Maybe the BF can't satisfy her sexual needs and/or they have an open relationship. Never know it could eventually become a 3some MFM.
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Sugar Dating Experience
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I'm not the judgy-type. There are a LOT of relationships types out there that work for a wide variety of people. Given I'm doing what I'm doing, I'm the last person to judge another person's story.
This is a really weird response. I mean no-shit Captain Obvious. Besides, no-one said "they (don't) have a right to have surveillance camera". Weird for you to state this.
I agree that the business model for SA is to get men to constantly renew their memberships. However, my goal is to find someone long term and stay off the site.
As such, I ask potential SBs for their numbers and don't renew when my membership expires. I then continue my chat with them via my texting app (not my real number).
In most cases, the conversations fade away and I don't end up meeting them. I meet with one or two and go from there.
For example: I have been texting with a young woman from Germany for more than a year. She lives in Canada but had to return to Europe a couple of times over the past 12 months and as a result we haven't met yet. However, the stars are finally aligning and we are meeting this weekend. It's been no big deal to chat and get to know her over the past year. Occasionally, she has sent me a g-rated photo or two. She looks hot and I am eager to meet.
Definitely worth the wait and the small effort involved.
As such, I ask potential SBs for their numbers and don't renew when my membership expires. I then continue my chat with them via my texting app (not my real number).
In most cases, the conversations fade away and I don't end up meeting them. I meet with one or two and go from there.
For example: I have been texting with a young woman from Germany for more than a year. She lives in Canada but had to return to Europe a couple of times over the past 12 months and as a result we haven't met yet. However, the stars are finally aligning and we are meeting this weekend. It's been no big deal to chat and get to know her over the past year. Occasionally, she has sent me a g-rated photo or two. She looks hot and I am eager to meet.
Definitely worth the wait and the small effort involved.
Damn you’ve been watering that German plant for a long time! Hope it goes well!
The rules are whatever you agree to. I typically spend at least a few days chatting online with a potential SB, to make sure that we're a good fit. Those chats will include do's and don'ts, and cover any grey areas.
There are a lot of weeds to wade through before you find anyone worth pursuing, on both sides. Lots of unrealistic expectations out there.I wasn’t impressed with the amount of obviously broke people demanding “real connection” aka sex before they shower you with gold. Oh, and I saw dudes looking for a purely romantic relationship… No comments
It's weird, time consuming and just....odd. I recognize some MPs and some SPs at the site I'm at so there is a lot of cross-over.
For $, they do Pay Per Meet where the duration is 'flexible'. That is, the social rate tends to be <<$200 social rate that SPs charge. For sex, it's still $500 PPM which is more than the $300-400 that I'm used to but the duration is 60-90 minutes so pricing is 'similar'.
Some poor girls have no idea about pricing and they do get taken advantage of.
As you've said, some are just wacked on their romantic expectations.
Yup. That's the way I treat it, it's escorting. I say I'm just interested in once or twice a month where she hosts. No dinners, no socials. The difference between SB and SP? Shrug...volume?
As I mentioned before, I'm surprised at the number that will host me at their house though. Just got off the phone with #4 of "sure I can host". Kids are at school, camp, they work from home...all they need is a photograph...
Haha ..... I usually don't invest that much time.
And, of course, I have seen a couple of other young women over the past 12 months.
Nothing quite clicked so now I am looking forward to seeing Miss Germany!
You must be great looking and 6'1".Yup. That's the way I treat it, it's escorting. I say I'm just interested in once or twice a month where she hosts. No dinners, no socials. The difference between SB and SP? Shrug...volume?
As I mentioned before, I'm surprised at the number that will host me at their house though. Just got off the phone with #4 of "sure I can host". Kids are at school, camp, they work from home...all they need is a photograph...
Most good looking, semi normal SB's want $500 per meet. You may get $400 if lucky. There are a few that may ask more, usually they are strippers. Just say no, $500 seems to be what they are looking for as a "gift".
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Shrug. There is a 25 year old but most are 32 to 39, kids, HATE the dating scene, don't want the dinner/evening bullshit because they don't have time for it, don't want a relationship because they own a house and guys around their age get weird about it, just want sex and money is the upside. I've also been rejected by about 50. Since my profile states that I just want paid hookups, I assume most don't even bother contacting me.
I'm mid-50s but in the right light I do have a six pack so I'm unusual in that regard I'm told. I don't share my face on the site - one did ghost me today after I sent a face pic though
I am aware about the house. That is their RETIREMENT Equity unless they meet a MANSION guy.Shrug. There is a 25 year old but most are 32 to 39, kids, HATE the dating scene, don't want a relationship because they own a house and guys around their age get weird about it, just want sex and money is the upside. I've also been rejected by about 50.
I'm mid-50s but in the right light I do have a six pack so I'm unusual in that regard I'm told. I don't share my face on the sight - one did ghost me today after I sent a face pic though
They don't HATE dating scene just hate the work that comes with it. Just like the work you do to find them.
I know I heard it.
6 pack that would it. And also you own your own home and they know you jump ship to ship. That is what they want.
The basic process that works, is online (seeking site) chatting, move offline, e.g. texting, Telegram, whatever, exchange a couple photos, then get the "gift" figured out before meeting up. Then set up a in person rendezvous asap. I prefer to meet up in a public place, have a drink, coffee, boba, ice cream whatever. If the girl is a straight up pro, she will say she is DTF let's just meet up. That works only if you are very comfortable with the her after the texting part or had a Facetime chat. Since the premise is an ongoing SB/SD relationship, a free non-sexual meet up needs to happen. The guy if it works out should reimburse the girl's Uber, but gotta to see the dynamic. I have had women refuse the money and say, we are going to be special friends, don't worry about it the Uber. Also, there is nothing wrong (and is usually what I do) tell them let's meet up for a drink, if we are "vibing" then we can start the the sugar flowing back in my place after we meet up. I hope that helps with how a SD often goes about the process.
True but for me the initial f2f has been just meet for sex. Again, the old debate about SP v. SB. I call it the drop zone process. You know the feeling of that ride where they drop you? That what I call it for both of us when the door opens.
I have never had a SB ask for a regular allowance. Either they proposed or I proposed the PPM. Essentially an SB is an escort who will not watch the clock, and I'll almost always go out for drinks or dinner. But yes, its basically a discounted escort if you measure it by the length of the date. However, it is different because the woman also chooses the guy. E.g. the exchange of photos, chatting makes it more of a "normal date" but a sure thing to have sex. If the woman is creeped out or finds the guy gross, she can say no. Escorts are pretty much locked into having sex with everyone.
Splenda daddy might be the funniest thing I have seen on this site. Perfect description.
I tired these sites a couple times and frankly it was too much work/effort for me. I would rather just book someone in most cases.
