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Its offical : Transphobia is here to stay!

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Valcazar

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Im taking the view that many gay people have been spreading. In the case of kids and adolescents its wrong to start puberty blocking or make any diagnosis at that age. That many gay people as they start their sexual awakening are confused as to why they are same sex attracted and it can easily be mistaken for gender disphoria. Add in some men are just naturally effeminate and some women more masculine.

They go on to say that usually by early adulthood, depending on social conditions of acceptance they "settle down" and realize they are just gay and not trans. And with minimal support can just be normal people.

Quite simply once you chop things off and chemically change someone its done. So really its something that should not happen to kids. At all. And with adults a lot of testing and councilling is needed to be sure.
"I don't want more interventions than are necessary" is perfectly anodyne and is what every single person on all sides of the debate say they are in favor of.

What model are you actually suggesting people follow?
 

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"I don't want more interventions than are necessary" is perfectly anodyne and is what every single person on all sides of the debate say they are in favor of.

What model are you actually suggesting people follow?
No. They are some, and I even have them as friends, who actually think it should be diagnosed and started before puberty. Its how this came about because of my gay friends commented and posted about this. And the fights started. With memes posted about this opinion is an attempt to divide the LBGTQ community to hurt it.

And Trans people who support this view being labeled "gender traitors". And right wing. Believe me they aren't.

I'm not kidding. I think with some trans people they actually have an agenda this will mainstream it and will promote it just to gain attention and "new" recruits to justify their own decisions.

Yes its an easy common sense opinion I posted. And its being attacked in the public sphere as homophobic. That's the point.
 

Valcazar

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No. They are some, and I even have them as friends, who actually think it should be diagnosed and started before puberty. Its how this came about because of my gay friends commented and posted about this. And the fights started. With memes posted about this opinion is an attempt to divide the LBGTQ community to hurt it.
Wait.
The existence of trans people is an attempt to divide the LBGTQ community?
Or the existence of gender affirming treatment?

You have to clarify that because that is just weird the way you've phrased it.

What is "this opinion" here?
That being trans should be "diagnosed" (interesting medicalization jargon there) before puberty?

And Trans people who support this view being labeled "gender traitors". And right wing. Believe me they aren't.
What view?
That it should be "diagnosed"?
That gender affirming care should exist?
That Watchful waiting is more appropriate?

What?

I'm not kidding. I think with some trans people they actually have an agenda this will mainstream it and will promote it just to gain attention and "new" recruits to justify their own decisions.
That's some batshit paranoia you have going there.
Right to "the transgender recruitment agenda" I see.

Why do you think this?
Just because some people disagree with you about treatment options?

Yes its an easy common sense opinion I posted. And its being attacked in the public sphere as homophobic. That's the point.
How is your incredibly boring and uncontroversial opinion being attacked as homophobic?

Oh wait... your opinion is actually this one?
" In the case of kids and adolescents its wrong to start puberty blocking or make any diagnosis at that age. "

This is the opinion you claim the gay people you know support?

And you wonder why people are giving you side-eye?

Let's break this down then...

What is an adolescent to you?
What is a "diagnosis" to you?
 

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Wait.
The existence of trans people is an attempt to divide the LBGTQ community?
Or the existence of gender affirming treatment?

You have to clarify that because that is just weird the way you've phrased it.

What is "this opinion" here?
That being trans should be "diagnosed" (interesting medicalization jargon there) before puberty?



What view?
That it should be "diagnosed"?
That gender affirming care should exist?
That Watchful waiting is more appropriate?

What?



That's some batshit paranoia you have going there.
Right to "the transgender recruitment agenda" I see.

Why do you think this?
Just because some people disagree with you about treatment options?



How is your incredibly boring and uncontroversial opinion being attacked as homophobic?

Oh wait... your opinion is actually this one?
" In the case of kids and adolescents its wrong to start puberty blocking or make any diagnosis at that age. "

This is the opinion you claim the gay people you know support?

And you wonder why people are giving you side-eye?

Let's break this down then...

What is an adolescent to you?
What is a "diagnosis" to you?
Wow. Im just so indifferent to this post. Go back and try again. Its quite clear.
 
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The answer my friends are saying is don't make assumptions towards extremes when there is a good chance it isn't neccessary. And that filling kids heads with false diagnoses is wrong. They are far better to just wait and let the kid see where they are. That in most cases the person comes to realize they are just fine in their body.

As to JC what I'm hearing firstly is kink shaming. From you and a few others. And on this site that's a no no. So stop it. Secondly lots of terms get thrown around, and he will have to confirm this but I think he is more into "ladyboy" types on that end. But either way if he also likes pre op with boobs so what?

In the end this take has an Occam's razor quality to it of heading to the simple explanation of both sexual attraction and certain behaviors. That's who they are, its ok, and no need for hormones and surgery.
What you have to realize is that the suicide rates for those who identify themselves as transgenders is very high as I stated in one of my previous posts. How do you come up with that false statement that one is filling the heads of kids with "false diagnosis". You are no expert in that respect, and these kids need proper guidance and counselling to live their normal lives without harassment and bullying. The ones coming up with extremes are the likes of MTG and her QAnon Conspiracy theories where she labels the Democrats as "pedophiles". The majority of parents that comets realize that their kids are not going to change their habits are the ones that want some sort of adaptations to their children needs. In fact the hospitals do not carry out any procedures on minors except those around 16 years of age or so where the parents are the ones pushing for it as they want their children to have their choice of being transgenders!!

Not about shaming JC, but he is a bit hypocritical in the manner in which he is bashing these transgenders procedures etc based on a false pretext. Those pre-ops with boobs are a transgenders choice when they reach the age of consent. The Republicans and someone like Trump at the helm actual passed laws discriminating against these transexuals in the military and other armed forces. The fact is that a sizeable section of the Republicans just want them banned altogether if they can get their way with it. But equating these killings by blaming the mental minds of the transgenders is despicable. Again the surgery and hormones are a choice for the transgenders and not yours or mine. If they are minors and the parents push for such procedures and medications as they feel that otherwise the mental state of their child makes them suicidal then in those extenuating circumstances they will give their consent. Why are the right politicizing it?
 

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This sums up why the right wingers are all for anti-transgender rights:

Headlining the conference on Saturday, Donald Trump drew some of the wildest applause of his more than 90-minute address when he pledged to stop the “chemical castration and sexual mutilization [sic]” of children if re-elected in 2024 while endorsing a national ban on transgender medical treatment for young people.

Yes, they love the transphobic rhetoric by an Indicted criminal of an individual!!
 

Butler1000

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What you have to realize is that the suicide rates for those who identify themselves as transgenders is very high as I stated in one of my previous posts. How do you come up with that false statement that one is filling the heads of kids with "false diagnosis". You are no expert in that respect, and these kids need proper guidance and counselling to live their normal lives without harassment and bullying. The ones coming up with extremes are the likes of MTG and her QAnon Conspiracy theories where she labels the Democrats as "pedophiles". The majority of parents that comets realize that their kids are not going to change their habits are the ones that want some sort of adaptations to their children needs. In fact the hospitals do not carry out any procedures on minors except those around 16 years of age or so where the parents are the ones pushing for it as they want their children to have their choice of being transgenders!!

Not about shaming JC, but he is a bit hypocritical in the manner in which he is bashing these transgenders procedures etc based on a false pretext. Those pre-ops with boobs are a transgenders choice when they reach the age of consent. The Republicans and someone like Trump at the helm actual passed laws discriminating against these transexuals in the military and other armed forces. The fact is that a sizeable section of the Republicans just want them banned altogether if they can get their way with it. But equating these killings by blaming the mental minds of the transgenders is despicable. Again the surgery and hormones are a choice for the transgenders and not yours or mine. If they are minors and the parents push for such procedures and medications as they feel that otherwise the mental state of their child makes them suicidal then in those extenuating circumstances they will give their consent. Why are the right politicizing it?
As I said. Its fellow LGBTQ who are questioning it. From the standpoint of personal experiences.
 
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As I said. Its fellow LGBTQ who are questioning it. From the standpoint of personal experiences.
You may have a handful of them that were wrongly treated. But that does not mean that the vast majority of LGBTQ do not appreciate the present status and their freedoms to decide their own destination in life!!
 

Butler1000

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You may have a handful of them that were wrongly treated. But that does not mean that the vast majority of LGBTQ do not appreciate the present status and their freedoms to decide their own destination in life!!
You really didn't read anything I said did you?

Here.....

Members of the gay community are speaking up saying that people saying they are trans as youths may well just be confused and gay. That they may be mistaking simple feminine traits in men as gender disphoria when they are just plain ol' gay. And that its better to wait until adulthood when they have had a chance to experience sex and life before going so far as to prescribe puberty blockers and hormones which will make things worse.

As well it should be noted the surgery does pretty much sterilize people. And is irreversible. So far better to wait and get it right.

So it has nothing to do with gay rights or status. Its about common sense. Coming from people who have been there.
 
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