Maybe the BF can't satisfy her sexual needs and/or they have an open relationship. Never know it could eventually become a 3some MFM.I always thought that "a boyfriend who is ok with sugaring/escorting" is probably a pimp!.
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Maybe the BF can't satisfy her sexual needs and/or they have an open relationship. Never know it could eventually become a 3some MFM.I always thought that "a boyfriend who is ok with sugaring/escorting" is probably a pimp!.
I'm not the judgy-type. There are a LOT of relationships types out there that work for a wide variety of people. Given I'm doing what I'm doing, I'm the last person to judge another person's story.I always thought that "a boyfriend who is ok with sugaring/escorting" is probably a pimp!.
This is a really weird response. I mean no-shit Captain Obvious. Besides, no-one said "they (don't) have a right to have surveillance camera". Weird for you to state this.How can you tell there’s no camera ?
Now a days can put a camera that can be well hidden
If you are visiting someone in their home don’t they have a right to have surveillance camera ?
What you dudes think ?
Damn you’ve been watering that German plant for a long time! Hope it goes well!I agree that the business model for SA is to get men to constantly renew their memberships. However, my goal is to find someone long term and stay off the site.
As such, I ask potential SBs for their numbers and don't renew when my membership expires. I then continue my chat with them via my texting app (not my real number).
In most cases, the conversations fade away and I don't end up meeting them. I meet with one or two and go from there.
For example: I have been texting with a young woman from Germany for more than a year. She lives in Canada but had to return to Europe a couple of times over the past 12 months and as a result we haven't met yet. However, the stars are finally aligning and we are meeting this weekend. It's been no big deal to chat and get to know her over the past year. Occasionally, she has sent me a g-rated photo or two. She looks hot and I am eager to meet.
Definitely worth the wait and the small effort involved.
The rules are whatever you agree to. I typically spend at least a few days chatting online with a potential SB, to make sure that we're a good fit. Those chats will include do's and don'ts, and cover any grey areas.I’ve never fully understood the SB-SD relationship dynamic. What’s the etiquette? What are the rules?
There are a lot of weeds to wade through before you find anyone worth pursuing, on both sides. Lots of unrealistic expectations out there.I wasn’t impressed with the amount of obviously broke people demanding “real connection” aka sex before they shower you with gold. Oh, and I saw dudes looking for a purely romantic relationship… No comments![]()
It's weird, time consuming and just....odd. I recognize some MPs and some SPs at the site I'm at so there is a lot of cross-over.I’ve never fully understood the SB-SD relationship dynamic. What’s the etiquette? What are the rules?
Yup. That's the way I treat it, it's escorting. I say I'm just interested in once or twice a month where she hosts. No dinners, no socials. The difference between SB and SP? Shrug...volume?That’s just escorting? Not really a sugar daddy, more like a Splenda daddy in this case…
Haha ..... I usually don't invest that much time.Damn you’ve been watering that German plant for a long time! Hope it goes well!
You must be great looking and 6'1".Yup. That's the way I treat it, it's escorting. I say I'm just interested in once or twice a month where she hosts. No dinners, no socials. The difference between SB and SP? Shrug...volume?
As I mentioned before, I'm surprised at the number that will host me at their house though. Just got off the phone with #4 of "sure I can host". Kids are at school, camp, they work from home...all they need is a photograph...![]()
Most good looking, semi normal SB's want $500 per meet. You may get $400 if lucky. There are a few that may ask more, usually they are strippers. Just say no, $500 seems to be what they are looking for as a "gift".Just wondering what are we looking for in terms of $ per meet up?
Shrug. There is a 25 year old but most are 32 to 39, kids, HATE the dating scene, don't want the dinner/evening bullshit because they don't have time for it, don't want a relationship because they own a house and guys around their age get weird about it, just want sex and money is the upside. I've also been rejected by about 50. Since my profile states that I just want paid hookups, I assume most don't even bother contacting me.You must be great looking and 6'1".
I am aware about the house. That is their RETIREMENT Equity unless they meet a MANSION guy.Shrug. There is a 25 year old but most are 32 to 39, kids, HATE the dating scene, don't want a relationship because they own a house and guys around their age get weird about it, just want sex and money is the upside. I've also been rejected by about 50.
I'm mid-50s but in the right light I do have a six pack so I'm unusual in that regard I'm told. I don't share my face on the sight - one did ghost me today after I sent a face pic though![]()
I don’t like cocaine, I just like the smell that comes with itThey don't HATE dating scene just hate the work that comes with it.
The basic process that works, is online (seeking site) chatting, move offline, e.g. texting, Telegram, whatever, exchange a couple photos, then get the "gift" figured out before meeting up. Then set up a in person rendezvous asap. I prefer to meet up in a public place, have a drink, coffee, boba, ice cream whatever. If the girl is a straight up pro, she will say she is DTF let's just meet up. That works only if you are very comfortable with the her after the texting part or had a Facetime chat. Since the premise is an ongoing SB/SD relationship, a free non-sexual meet up needs to happen. The guy if it works out should reimburse the girl's Uber, but gotta to see the dynamic. I have had women refuse the money and say, we are going to be special friends, don't worry about it the Uber. Also, there is nothing wrong (and is usually what I do) tell them let's meet up for a drink, if we are "vibing" then we can start the the sugar flowing back in my place after we meet up. I hope that helps with how a SD often goes about the process.I’ve never fully understood the SB-SD relationship dynamic. What’s the etiquette? What are the rules?
True but for me the initial f2f has been just meet for sex. Again, the old debate about SP v. SB. I call it the drop zone process. You know the feeling of that ride where they drop you? That what I call it for both of us when the door opens.The basic process that works, is online (seeking site) chatting, move offline, e.g. texting, Telegram, whatever, exchange a couple photos, then get the "gift" figured out before meeting up. Then set up a in person rendezvous asap. I prefer to meet up in a public place, have a drink, coffee, boba, ice cream whatever. If the girl is a straight up pro, she will say she is DTF let's just meet up. That works only if you are very comfortable with the her after the texting part or had a Facetime chat. Since the premise is an ongoing SB/SD relationship, a free non-sexual meet up needs to happen. The guy if it works out should reimburse the girl's Uber, but gotta to see the dynamic. I have had women refuse the money and say, we are going to be special friends, don't worry about it the Uber. Also, there is nothing wrong (and is usually what I do) tell them let's meet up for a drink, if we are "vibing" then we can start the the sugar flowing back in my place after we meet up. I hope that helps with how a SD often goes about the process.
I have never had a SB ask for a regular allowance. Either they proposed or I proposed the PPM. Essentially an SB is an escort who will not watch the clock, and I'll almost always go out for drinks or dinner. But yes, its basically a discounted escort if you measure it by the length of the date. However, it is different because the woman also chooses the guy. E.g. the exchange of photos, chatting makes it more of a "normal date" but a sure thing to have sex. If the woman is creeped out or finds the guy gross, she can say no. Escorts are pretty much locked into having sex with everyone.My experience (a long time ago) was different. I got paid for sending selfies, some money was sent to spoil me while we were chatting, dinners, a few presents, shopping sprees, paying my rent. We only had sex once and even then he had money for me. I now see that this is not a common practice?… Crazy. The whole point of SD is to provide allowance and spoil you with gifts and outings. I can do PPM at work LMAO.
Splenda daddy might be the funniest thing I have seen on this site. Perfect description.That’s just escorting? Not really a sugar daddy, more like a Splenda daddy in this case…