Or when she comes to a job interview is she being paid for her time?
Sugar Dating Experience
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Sometimes you forget that this is a forum for guys and here you are insulting the people whose income you depend on. It doesn't sound like a very smart thing to do. You didn't just insult me, you insulted all of us.
And it was an open discussion. The problem is that you immediately take offense when someone presents an alternative but valid opinion. Different people have different tastes and I simply stated that. But anyone with my tastes and everybody else who sees SBs are lonely AKA losers.
You should think a little bit more about what you post before you post it and remember that it is all guys reading your posts, not other women or SPs. Men do not think the same as women and you're not going to change that.
You're welcome and the advice is free......this time. Do you give introductory offers for newbies?
I really can't understand the difference between an SB and an SP for the life of me no matter how much I read this thread.
There is a girl on LeoList I have seen four times now. I asked for an Outcall and I paid her $600 for 2 hours of time two weeks ago; I took her out to Dinner at a Sushi Place (she likes sushi, I paid for it), and then we went to a nearby Hotel to fuck our brains out.
SB just sounds like an Independent Escort with more steps. The fact that SBs want to be paid for a meet & greet in order to "interview" you before you get to fuck her is the equivalent of having to screen yourself with an SP with Photo ID or an E-mail Money Transfer (but worse) which a lot of guys on this board abhor.
Maybe I'm just fucking stupid. At the end of day, regardless if the woman is a civilian, an SB, or an SP, you do end up having to "pay" for sex in some way, shape, or form. At least with an SP it's more direct.
There is a girl on LeoList I have seen four times now. I asked for an Outcall and I paid her $600 for 2 hours of time two weeks ago; I took her out to Dinner at a Sushi Place (she likes sushi, I paid for it), and then we went to a nearby Hotel to fuck our brains out.
SB just sounds like an Independent Escort with more steps. The fact that SBs want to be paid for a meet & greet in order to "interview" you before you get to fuck her is the equivalent of having to screen yourself with an SP with Photo ID or an E-mail Money Transfer (but worse) which a lot of guys on this board abhor.
Maybe I'm just fucking stupid. At the end of day, regardless if the woman is a civilian, an SB, or an SP, you do end up having to "pay" for sex in some way, shape, or form. At least with an SP it's more direct.
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i didnt take your original comments as insulting and I wish you didnt delete it.I deleted my comments just because I have better things to do than argue with people on the internet. Sometimes I forget this is an incel community and it's not really an open discussion but its just a pity party and a constant attack on women. My mistake
Have fun!
Just because Shack felt negative to your comment that doesnt reflect the same reactions from all of us
There is grain of truth what you wrote , that some of us are lonely and would like to spend more time and develop a connection besides sex
I rather spend the day / whole evening with a SB then be the next one in line and spend a hour with a SP
I don't think you should paint all of us as a "incels community" just because of a disagreement with one poster
Incels are crazies that are openly hostile and dont want to have sex with women
I been told by SPs that many clients /posters treat SPs better than their previous BF
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It's a different flavor of prostitution, I call them sex workers who don't want to be called sex workers.
I agreed with some of your comments except the incel statement, I even clicked like lolI deleted my comments just because I have better things to do than argue with people on the internet. Sometimes I forget this is an incel community and it's not really an open discussion but its just a pity party and a constant attack on women. My mistake
Have fun!
A lot of men on here have ex's or SO's and are in it for the sex variety and the thrill or have boring sex lives,
incels on the other hand are a different breed that's bubbling over with hatred of women in general
and that I hope you'd never have to deal with.
The term “incel” (short for “involuntary celibate”) generally refers to someone who wants to have romantic or sexual relationships but struggles to do so. While the stereotype is of single men, it’s possible for a married person to identify as an incel if they feel trapped in a sexless or emotionally unfulfilling marriage.
Some people in long-term relationships or marriages experience involuntary celibacy due to factors like:
• A sexless marriage (one partner refuses intimacy)
• Emotional or physical neglect
• A partner’s medical or psychological conditions
• Relationship breakdown but staying together for financial or family reasons
However, the broader incel community often focuses on lack of access to relationships in the first place, so married individuals don’t typically identify with or get included in the mainstream incel discourse.
Agree, I was only referring to the narrower stereotype of the single man who can't get sex and hates women because of that, think Alek Minassian or Elliot Rodger,
I assumed that's what she thought of this community but I could be wrong.
I agree with @Leimonis and @jsanchez comments.
There are two types of incels from their comments and been here long enough.
Single Incel. - Mainly described a man but a woman too.
Married Incel. Mainly described a man but a woman too.
I know a guy who is a single celibate by choice but can talk and meet women easily - no hate towards them - and I have seen women make moves on him. But he doesn't want a relationship - pays for sex - because of many reasons like all of us here.
There are two types of incels from their comments and been here long enough.
Single Incel. - Mainly described a man but a woman too.
Married Incel. Mainly described a man but a woman too.
I know a guy who is a single celibate by choice but can talk and meet women easily - no hate towards them - and I have seen women make moves on him. But he doesn't want a relationship - pays for sex - because of many reasons like all of us here.
I hope we all agree that this guy is not an incel though because he is hardly celibate as he has sex albeit paid for, but even more importantly, his situation is not involuntary.
That's the point of my second post. She resents all of the men here because I presented a different opinion. She does not accept anyone's opinion but her own. She is doing herself and her business no favours with such a defensive attitude. When she talks about an open discussion, it means only hers' counts. My response to her original post was actually quite mild.
Don't worry. I believe that I quoted it.
Do you think that when she said that guys that want a SB are because they are "lonely" was a compliment? She may not have intended it as a diss, but it sure reads that way.
I don’t take it as a compliment nor a negative comment.
We all have degrees of lonely feelings
Why are we looking for girls when we could be masturbating or have sex with our wife/GF ?
For me it is disconnect with my SO and getting tired of solo sex
We all need connection. There’s nothing wrong with that.
Yes, the comment was insensitive coming from a pro SP who monopolize on turnstile clients but why do you care?
You found SB who want to spend 4 hours or longer with you and not watch the clock.
This is an escorts forum. Not a SB forum
Escorts are trained to watch the time closely and boot you out when next client is ready
Im not surprised by the comment
I think being called a “time waster” is more of a diss then being called “lonely”
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Agreed, it’s all sex work. And it’s cool that you and the LL SP had a good time eating and fucking.
The only thing I’d point out is that most SB’s don’t demand the stupid $$ for a meet end greet nonsense, and most of the guys into Sugar Babes won’t be interested in girls who do. If thats the case then you’d might as well go with an SP, no question.
To me the difference between SP’s and SB’s is that the screening goes both ways with an SB. You can usually meet an SB up front for a coffee or a drink and essentially screen each other. You can see the girl in person, see if her pic’s are accurate, get a feeling for her personality, and in many cases openly talk about her sexual likes and limits, and all it costs is some time and a Starbucks. Many legitimate SB’s are also happy have a video conversation before you meet.
With a SP it’s more of a gamble. Yes great reviews from fellow pooners give reassurance, but the guy is the one who gets screened, not the girl. You’re not going to see the the girl in person, or even talk to her, until $$ changes hands. And you might even be asked for a deposit before hand.
Where do you usually meet them for intimacy? Your place or theirs or a hotel?
Dogs mate more successfully when the female is brought to the male’s territory rather than the other way around. Here’s why:
1. Comfort & Confidence:
• The male dog is more confident and dominant in his own environment, which can make the mating process smoother.
• A new environment can make a male dog anxious or distracted, reducing his willingness to mate.
2. Territorial Instincts:
• In an unfamiliar location, the male dog might be more focused on exploring and marking rather than mating.
• If the female is in his space, he may feel more in control and engaged.
3. Reduced Distractions:
• If the male is brought to the female’s home, there could be other dogs, unfamiliar smells or environmental factors.
Good way to phrase it.
I don't care. I was pointing out how the comment was "insensitive", nothing more and nothing less.
And how would you characterize saying that this is board of incels? Also simply insensitive? I think that she over reacted to my initial post.
In that case, maybe this whole thread of almost 100 pages should be deleted, because SBs is the topic and it's on an escort forum.
Hey all I just feel I need to share a funny thing with the community! I just had a session with a brand new 26yo SB and she was absolutely beautiful and pretty restrictive and kinda shitty in bed although she liked doggy like all of them do but most importantly she claimed to have liked that subject in school that’s about stars and constellations and planets and she called it astrology 
I said I can’t find astrology that fascinating and she said what do you mean it’s about majestic objects in the sky and what happens there with them. And I started to suspect that she meant astronomy and I pointed out that astrology is not the science and suggested that perhaps it’s astronomy and she reluctantly agreed that probably that’s what it must’ve been she was the one who brought it up as her favourite . It’s not like I quizzed her on her general knowledge
She also admitted that she hasn’t really read a single fucking science fiction book in her life. When she need to read for school she would watch a movie.
Beautiful as a fucking doll though.
but its hard not to feel like I become dumber in her presence
I said I can’t find astrology that fascinating and she said what do you mean it’s about majestic objects in the sky and what happens there with them. And I started to suspect that she meant astronomy and I pointed out that astrology is not the science and suggested that perhaps it’s astronomy and she reluctantly agreed that probably that’s what it must’ve been she was the one who brought it up as her favourite . It’s not like I quizzed her on her general knowledgeShe also admitted that she hasn’t really read a single fucking science fiction book in her life. When she need to read for school she would watch a movie.
Beautiful as a fucking doll though.
but its hard not to feel like I become dumber in her presence
