Falsely accused by ugly female colleague of inappropriate staring

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Muchadoaboutnothing

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“I don’t even talk to this person”

Followed by

“She started ghosting me”

Add all that to the fact that you’re calling her ugly (you are still fully capable at staring at ugly people btw)… you sound very hurt and bitter. It sounds like you care A LOT.

Just avoid her and stop staring. Problem solved. Also try writing in a diary or talking to a therapist. Incel speech and behaviour is not healthy bro.
All of this and fine a new place to sit where you’re less likely to make eye contact to get out of the habit
 

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Hmm my courtesy ends with Morning and Have A Good Night, I don't make comments about her appearance or even mention her name to others, but I did notice many instances of time theft, like going for break early, taking long breaks, or playing with cellphone.
do you work on an assembly line
 

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I did reach out to my company's health care provider today regarding the stress I'm experiencing, and he advised I should start looking,not necessarily to leave, but just in case I was let go, I should be prepared for the worst. I'm not going without putting up a fight.
This is for any job any day. Dont take it too personally. It’s just wise advice for life now
 

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I know that guy! He told me he saw a purple people eater before he went blind.

You don’t need proof of anything when you “know a guy”. LOL.

Sorry but without a link to the an actual story like this - I call bullshit. 😂😂😂😂
Wait, so there’s no purple people eater🫠 are they in the movie trailer too? Purple people eater and the bra beater
 
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Are you sure this isn't another one of those right wing outrage, TERB troll posts? Because you made sure she fit your idea of what "woke" means. This is another hole in your story.

May be he was hitting on her and she politely told him "no", and he kept passive aggressively telling her "Good morning" and "Good night", and giving her side eyes all the time. So she tries to stay out of eye sight, which he calls ghosting. And now he calls her woke, which either sounds like a TERB troll post, or he is blaming her that she is a nasty woke person for rejecting such a delightful guy who wishes cancer on his boss and instead complaining to HR. 😂

I went to a dinner party of a very close friend, and asked to use the bathroom. When I went in there, his wife's dirty underwear (which was crusted :sick:) and bra was hung on the glass shower partition, and if I stood up to pee, was right to the left of my face. I felt so awkward, I had to sit down to pee and I couldn't even bring it up with my friend. 😂
I thought the same about the good morning post. I’ve experienced this passive aggressive yell of good morning. Feeding me the goodness of the morning and I felt nauseous in their presence. Like seeing me has already ruined their day. the person is hyper focused on maintaining control in the work environment when it’s not their job to do so
 
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Trust me I would have burned the cnut alive like a witch on a pyre if the Canadian law or Justin Trudeau allows it.

Reality? Complete avoidance plus documenting my own whereabouts in case of further complaints.

A google search reveals this person suffers from SAD (society anxiety disorder), and by definition of wikipedia, she's a nutjob and a pathological liar.
So much head shaking. All of this advice on this post and this is what you respond with ?
also sad is seasonal affective disorder.
using nut job and accusing someone of being pathological is further condemning yourself. Slanderous even. Google doesn’t know her.
do you suffer from explosive anger disorder?
why is Justin involved in your work dispute. Even if he wasn’t prime minister you couldn’t do that. Nor should you. Murder and threatening to murder someone is worse that what you’re experiencing. I pray you haven’t said this to another coworker over text … you’ll have burned yourself...
as others suggested - time to take a break. Get on your cellphone and book that time off
 

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In most of his posts he seems angry, and ranty. Not just this one. Must be a delight to have around at work. No wonder the woman complained. lol.
How could a man who called a woman a cunt and said he wants to set her on fire all in the same sentence, not be an ideal coworker?? Sounds like man hating to me.
 

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Dude's got major incel energy
I don’t like that label but perhaps or recently separated. Mid life. General stress. Bills overwhelming him and mad about life circumstances. workplace environments can also eat your soul and it feels unfair when you are being black sheeped in ways and you think management is your friend. You think coworkers are your friends and then you’re disillusioned and you go through a cycle of grief. He’s in anger stage. The hard part is choosing to leave before you are told and or asked to
 

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I don’t like that label but perhaps or recently separated. Mid life. General stress. Bills overwhelming him and mad about life circumstances. workplace environments can also eat your soul and it feels unfair when you are being black sheeped in ways and you think management is your friend. You think coworkers are your friends and then you’re disillusioned and you go through a cycle of grief. He’s in anger stage. The hard part is choosing to leave before you are told and or asked to
I understand his opinion though. If you read his posts, he seems to actually hate women. It comes through in all of the posts I read from him.
 

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I understand his opinion though. If you read his posts, he seems to actually hate women. It comes through in all of the posts I read from him.
Hating women is something I have a hard time getting my head around but definitely exists. I can see being angry with an individual woman as you can be with a man but to just be angry with all women is so counterproductive if you are a heterosexual and want some action.
 
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Hating women is something I have a hard time getting my head around but definitely exists. I can see being angry with an individual woman as you can be with a man but to just be angry with all women is so counterproductive if you are a heterosexual and want some action.
You're last 20 words are key to a lot of what is going on. There is a growing number of men that just clearly hate women but still want to fuck us, and then blame us for not wanting to fuck someone who negs us or shit talks women all day. How large of the male population it is, I'm not sure, but it's enough of them that it's scary. There's a femicide every other day in Canada.
 

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You're last 20 words are key to a lot of what is going on. There is a growing number of men that just clearly hate women but still want to fuck us, and then blame us for not wanting to fuck someone who negs us or shit talks women all day. How large of the male population it is, I'm not sure, but it's enough of them that it's scary. There's a femicide every other day in Canada.
That's the thing, nobody male or female wants to fuck a negative person. Especially if that is the first impression made. How many times do we say, she's negative on Twitter I would never book her and that is exactly me. I see a Twitter feed of a lady constantly complaining and no way would I consider booking her. I don't believe it is a large number of the population but yeah, it is out there.
 

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That's the thing, nobody male or female wants to fuck a negative person. Especially if that is the first impression made. How many times do we say, she's negative on Twitter I would never book her and that is exactly me. I see a Twitter feed of a lady constantly complaining and no way would I consider booking her. I don't believe it is a large number of the population but yeah, it is out there.
The comment you made that I was replying too wasn't about negative though, it was about angry. Angry is far more dangerous, how many of the mass shooters have been incels? Something like 75% of women murdered in Canada is labeled a femicide (decided as such because of an intimate or familiar relationship, or the woman being a sex worker, and the perp was a man) whereas men were mostly killed by friends or acquaintance. Anger and similar emotions was considered a driving factor in femicide 3x more often than non-gender related murders etc.

So I'm personally not into comparing negative women to angry men..
 
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