Sugar Dating Experience
- Thread starter FunInToronto2023
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One of my current SBs calls me babe and she is totally good. We even did a random non ppm paid Sunday brunch with her. That’s as far from a ho as one could hope
I'm not saying that it's an automatic, but I've seen it so many times, I'm not prepared to take the chance anymore.
Don't be so harsh with their profiles lol. Some don't have the mindset to type something meaningful or they don't want you to find out how bad their grammar is. The entire princess/queen treatment is highly laughable. Mainstream media did a great job pushing that agenda a few years back.
I put those terms in the orange flag category. Most times it’s a red flag but there are exceptions
Have two SB that call me those terms that are not escorts
Texting with one that likes uses “Hun” but the conversation wasn’t escort like. after vetting found that she just moved here from UK and it is commonly used term there
Another one used regular language initially then transformed into used Babe few months after meeting her
She was definitely new to sex work and I think was learning to use the lingo as she was accumulating more SD
Have two SB that call me those terms that are not escorts
Texting with one that likes uses “Hun” but the conversation wasn’t escort like. after vetting found that she just moved here from UK and it is commonly used term there
Another one used regular language initially then transformed into used Babe few months after meeting her
She was definitely new to sex work and I think was learning to use the lingo as she was accumulating more SD
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I don't think I was being harsh as I understand why some need help. I was mainly pointing out how obvious it is which ones have been plagiarized. The common tone and themes keep being used over and over and then was wondering if there is a similar tool/source for the guys and if it's as widely known about as the one(s) for the girls are. I've never heard mention of one for us.
Be vigilant brothers 
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You can easily go on ChatGPT and ask to make a profile for an older man interested in younger women.
Of course they don’t read profiles most of the time and often times don’t even look at them.
I once asked a girl what if my profile said that I like to abuse little children. She hasn’t had an answer. God bless their hearts
Have a look at any SP with her own website and your paragraph above could be a cut and paste from there too.
Perhaps not a handbook, but SB sites do have tips and suggestions for writing a profile. That’s likely why there’s so much repetition and vacuous nonsense. I’m guessing the girls see the similar nonsense on guys profiles and give them a hard pass too.
On the flip side it's pretty obvious when a girl has actually put some thought into it and has some communication skills. They tend to stand out as real in a sea of scams. Unfortunately the AI bullshit will blur that line soon for us.
It is often not easy to decipher. Try this:
It’s been about 8 years since I’ve been with a man, I primarily sleep with women. So for me, I do feel that sets me aside from the rest, no one wants a woman who’s a pit stop if you know what I mean. I don’t have a high body count, I respect and value my body, and beyond the psychical features, my intelligence and depth is what I find most valuable about myself.
I will be fully transparent, XXX ppm won’t work for me. I’m looking for a 5g monthly allowance. This is not a longterm number, I simply want to get out of my debt by the end of spring/summer, so that I can focus on rebuilding my life. I’m exhausted living paycheck to paycheck and it still not being enough. I have 14g debt in loans I took out for school and 21g left on my car payments to settle before I can even think of getting a place of my own. Once I’m debt free, I’m happy to reproach the agreement and cut the allowance in half. If that’s something we can agree on, you would be the only person I have an arrangement with. I would preferably like to have only 1 arrangement and long term, my sexual health is very important to me. If this is something that could work for you, I’m happy to make plans to meet in person
another interesting quote from some 36yo SB profile:
P.S. Please do not contact me to offer three-figure amounts. Seriously, you belong elsewhere.
P.S. Please do not contact me to offer three-figure amounts. Seriously, you belong elsewhere.
That's easy to decipher. It means, not for shack.It is often not easy to decipher. Try this:
It’s been about 8 years since I’ve been with a man, I primarily sleep with women. So for me, I do feel that sets me aside from the rest, no one wants a woman who’s a pit stop if you know what I mean. I don’t have a high body count, I respect and value my body, and beyond the psychical features, my intelligence and depth is what I find most valuable about myself.
I will be fully transparent, XXX ppm won’t work for me. I’m looking for a 5g monthly allowance. This is not a longterm number, I simply want to get out of my debt by the end of spring/summer, so that I can focus on rebuilding my life. I’m exhausted living paycheck to paycheck and it still not being enough. I have 14g debt in loans I took out for school and 21g left on my car payments to settle before I can even think of getting a place of my own. Once I’m debt free, I’m happy to reproach the agreement and cut the allowance in half. If that’s something we can agree on, you would be the only person I have an arrangement with. I would preferably like to have only 1 arrangement and long term, my sexual health is very important to me. If this is something that could work for you, I’m happy to make plans to meet in person
She's done nothing to prove her worth. Words on their own, mean nothing. And no guarantees that when you reach the 50% threshold she doesn't pull a Kaiser Soszer (sp?)
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Another similar writing style and one exact phrase:
Hello! I’m passionate about life's diverse experiences, driven by creativity and curiosity. Whether I’m reading a great book, exploring the outdoors, or experimenting in the kitchen, I’m always eager for new challenges. My love for art and culture takes me to museums, theaters, and music festivals. I also dedicate time to volunteering, environmental clean-ups, and promoting wellness through mindfulness, yoga, and hiking. Above all, I value meaningful connections with family and friends, as they’re the core of my happiness. My goal is to live a life full of learning, adventure, and positive impact
It’s worse than that lol I’d argue that she officially admits to be financially irresponsible if not plain stupid.
Lol so it's about moneyYeah, that's certainly possible, you never know. If you're closer in age to the ladies you're seeing, there's more possibility for things to evolve into FWB or other situations. There are no rules, really,y which is what makes it fun
To me, it is really pretty simple.
Some people, usually who have had a more “normal” life experience in terms of relationships, simply want some drama and uncertainty in their lives.
They claim that the favorable resolution of uncertainty and overcoming of drama produces a ‘higher high” in terms of sex and quasi-relationship than a typical commercial sex transaction, but the comparison is always to a half-hour session, often with someone from LeoList.
The simple fact of the matter is that most independent escorts offer longer packages that include a date/companionship in addition to the certainty of sex, and many have an extensive sexual service list offering that prevents any boredom from ever occuring.
In the short run, the independent escort is more expensive for a multi-hour experience. In the long run, they are not, given that there will be no dramatic demands for money later in the experience.
Some people need and enjoy drama, uncertainty, and occasional highly favorable resolution of conflict. Some of us hate all of that and look at ways (usually via repeating with specific providers and purchasing longer sessions) to obtain the benefits of quasi-relationships / companionship / friendships without the drama. To do so, you have to be comfortable and respectful of the fact that you are with a sex worker. That is another difference. Sugar Babies are aware of the fact that they can drain a few more dollars from Target, if Target views them as something superior to a sex worker (although more than a few Sugar Babies also do independent escorting or even agency escorting). They just have to remember what hat to wear when they leave their home to meet Boyfriend, John or Target.
And remember to create some drama and uncertainty if that appears to be desired by Target.
Women are very smart and versatile. They started talking about this shit on the swingsets at recess while casually watching the boys play ball.
And we will never get around the fact that feeling superior to others is an intrinsic need of many. How many two hour sessions have guys here had, while horizontal, with independent and agency escorts where she talks about what she is studying in school, where she works, and/or the fun Caribbean trips she takes with her girlfriends. The guy into Sugar Babies will have that same conversation over an expensive dinner and be completely unconvinced that any “hooker” would have the same experiences or things to say. Tge golf example earlier was excellent. The golfer who takes the game too seriously never has respect for those who don’t.
Some people, usually who have had a more “normal” life experience in terms of relationships, simply want some drama and uncertainty in their lives.
They claim that the favorable resolution of uncertainty and overcoming of drama produces a ‘higher high” in terms of sex and quasi-relationship than a typical commercial sex transaction, but the comparison is always to a half-hour session, often with someone from LeoList.
The simple fact of the matter is that most independent escorts offer longer packages that include a date/companionship in addition to the certainty of sex, and many have an extensive sexual service list offering that prevents any boredom from ever occuring.
In the short run, the independent escort is more expensive for a multi-hour experience. In the long run, they are not, given that there will be no dramatic demands for money later in the experience.
Some people need and enjoy drama, uncertainty, and occasional highly favorable resolution of conflict. Some of us hate all of that and look at ways (usually via repeating with specific providers and purchasing longer sessions) to obtain the benefits of quasi-relationships / companionship / friendships without the drama. To do so, you have to be comfortable and respectful of the fact that you are with a sex worker. That is another difference. Sugar Babies are aware of the fact that they can drain a few more dollars from Target, if Target views them as something superior to a sex worker (although more than a few Sugar Babies also do independent escorting or even agency escorting). They just have to remember what hat to wear when they leave their home to meet Boyfriend, John or Target.
And remember to create some drama and uncertainty if that appears to be desired by Target.
Women are very smart and versatile. They started talking about this shit on the swingsets at recess while casually watching the boys play ball.
And we will never get around the fact that feeling superior to others is an intrinsic need of many. How many two hour sessions have guys here had, while horizontal, with independent and agency escorts where she talks about what she is studying in school, where she works, and/or the fun Caribbean trips she takes with her girlfriends. The guy into Sugar Babies will have that same conversation over an expensive dinner and be completely unconvinced that any “hooker” would have the same experiences or things to say. Tge golf example earlier was excellent. The golfer who takes the game too seriously never has respect for those who don’t.
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