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Muchadoaboutnothing

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Dude's got major incel energy
I don’t like that label but perhaps or recently separated. Mid life. General stress. Bills overwhelming him and mad about life circumstances. workplace environments can also eat your soul and it feels unfair when you are being black sheeped in ways and you think management is your friend. You think coworkers are your friends and then you’re disillusioned and you go through a cycle of grief. He’s in anger stage. The hard part is choosing to leave before you are told and or asked to
 

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I don’t like that label but perhaps or recently separated. Mid life. General stress. Bills overwhelming him and mad about life circumstances. workplace environments can also eat your soul and it feels unfair when you are being black sheeped in ways and you think management is your friend. You think coworkers are your friends and then you’re disillusioned and you go through a cycle of grief. He’s in anger stage. The hard part is choosing to leave before you are told and or asked to
I understand his opinion though. If you read his posts, he seems to actually hate women. It comes through in all of the posts I read from him.
 

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I understand his opinion though. If you read his posts, he seems to actually hate women. It comes through in all of the posts I read from him.
Hating women is something I have a hard time getting my head around but definitely exists. I can see being angry with an individual woman as you can be with a man but to just be angry with all women is so counterproductive if you are a heterosexual and want some action.
 
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Hating women is something I have a hard time getting my head around but definitely exists. I can see being angry with an individual woman as you can be with a man but to just be angry with all women is so counterproductive if you are a heterosexual and want some action.
You're last 20 words are key to a lot of what is going on. There is a growing number of men that just clearly hate women but still want to fuck us, and then blame us for not wanting to fuck someone who negs us or shit talks women all day. How large of the male population it is, I'm not sure, but it's enough of them that it's scary. There's a femicide every other day in Canada.
 

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You're last 20 words are key to a lot of what is going on. There is a growing number of men that just clearly hate women but still want to fuck us, and then blame us for not wanting to fuck someone who negs us or shit talks women all day. How large of the male population it is, I'm not sure, but it's enough of them that it's scary. There's a femicide every other day in Canada.
That's the thing, nobody male or female wants to fuck a negative person. Especially if that is the first impression made. How many times do we say, she's negative on Twitter I would never book her and that is exactly me. I see a Twitter feed of a lady constantly complaining and no way would I consider booking her. I don't believe it is a large number of the population but yeah, it is out there.
 

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That's the thing, nobody male or female wants to fuck a negative person. Especially if that is the first impression made. How many times do we say, she's negative on Twitter I would never book her and that is exactly me. I see a Twitter feed of a lady constantly complaining and no way would I consider booking her. I don't believe it is a large number of the population but yeah, it is out there.
The comment you made that I was replying too wasn't about negative though, it was about angry. Angry is far more dangerous, how many of the mass shooters have been incels? Something like 75% of women murdered in Canada is labeled a femicide (decided as such because of an intimate or familiar relationship, or the woman being a sex worker, and the perp was a man) whereas men were mostly killed by friends or acquaintance. Anger and similar emotions was considered a driving factor in femicide 3x more often than non-gender related murders etc.

So I'm personally not into comparing negative women to angry men..
 

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Hating women is something I have a hard time getting my head around but definitely exists. I can see being angry with an individual woman as you can be with a man but to just be angry with all women is so counterproductive if you are a heterosexual and want some action.
It is just like women who hate men.

Think of it more like a resentment. Both feel the need for the other in some way and hate the fact that the other side has the control.

So for him, it could be he needs women for sex and resents all women for the pussy power he believes that have. That then morphs to co-worker being an ugly bitch with no real experience in his eyes. We don’t know her side of the story and it could be vastly different from his because he is not quite living in reality but in the resentments he has made against women.

This is speculation. I have no idea if it is true. It is just and example.
 

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The comment you made that I was replying too wasn't about negative though, it was about angry. Angry is far more dangerous, how many of the mass shooters have been incels? Something like 75% of women murdered in Canada is labeled a femicide (decided as such because of an intimate or familiar relationship, or the woman being a sex worker, and the perp was a man) whereas men were mostly killed by friends or acquaintance. Anger and similar emotions was considered a driving factor in femicide 3x more often than non-gender related murders etc.

So I'm personally not into comparing negative women to angry men..
I get it but constant negativity leads to anger. Men in general can be more violent when angry as opposed to nagging and complaining so I get why you would fear an angry man more. Although I don't think it's many, I think it is the few making the rest look bad.
 
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I get it but constant negativity leads to anger. Men in general can be more violent when angry as opposed to nagging and complaining so I get why you would fear an angry man more. Although I don't think it's many, I think it is the few making the rest look bad.
Absolutely, give that it's more or less 180 femicides a year, it's an extremely small pool of men. My fear is of the ideology that breeds this type of hatred towards women that they are murdered simply for being women.

I'm not afraid of a man trying to hit me, I'm an ex rugby player, as well as a few years of wrestling, and I work out 4-6x/week. At the very least I can get a man on the ground and that will hopefully give me time to get away. Even if it doesn't, I'll survive a beating, but an ideology that not only increases the chances that a man will try to beat me or rape me, but one that increases the chances he won't stop at just a beating or rape, that is even scarier and what is brewing with the incels.
 

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It is just like women who hate men.

Think of it more like a resentment. Both feel the need for the other in some way and hate the fact that the other side has the control.

So for him, it could be he needs women for sex and resents all women for the pussy power he believes that have. That then morphs to co-worker being an ugly bitch with no real experience in his eyes. We don’t know her side of the story and it could be vastly different from his because he is not quite living in reality but in the resentments he has made against women.

This is speculation. I have no idea if it is true. It is just and example.
Yes I was trying to find the right word. Resentment is the right word for it.
 

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This person is LGBTQIA2S+ IMO, she has 6-color rainbow sticker on her cellphone, and her emails include gender pronouns.
I have had my dealings with "they" and them. Very difficult to win those battles. The "deck is loaded".
 

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She got really upset and as she was passing by me to get to the door, I instinctively put my hands gently on each of her shoulders.
 

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It's so funny seeing this because it's like OMG YOU WERE SO CLOSE!!!

Unwanted attention and repeated attempts at forcing that unwanted attention on someone is harassment :)

Just like you do not have to find someone attractive, neither do we, and the problem is men are the ones most often forcing their attention on someone who doesn't want it. Boo hoo, not every woman has to entertain your nonsense my guy.
 

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It's so funny seeing this because it's like OMG YOU WERE SO CLOSE!!!

Unwanted attention and repeated attempts at forcing that unwanted attention on someone is harassment :)

Just like you do not have to find someone attractive, neither do we, and the problem is men are the ones most often forcing their attention on someone who doesn't want it. Boo hoo, not every woman has to entertain your nonsense my guy.
Can you imagine the uproar, if gay men hit on heterosexual men the way that heterosexual men hit on heterosexual women? I see law being changed, I see protest happening, I see a huge uproar, if gay men treated heterosexual men the same way that they treat us women
 

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Can you imagine the uproar, if gay men hit on heterosexual men the way that heterosexual men hit on heterosexual women? I see law being changed, I see protest happening, I see a huge uproar, if gay men treated heterosexual men the same way that they treat us women
I used to get hit on by gay dudes at work a lot when I was younger.
I had a very simple response that always worked:
“If you wanna be my friend cool let’s be friends…if you wanna be gay, go be gay somewhere else.”
No one ever had to call HR and we all got along just fine.
 
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