recommend forcing a threesome on someone who’s not into it. Or an anal lol. I’d simply dump an Sb for making extra demands.

 

[Cholla]

Those exchanges and tariffs can take any shape and form. Many years ago I knew a guy who would routinely beat up his gf and he would give her new shoes for a small beating and once he gave her a fur coat for a fairly brutal beating.
but I wouldn’t recommend forcing a threesome on someone who’s not into it. Or an anal lol. I’d simply dump an Sb for making extra demands.

Nice response, thank you!

First paragraph. Definitely no to beating, but yes for good ass spanking/whipping.
Second paragraph. Anal first, dumping afterwards.

 

[dchoye]

You know you found a keeper when you pay the SB for sex only and when we go out to a cafe she pays for the coffee and cheesecake for both of us.

 

[that6969]

$300 just for meet and greet and nothing else? Wow...I had a BBW SB msg me last year and she was asking $500 just for meet and greet PPM. I declined. I told her for $500 I'd get more than enough from a SP or even 2 SPs. Plus the meet and greets I've done in the past with SB only I paid for the meal and nothing more because we wanted to see how we'd connected in person. I wouldn't blow $300 or even $500 just for a dinner which of course is on top of what I'm paying and my gas to travel over an hour one way. Fuck that shit. It wouldn't shock me if this was her only way to make income or something. But I can't justify that even with money to blow. It's a simple meet and greet.

 

[waxtrax]

$300 just for meet and greet and nothing else? Wow...I had a BBW SB msg me last year and she was asking $500 just for meet and greet PPM. I declined. I told her for $500 I'd get more than enough from a SP or even 2 SPs. Plus the meet and greets I've done in the past with SB only I paid for the meal and nothing more because we wanted to see how we'd connected in person. I wouldn't blow $300 or even $500 just for a dinner which of course is on top of what I'm paying and my gas to travel over an hour one way. Fuck that shit. It wouldn't shock me if this was her only way to make income or something. But I can't justify that even with money to blow. It's a simple meet and greet.

But is this the crazy trend SBs are expecting these days?! The hot ones prob can get away with it cuz like somebody said, there are some ppl who will pay or can afford it. Or they will use that line after the first meet(ppm) then we can progress to something more intimate which again does't feel right, cuz chances are you won't see them again. idk maybe the ones over 30 are more mature about it, but this really makes want to just stick with SPs.

 

[Leimonis]

But is this the crazy trend SBs are expecting these days?! The hot ones prob can get away with it cuz like somebody said, there are some ppl who will pay or can afford it. Or they will use that line after the first meet(ppm) then we can progress to something more intimate which again does't feel right, cuz chances are you won't see them again. idk maybe the ones over 30 are more mature about it, but this really makes want to just stick with SPs.

I blame fucking incel community for amplifying the issue of low body count.
A few years ago being a ho was empowering. And soliciting “virtual” relationships was prohibited on seeking (before COVID).
Those were the golden days of sugaring but it seems that it is over now.

 

[shack]

But is this the crazy trend SBs are expecting these days?!

What they expect for a M&G is irrelevant because we control the purse strings. We decide.

All she is doing is just letting you know early on that she is not what you are looking for in an arrangement. Her intent is to use you as an ATM.

 

[GeeBee]

Need a quick advice. Got a young SB asking for $300 ppm drinks/dinner (non-intimate) for first meet. She's pretty hot tho but should I pass? Or is this still common? I still haven't encounter anyone who will come out first meeting (non cash).

There are lots of girls out there who try this, and it must work for them, but don’t be the guy who perpetuates the idea.

Be upfront right away and tell her you’re not interested in paying $$ for a M&G, but you’d be happy to buy her a drink and have a quick chat. You never know, she may come back with a better suggestion. If she insists it’s a hard pass.

No matter how hot she is, remember that for around the same kind of money you can be banging a hot agency SP.