What are some hobbies that women have that you find unattractive?
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I don't mind if a girl is political, I know my stuff, however I have absolutely 0 interest in talking about it.
Either she really doesn't know what she is talking about but thinks she does and it is just annoying [most people really] or she does know what she is talking about and regardless of if we share a position or not, I am well enough informed that I know her talking points and she knows mine, so what's the point.
Also artists. I don't mean people do do art that actually looks like stuff, but that amateurish looking shit or that pomo stuff [post modern, weird for the sake of being weird]
Take Kate Micucci, she is insanely adorkably hot, and gives off autistic awkward penguin vibes which is adorable, but she doesn't these cringy stick figure drawings coloured in that her fans bust a nut over. I don't get it. Girl even went to art school, does she not have any sort of talent.
It's not even the hobby that would bother me, it's having my living space filled with ugly shit, if I wanted to look at ugly she I had to fake an interest in, I'd breed some sprog.
Religion. I mean it's kinda cute if a girl is modest and has trad wife energy [without kids] and the like, religious girls can be hot, but as long as I don't have to hear about her imaginary friend all the time, because with I am being lectured at which who wants that, or I get engaged and she sure as fuck wouldn't want that. Much like politics, it's fine if she can live and let live.
Children. I don't care for them, Cats fuck yes, kids, don't care. If someone ever hands me a baby to hold, so responding with "Sorry I'm vegan" or "That's OK I'm not hungry"
Either she really doesn't know what she is talking about but thinks she does and it is just annoying [most people really] or she does know what she is talking about and regardless of if we share a position or not, I am well enough informed that I know her talking points and she knows mine, so what's the point.
Also artists. I don't mean people do do art that actually looks like stuff, but that amateurish looking shit or that pomo stuff [post modern, weird for the sake of being weird]
Take Kate Micucci, she is insanely adorkably hot, and gives off autistic awkward penguin vibes which is adorable, but she doesn't these cringy stick figure drawings coloured in that her fans bust a nut over. I don't get it. Girl even went to art school, does she not have any sort of talent.
It's not even the hobby that would bother me, it's having my living space filled with ugly shit, if I wanted to look at ugly she I had to fake an interest in, I'd breed some sprog.
Religion. I mean it's kinda cute if a girl is modest and has trad wife energy [without kids] and the like, religious girls can be hot, but as long as I don't have to hear about her imaginary friend all the time, because with I am being lectured at which who wants that, or I get engaged and she sure as fuck wouldn't want that. Much like politics, it's fine if she can live and let live.
Children. I don't care for them, Cats fuck yes, kids, don't care. If someone ever hands me a baby to hold, so responding with "Sorry I'm vegan" or "That's OK I'm not hungry"
Plus it looks like Edward Scissor Hands down there when she’s anywhere near your junk!!! Way too dangerous to not be distracting.
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You tell us.
You are a woman right? you tell us.
When a woman puts on Cosmetics for SP work I can see that part of the Job.
When a woman puts on Cosmetics for finding a husband very light application or none then never wears it again , I see it as attraction tools.
BUT
When a woman puts on Cosmetics for no reason at all just to look good or follow a crowd or her favourite actress wears one? Do you call it a hobby or obsession?
When a woman puts on Cosmetics to hide her looks or insecurities. Do you call it a hobby or obsession?
Might be a hobby, it depends.
Wearing clothing isn't a hobby, dressing like an 18th century gentleman, hobby.
Also gotta wonder how they wipe.
I wouldn't say pump and dump for me. More, glance over and look away before it gets awkward, Why should they be any different from any other woman.
Thank you for stating this. I sincerely mean that.
I was trying to see a SP - timing - but I saw the nails a few weeks ago on the web, I was hesitant because of her nails, Now I really have to back off. Unless I am really lost I might see her. Rarely am I lost.
It’s not about what hobby they do. As long as they are passionate about it and aren’t assholes or gatekeepers about it, everything is good.
The hobby isn’t unattractive, it’s the way they talk about it. Gatekeeping is unattractive for instance.
it's generally either 'hobbies aren't the problem' or just people riffing on problematic addictions.'
Its one thing to like it, but its another thing to make it your whole personality.
Yes. I used to play video games with my friends on Friday nights. But Covid killed that, it was good for us to relief the week. But it was not to the detriment of those around me or us or our finances. Like all hobbies, if it consumes your time/energy/money and leaves nothing left for your SO, then it's a big problem. Everything in moderation. I'd never cancel a date. I hang out with my friends to game once in a blue moon but we do more pizza nights now 4 times a year to talk.
If you can make money out of it go for it. But there must be a timeline.
I can boil this post down to XXXX things
- Switching hobbies yearly. Fine if you get rid of stuff and not keep till death. Better have money for it and not throw it out.
- Tarot card reading - Anything to do with the zodiac
- Fake hair, nails or buying/selling them
- Listening to ratchet music
- Excessive partying
- Putting their whole lives on social media
Compulsive shopping for made in china crap
No hobbies. That’s a problem, because they will start complaining at you for having things to do, when they don’t.
- Addiction to attention, social media, endless selfies.
- when girls sit around to gossip behind peoples backs.
- Reality dating shows, Game shows ( Wheel of fortune and Jeopardy are fine )
- Clubbing - co-worker over 45 separated because of this. Her and comrades at work from same island started to hang once a month, then twice, three and four time a month. He said , stop !!! her EGO said No I could do what I want, out she went. Now she sees a hard life.
- Fangirling. e.g. ‘Swifties’, it’s fine to like someone’s music, but weird and boring to obsess over the singer and go on and on about them
- Vibes based support for political policies without bothering to research the logical implications and empirical evidence
- Anything celebrity culture related.
- Those CLONE Entertainment Tonight shows.
- triathlon training routine ( Exercising to be healthy or cheating, FWB? ready to dump )
- Taking diner home after within 5 dates on man account
- Religion already mentioned
- Day drinking. Being married/in love with a high-functioning alcoholic is soul crushing.
- Extreme Sports fan - the kind that screams at the tv, can’t miss watching a game etc. I think the aggressiveness over a game is just a turn off. I found getting demonstrably angry over sports unacceptable and it really helped me realize how toxic it can be for me or people who isn't into sports. Olympics is fine or a Final cup game but the whole season?
Vaping, as in they make their own flavors and modified devices and then blow smoke rings everywhere to look cool.
Cow tipping.
The hobby isn’t unattractive, it’s the way they talk about it. Gatekeeping is unattractive for instance.
it's generally either 'hobbies aren't the problem' or just people riffing on problematic addictions.'
Its one thing to like it, but its another thing to make it your whole personality.
Yes. I used to play video games with my friends on Friday nights. But Covid killed that, it was good for us to relief the week. But it was not to the detriment of those around me or us or our finances. Like all hobbies, if it consumes your time/energy/money and leaves nothing left for your SO, then it's a big problem. Everything in moderation. I'd never cancel a date. I hang out with my friends to game once in a blue moon but we do more pizza nights now 4 times a year to talk.
If you can make money out of it go for it. But there must be a timeline.
I can boil this post down to XXXX things
| Hanging out too much time on social media | Addictions are destructive and bad, |
| Overbearing obsessiveness is toxic, | Being unnecessarily absent/neglectful is awful, |
| Gambling, or Degenerate "investing" aka gambling all our fucking money away. | Baseless Astrology |
- Switching hobbies yearly. Fine if you get rid of stuff and not keep till death. Better have money for it and not throw it out.
- Tarot card reading - Anything to do with the zodiac
- Fake hair, nails or buying/selling them
- Listening to ratchet music
- Excessive partying
- Putting their whole lives on social media
Compulsive shopping for made in china crap
No hobbies. That’s a problem, because they will start complaining at you for having things to do, when they don’t.
- Addiction to attention, social media, endless selfies.
- when girls sit around to gossip behind peoples backs.
- Reality dating shows, Game shows ( Wheel of fortune and Jeopardy are fine )
- Clubbing - co-worker over 45 separated because of this. Her and comrades at work from same island started to hang once a month, then twice, three and four time a month. He said , stop !!! her EGO said No I could do what I want, out she went. Now she sees a hard life.
- Fangirling. e.g. ‘Swifties’, it’s fine to like someone’s music, but weird and boring to obsess over the singer and go on and on about them
- Vibes based support for political policies without bothering to research the logical implications and empirical evidence
- Anything celebrity culture related.
- Those CLONE Entertainment Tonight shows.
- triathlon training routine ( Exercising to be healthy or cheating, FWB? ready to dump )
- Taking diner home after within 5 dates on man account
- Religion already mentioned
- Day drinking. Being married/in love with a high-functioning alcoholic is soul crushing.
- Extreme Sports fan - the kind that screams at the tv, can’t miss watching a game etc. I think the aggressiveness over a game is just a turn off. I found getting demonstrably angry over sports unacceptable and it really helped me realize how toxic it can be for me or people who isn't into sports. Olympics is fine or a Final cup game but the whole season?
Vaping, as in they make their own flavors and modified devices and then blow smoke rings everywhere to look cool.
Cow tipping.
Often a hobby can be a marker for something else good or bad. Knitting is good, not because I have a desperate need for wool goods [well I could use some thick socks extra wide] but rather the sort of people who take up such hobbies.
Then there are hobbies that are just a compatibility thing. I don't drink or like loud music, so if that's a thing for a girl, she is going alone and having a girl go to a place here dick is thrown at her while he is self administrating date rape drugs is not something I wish to put up with. Likewise travel is a grand thing, but for multiple reason, temperament, health, etc I have no interest in it, and that is a sort of activity that you really want a partner for.
Then there are just hobbies that can get annoying if they get in your face about it. The ex/not so ex is into bizarre BS like astrology big time. I tolerate it because I am desperate and compensating factors but 1: It makes her look retarded and 2: it bugs me when she brings up her magical thinking.
As for Swifties. Hell no, If you gotta stan a girl should have the good taste to be a Bink or a Once, even a Bunny, but Swifties, fornicate that fecal matter.
As for vegans, just remember, when you buy a cucumber, make sure to buy some lube so people will think you are going to stick it up your ass than be some sort of weirdo vegan.
I'm generally pretty open to a lot of hobbies, and like to try them out myself when it's something we can do together.
I honestly find passion attractive, so I don't think I've yet to come across a woman whose hobbies turned me off.
There are a few that turn me off if she tries to get me involved. Things like yoga, meditation, astrology (and other things along that line), dream interpretation, etc. I just don't jive with that sort of stuff and find it annoying when others try to make me.
I honestly find passion attractive, so I don't think I've yet to come across a woman whose hobbies turned me off.
There are a few that turn me off if she tries to get me involved. Things like yoga, meditation, astrology (and other things along that line), dream interpretation, etc. I just don't jive with that sort of stuff and find it annoying when others try to make me.
Horse owners, I just walk away. $$$$$$$$$$
Well let me actually list some unattractive hobbies:
1. Watching or practicing in any martial arts. MMA, BJJ, Boxing, you name it. Don't want to date somebody with broken ears and weekly concussions.
2. Power lifting girls. I love fit girls with tight ass and almost visible abs. But powerlifting it just monsters on steroids with excessive fat (same applies for men, i just don't care about men).
3. Competitive video gaming. DoTa, LoL, CS etc. Toxic and takes too much time. I don't mind girls playing single player or for fun.
1. Watching or practicing in any martial arts. MMA, BJJ, Boxing, you name it. Don't want to date somebody with broken ears and weekly concussions.
2. Power lifting girls. I love fit girls with tight ass and almost visible abs. But powerlifting it just monsters on steroids with excessive fat (same applies for men, i just don't care about men).
3. Competitive video gaming. DoTa, LoL, CS etc. Toxic and takes too much time. I don't mind girls playing single player or for fun.
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Wait wait wait…..
So you and a woman can agree on a political policy or perspective, but she can’t vocalize it because that is a turn off??????
The hypocrisy of it all.
My guess is you already know this (as I detect a bit of playful sarcasm in your reply)....but thart's not what I mean. I just cant stand it when a woman I am attracted to constantly posts political opinion..especilly when it's just memes or if its quotes that have been way overshared.
A little more tolerable if she is posting heartfelt original thoughts...so i at lleast feel like it is "her" communicationg, not just which ever grpupthink she has chosen to ride with at this phase in her life.....but still gets old fast.
So she can vocalize it but only in a certain way? Got it.
and this is a “hobby” how????
strange how many guys here have a hard time understanding what a hobby is
Damn.
You win the internet today.
Well played good Sir.
Now I have no appetite for dinner
