For those who haven't seen the Seinfeld take:
Ever had a friend with benefits?
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Had one once that developed after long friendship. We both wanted to try out various kinks and it was great while it lasted....still friends.
Years ago I worked in a retail environment and a good friend who wouldn't date me because she only dated people of the same faith. One night she asked for a ride home and I said yes but ask for gas money as she lived a little far--- she said how about a BJ instead.... This lead to a 20 year FWB relationship where we would meet a couple times a year until she told me she was feeling guilty about cheating on her husband for so many years. There were things she ask me to do that her husband would never do. They are still together and we sill chat but have never met up for FWB again
In thinking about it I have also been seeing the same SP for over 20 years - we've had coffee and dinner a couple of times so not FWB but SWWB
Friend with benefits is a two way street, it works best when you will do everything you can to better their lives and they will do the same for you.
Back in the day...wonderful. Lived in same apt complex. Said "don't care if you have a gf pop over anytime". Busty blonde. First uncomplicated relationship lol.
They are after me for my mind. I have several FWB career ladies that want to retire comfortably ( one day ) and have a nest egg that they want to enhance. I have annually doubled and tripled their nest eggs for them. They not only offer me benefits but treat me quite well in other ways. One lady bought me a couple of boxes of cigars when she went to Cuba on vacation. I get Scotch and Cognac at Christmas and on my birthday, on one occasion I got a $80 bottle of Port. ( something that I do not think she would buy for herself ) I went to California on business and one lady offered to meet me there when I was done with my meetings. We went to see the sights in California and stopped at Las Vegas, she insisted it was all on her.
There have been a few ungrateful clingy biatches that I quickly jettisoned. There is one FWB lady that moved to another city to take advantage of a career move, she still gets benefits from me. She is very grateful to me when she comes into town to see her family.
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There have been a few ungrateful clingy biatches that I quickly jettisoned. There is one FWB lady that moved to another city to take advantage of a career move, she still gets benefits from me. She is very grateful to me when she comes into town to see her family.
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That's how my current one started. We've been friends for ages and knew we were attracted to each other, but neither of us was going to fuck up our primary relationships over that.
We both ended up single, so now we are FWBs.
Yup, pretty much. If she shows annoyance or agression, it means it was never a pure FWB from start to end, and then you will know feelings are involved. This gives you the choice to stay or leave. Ehhhhhum, unless you really like her, leave for an actual FWB
So...I dated a girl for a year, and then we broke up but hooked up for about 2 years after. It probably would have been the best time of my life if I just took it for what it was. She made it very clear that it was just for fun, but I kept trying to push us back into the relationship. Stupid. I should have appreciated that I was getting effortless action from a girl I was super attracted too, whenever I wanted, and made the most of it.
The vids answer your concerns
Communication is the key before it even starts
Some of the topics may be:
the first thing you need to communicate is the idea that communication is vital to FWB working
your getting bored is a concern and she has to accept that possibility or the FWB idea is off the table
BTW that is a two way street
all topics are open to discussion such as sex desires , kinks, threesomes etc
your/ her are allowed constructive criticism of your /hers performance and sex skills as no one is a mind reader
such criticism would be educational so request tt
who picks up any expenses
emotions and feelings must be tabled and if one party is falling in love then that needs to be addressed
and may mean it is over, after all, FWB can end any time because
anyone can stop the arrangement at any time and/or limit encounters
Any other ideas of what should be discussed with a FWB?
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Had a friend whose on/off fwb at uni was getting married within her religious/ethnic group...a group of which he was not. She called him 2 days before the relatives were flying in from overseas asking to pop over. Shows up at his flat wearing a long coat. Whips it off she's totally nude underneath except her boots. Says "you got 24 hours". Bang, pow, zoom, oomph...then after a rollicking 24 hours it was over. She marries and stays true to hubby, as best as he can estimate.
When FWB ends so may friendship so is it worth that risk?
My thought is extra sex is what SW and one nighters are for
However, with sex out of the way that may deepen friendship.
Porn stars they make beautiful friendships on set because sex is out of the way
Makes a lot of sense
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