Sugar Dating Experience

[shack]

Yeah, most likely an investment type scheme but surprised she didn't ask for money for so long. Not much time wasted really, I just spend a minute or two a day texting.

Keep playing coy. If you don't want to do that, tell her that there's no sense in chatting until she's back in Toronto and ready to meet. It's better to talk in person if someone is interested in learning about the other.

Showing you her transaction is very, very weird.

 

[Leimonis]

Keep playing coy. If you don't want to do that, tell her that there's no sense in chatting until she's back in Toronto and ready to meet. It's better to talk in person if someone is interested in learning about the other.

Showing you her transaction is very, very weird.

my latest convo with a similar (or maybe the same) girl on SA went like this:
-Are you interested in investments?
-yes, that’s why I’m on this site! To get an investment advice.
-are you trying to be rude? I just asked you a question
-“me realizing I have no energy or desire to continue trolling” BLOCK

 

[futt bucker]

Keep playing coy. If you don't want to do that, tell her that there's no sense in chatting until she's back in Toronto and ready to meet. It's better to talk in person if someone is interested in learning about the other.

Showing you her transaction is very, very weird.

Yeah, the only reason that makes sense to me to show me her transaction after just texting for a couple of days it to lure me into giving her money to invest on my behalf.

 

[shack]

I was just trying to set up a date with a new SB. When I asked her how much she was looking for for a date. She gave me a high number and I told her that most of the girls I'd met were asking for half of that amount.

She said she would not settle for less. "I'm not and escort."

I couldn't resist when I replied, "at what price does it change from escort to SB?"

I suspect that I won't hear back from her.

 

[Leimonis]

She said she would not settle for less. "I'm not and escort."

I couldn't resist when I replied, "at what price does it change from escort to SB?"

I suspect that I won't hear back from her.

It’s not an easy question

but in all seriousness I’d say that the SBs honorarium should come to a full stop at a price of a duo ie about $700 or so in todays dollars.
Two women cannot be worth less than one.

 

[IMBob]

What's a good source for relatively cheap places to rent? Day or by the hour?

Call small chains or independent motels and ask for the day rate.

 

[GeeBee]

dayuse.com or hotelsbyday will give you day use hotels at a variety of price points depending on your location. Some good pricing can be found if the timing is right.

Also the Hilton website is very usefull. Pick a city and when choosing the date click the same date for check in and check out. It will then search for properties that offer day rooms and give you the options across all the Hilton brands. Some properties offer day rooms from 9am to 4pm for a pretty good rate if you’re lucky. Good for an afternoon or morning hookup. (or all day if you and the young lady are so inclined

Often the bigger brands like Fairmont and Hilton offer day rooms because they have housekeeping on staff 24-7. The smaller properties cant turn over a room as fast with fewer staff.

 

[SchlongConery]

I have a puzzling case I can't quite put my finger on. Got in touch with a woman from SA and from the get go she indicated she is very well off financially and that she does not want any financial compensation. She knows I'm married and that I'm not looking for a serious marriage-oriented relationship. OK, so red flags appeared. I'm waiting for a scam but not sure exactly what. Curious though to see where it goes. Surely enough, a day before we were to meet in person, she had a family event that forced her to go far enough to make meeting in person impossible. She kept texting multiple times a day, trivial things like "how's your day", "what you are doing?", "I'm taking a shower now", etc. Says she wants to really connect online before meeting in person to "take the awkwardness away when seeing each other in person for the first time". Right.

Now the only reason I kept texting back was because I was curious to find out what her scheme was. She mentioned several times how successful she is with her investments and even showed one trade transaction in which she profited a large sum of money. So naturally I'm waiting for her to ask me to invest with her (I had another scammer try that) but no, she never asked for money. I even told her explicitly that I will not be sending any money until we have met in person and she got offended that I even thought that. Ten or so days after we've been back and forth texting, I decided I've had enough - there was no sign of her "returning" to Toronto to meet and I didn't want to waste my time anymore. I deleted our texts (using Telegram you can delete both ends) and she got upset. Seemed really hurt. It's been over a day and haven't heard from her. I wonder what she was scheming to do. Extort me after collecting what she hoped would be enough personal information to find my identity? Any guesses?

They are pulling one of the oldest tricks in the book. Hint around, then wait until you ask them details. Then they say that this opportunity is pased, but they will keep you in mind for the next one and see if they can 'get you in'.

One of the funniest movies of all time... what an ending!

 

[SchlongConery]

Keep playing coy. If you don't want to do that, tell her that there's no sense in chatting until she's back in Toronto and ready to meet. It's better to talk in person if someone is interested in learning about the other.

Showing you her transaction is very, very weird.

It's known as a 'long con'.

These con artist fraudsters are clever. They know human nature and how to size up, and also to move on from, a mark If the schemes didn't work, then they wouldn't keep working them.

On these sb and dating sites, the MOMENT anyone refers to investments in any way, report and block them. Women do NOT share their money and have no reason to let you think they have any money or are loaded. To the contrary. Real women who have money don't want to attract cons or mooches.

Funny thing about victims of fraud, is they refuse to believe they've been convinced to believe something is real. When it is not. Even when the evidence is right in front of them. Some even continue to refer to "him"or "her" even when it was a man behind it. Like the guys who get suckered by the Leolist deposit scammers. These are guys in some phone room in Nigeria or India, yet the marks still think that "she" ripped them off.

And often people who have been conned, double down. Just look at the people who that clever, con-artiste extraordinaire who were targeted by him ("I love the poor and uneducated") . They simply WILL not believe anything that he does not say himself or that agrees with what he says.

The only better victims are horny, succesful guys who think they are too smart to fall for the con.

 

[SchlongConery]

my latest convo with a similar (or maybe the same) girl on SA went like this:
-Are you interested in investments?
-yes, that’s why I’m on this site! To get an investment advice.
-are you trying to be rude? I just asked you a question
-“me realizing I have no energy or desire to continue trolling” BLOCK

REPORT and block. You may be saving some other lonely hard working simp from getting conned out of his life savings.

 

[onomatopoeia]

Two women cannot be worth less than one.

You can have the two on the right.

 

[SchlongConery]

It’s not an easy question
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but in all seriousness I’d say that the SBs honorarium should come to a full stop at a price of a duo ie about $700 or so in todays dollars.
Two women cannot be worth less than one.

Pllease let's stop with this "honorarium" bs. First off, it is not even accurate.

Definition: "a payment given for professional services that are rendered nominally without charge." NOMINAL Payment.


I'd look at it differently.

First I say that I have an interest in either monthly or longer ongoing support in furtherance of a specific goal or lifestyle if we have authentic chemistry. But that I am also comfortable keeping it casual and uncomplicated by giving her a gift of some money to do whatever she thinks is best for her to use as she wants. I tend to make the offer to set the benchmark before she does. I'll say something like; "I'm thinking if we hang out for the afternoon or evening, maybe dinner and some fun afterward, I am comfortable and more than happy to "help you out" with say $400-500. But if we are just getting together for a couple hours or less, then I'm thinking I'd still want to make it $250-300 to make it worth your time to spedn the time even though we're having fun"

This sets a flexible scale of cost framework and limits expectations. But is not being cheap. And if she wants to be able to save face or feel special, she or you can say or agree to the upper end of those numbers. You've also not made her have to do the hourly math. Nor made her feel like an hourly hooker.

If she comes back with "Well my OTHER or PREVIOUS relationships/SD's paid me ten thousand or whatever, then say, "I understand and am happy for you. There are some guys that that amount is NOTHING to them... chump change. They can afford to buy a dozen girls. But, that's not me. First off, no matter how hot anyone is, it's simply not worth more than that for me to hang out with anyone for more. And I want to be able to affford and not be worried about long term because I am worried about the money and disapppointing you or looking for someone else that is more affordable. Even thuough there are lots of girls who are more than happy with less, and delusional dreamers thinking they are going to be flown to Dubia and PAris on private jets, I like YOU and would like to make it work for both of us. But if it doesn't work for you or make you happy, I understand and I know you'll find someone else who will promise the world.. but be careful... I've heard those guys are big talk and not so much on following through "

Anyways, that approach worked for me. And it was honest.

DON'T put yourself out there as a Whale if you are not!

 

[Leimonis]

REPORT and block. You may be saving some other lonely hard working simp from getting conned out of his life savings.

Reporting raises your chances of being banned. I have zero trust in SA management and as far as I am concerned it’s a wolf eats wolf environment where everyone is left to fend for themselves.
if some simp gets conned then the worst that can happen is he won’t be competing for the same SBs as me

 

[SchlongConery]

Reporting raises your chances of being banned. I have zero trust in SA management and as far as I am concerned it’s a wolf eats wolf environment where everyone is left to fend for themselves.
if some simp gets conned then the worst that can happen is he won’t be competing for the same SBs as me

Hmmmmm... good point! I agree and retract my previous advice!

 

[onomatopoeia]

Pllease let's stop with this "honorarium" bs. First off, it is not even accurate.

The word he's looking for is stipend.

 

[SchlongConery]

The word he's looking for is stipend.

Indeed my good fellow, this is an entirely appropriate term.

 

[shack]

Reporting raises your chances of being banned.

That's what happened to me.

 

[futt bucker]

REPORT and block. You may be saving some other lonely hard working simp from getting conned out of his life savings.

I reported the user. Not sure SA did anything about it, though. I still see the user there.

 

[dchoye]

Why does reporting raise your chance of being banned ?
Customer service and wanted to get more info about the communication that I reported
If there are multiple complaints about one user then the fraudster going to found, and dealt with
Not reporting just going let the fraudster get away and appear with another profile with different photos ready to be a nuisance to you again
There are plenty of genuine SBs to go around for every one.

 

[Leimonis]

Why does reporting raise your chance of being banned ?
Customer service and wanted to get more info about the communication that I reported
If there are multiple complaints about one user then the fraudster going to found, and dealt with
Not reporting just going let the fraudster get away and appear with another profile with different photos ready to be a nuisance to you again
There are plenty of genuine SBs to go around for every one.

If you trust their customer service go ahead and report.
I trust them about as much as I would trust hamas if I lived in gaza.
Reddit is full of stories of banned guys who struggle to get back. And when they ban everything is burned and need to be changed: IP, devices, credit cards.