Whoa nelly, the SPs wading through all the toxicity in here for nuggets of honest, reasonable opinions must be fucking masochists. Maybe it's a turn-on, I won't judge
In my opinion, people who spend a lot of time at the club or rave scene are not attractive to me as a long-term partner. As a one-time hookup, sure maybe. I've pretty well aged out of even being around girls that club all the time anymore, but even in Uni I fucking hated the club scene. I could never envision myself seriously dating someone who loves going out once or twice a week. Huge $$$ sink, crazy long nights, filthy loud and cramped locations, having to babysit blackout drunk/stoned friends, and all the other chaos that can come with frequent clubbing. It's exhausting even to think about.
Another turnoff: homeopathy/alternative medicine-- but specifically to the exclusion of modern medicine. A passing interest in traditional cultural remedies is one thing, but at some point the stereotypical healing crystal energy alignment bullshit ends up falling down a slippery slope into straight up anti-vaxxing and anti-science behaviour. It's so wild and off-putting to see Q-anon conspiracy nuts sharing the same healthcare opinions as GOOP ladies.
