Sugar Dating Experience

FunInToronto2023

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You’re likely right that in terms of value, or money and time spent per fuck, SP’s are the way to go for the casual hobbyist. The effort it takes to wade through all the women just isn’t worth it. You can text an agency or indy and have a date set up in minutes, or visit an MP on a whim.

Think of the golf metaphor. I like to play golf and consider it a hobby. I like a nice time on the course with some friends on a summer afternoon. I’m an OK golfer but it’s a casual hobby.

On the other hand I have a buddy who’s into every aspect of the sport. He watches it on TV, he reads magazines, he’s into the tech and the mechanics of his swing, and the latest gear. He even tried to make is own custom putter for fuck sakes. He’s also an OK golfer, but for him it’s a real hobby. I terms of dollar spent per round he’s miles deeper into it, but he also gets more enjoyment out of it as a hobby than I do and it’s about more than just putting a ball in the hole. ;)

Sex with SP’s vs SB's is the same. For lots of us, seeing escorts is a fun and satisfying way to fuck girls we’d never pull otherwise. But that’s it. On the other hand some guys see finding a Sugar Baby as more than just the end result. The search, the communication, thrill of the chase, coffee dates and lunches and the pursuit of that diamond in the rough (and they are out there if you look long enough) are all part of the fun and they treat it like a true hobby.

Guy’s who’ve had success and found that hottie know it can be worth it. But you need to have the time and enjoy the process, otherwise there are way easier ways to get laid.

Different strokes for different folks, to stretch the golf metaphor to it’s breaking point. :)
This is true and absolutely hilarious at the same time 😊😂 thank you for posting
 

Leimonis

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Single mom in need of babysitter is on the prowl again. Be careful out there :)
 
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Also there are a few SB who want to move in quick with a SD and tend to make rash decisions (probably really desperate). I had a few odd ones who I chatted make it clear because I have a place they were more than willing to move in quick even after a few in person meetings I suppose looking to be SAHM or housewives. Be careful out there.
 

FunInToronto2023

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Also there are a few SB who want to move in quick with a SD and tend to make rash decisions (probably really desperate). I had a few odd ones who I chatted make it clear because I have a place they were more than willing to move in quick even after a few in person meetings I suppose looking to be SAHM or housewives. Be careful out there.
Yeah definitely don’t do that, especially if it’s an SP or SB.
 

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Also there are a few SB who want to move in quick with a SD and tend to make rash decisions (probably really desperate). I had a few odd ones who I chatted make it clear because I have a place they were more than willing to move in quick even after a few in person meetings I suppose looking to be SAHM or housewives. Be careful out there.
I had one SB that I developed strong feelings for. One evening she comes over and asks me to marry her. To my own amazement, I turned down her offer and gave my reasons including that it was a marriage of convenience. She persisted. The final straw was when she said "I promise to come over at least once a week".
 

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Old, I don't think I could do. I'm usually in the 18-25 range. This was was 31. 😲 But I had a feeling she had big, big tits. It turns out they were way bigger than I anticipated. And she squirted a few times.
Shack, you're killing me with the description of gianormous tits... You know me the bigger the better
 

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A lot of them similar to SPs use hun, babe, etc. It has no meaning behind how they feel about who they are chatting with. I had a few hit me up with the so-called morning text and I just lie saying it meant a lot and how sweet they are. I really don't give a fuck about chat/text stuff because actions matter more.

She might think you're weird for asking that than playing along.
 
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Leimonis

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A lot of them similar to SPs use hun, babe, etc. It has no meaning behind how they feel about who they are chatting with. I had a few hit me up with the so-called morning text and I just lie saying it meant a lot and how sweet they are. I really don't give a fuck about chat/text stuff because actions matter more.

She might think you're weird for asking that than playing along.
I wasn’t worried asking it as she’s some distance away from Toronto and those small town girls are nmcot anyway. Hard to organize meets, uncultured etc. so I don’t really care what she thought.
Babe is a word that can be used for a lover though. Hun sounds like it comes from a waitress or sex worker.
 

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I've had a few workers at chain restaurants or stores say hun to me. Some people just use it casually.

And yeah I moved to a small town after years of being in Toronto and most people are highly uneducated, uncultured and stuff. Most just ruined their lives by partying and having sex cause they're bored I suppose. Probably a few inbreeds too and then they go around blaming others for their financial problems. Maybe don't blow your money on booze and smokes often? A lot bitch up getting up in the morning to work lol.
 

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Maybe don't blow your money on booze and smokes often? A lot bitch up getting up in the morning to work lol.
Yep education is the light and no education is going to work with the first light of day 😂
 

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I stopped with the SB stuff years ago. Paying a SP is a lot better cause then u get the fuck out like guys have mentioned here. Typically after 45mins to a H I'm done and want out. The going out and chatting gets annoying cause a lot of them (not all) start arguments over dumb stuff. And a lot of the time I can prove them wrong similar to my ex-wife with legit articles and they generally even after don't admit their mistake. I personally can't stand being around someone that uneducated and at times lacking confidence. I had one SB in her late 30s who didn't even want to go into a bank to change banks and she was too chicken shit to use the phone to talk to folks. Most of the younger gen is just getting annoying or they smoke too much weed and it's causing them anxiety and stuff.

My ex-wife didn't smoke weed, but she'd start bitching about stupid shit out in the public where people around us could hear and I just wanted to walk away.
 
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Leimonis

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it's a rhetorical question. Everybody knows what the answer is.
I am honestly not 100% sure. Ive heard that in the south of US it’s a common term of endearment. Who knows how it works at the farm where this girl was brought up
 

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I am honestly not 100% sure. I heard that in the south of US it’s a common term of endearment. Who knows how it works at the farm where this girl was brought up
My antennae automatically stand at attention when she's calling you babe or hun in her very first message. I'm great, Babe. How are you, hun.
 

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My antennae automatically stand at attention when she's calling you babe or hun in her very first message. I'm great, Babe. How are you, hun.
The way I see it “babe” is yellow flag, hun is red
 
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I swear that there must be a handbook to help the SBs write their profiles. Half of them sound like they're written by the same person. Philosophical yet whimsical displaying a free spirit wanting to broaden their life through adventure and spontaneity that they can share with someone else. Makes me want to puke, they are so phony.

Here's a perfect example that I just came across:

student with a curious mind and a restless spirit, always eager to explore new horizons and embrace life's adventures. When I’m not buried in textbooks or chasing academic dreams, you’ll probably find me discovering hidden gems in the city, enjoying a good book, or trying out a new hobby just to keep things interesting. I value meaningful connections, great conversations, and a touch of spontaneity. Life is too short to stay in one lane, and I’m ready to see where this journey takes me. Let’s make it memorable!

I wonder if there's any such handbooks for guys.
 
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