You are right. So I guess that most women including single moms would be shooting for serious relationships or nothing at all.
Are Single Moms Worth Your Time?
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Yup, I think hustlers are going to hustle whether they have kids or not. I know someone in your last scenario and her baby Daddy is the one raising the kid, while she was spending the other guys money (what's left of it anyway) on blow. Last I heard it had run out and she was going to food banks, while last time I saw him, he had just bought a new Porsche and was dating twins or some shit.
LOL pretty much...
I hear you loud and clear. You just want to fuck.
No need over explain it.
Men are more logical, Women are more emotional.
Most Men believe the casual phase leads to a more serious relationship.
Women know the casual phase is the relationship. Sometimes there's nothing more to it.
You need to get out and date more. You're not a man until a woman has torn you down to nothing.
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Just pay her off (one lump sum alimony payment) and be free to thrive.
Women, being known for their emotional nature, will not be able pass up such a sweet deal.
Little does she know, it benefits you way more than her. Also, in the divorce agreement, make it clear she has no future claims to your future earnings or assets. Women have been known to sue ex-husbands in the future once the ex-husband really takes of [financially] without her.
Definitely. She’s holding you back with every passing day. You’ll be surprised at your motivation level once you don’t have that ball and chain holding you back.
Just pay her off (one lump sum alimony payment) and be free to thrive.
Women, being known for their emotional nature, will not be able pass up such a sweet deal.
Little does she know, it benefits you way more than her. Also, in the divorce agreement, make it clear she has no future claims to your future earnings or assets. Women have been known to sue ex-husbands in the future once the ex-husband really takes of [financially] without her.
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Funny I looked this up 3 months ago. Matrimony law is provincial not federal. SO each province is different. Quebec been the worst. Meaning if you live together for 3 months and she applies for alimony you have to pay. Ontario I think 6 months.
Double check my comment please.
And 33% of couples living together in Quebec never officially married. Guess the law there doesn't care.
Well judging from the vast majority of comments here, the experience from the guys on dating single moms is overwhelmingly negative so that says a lot even if some single moms got that status involuntarily. Unfortunately it's the total package that comes with being a single mom doesn't seem to be suitable for many of us guys.
You would come back. See Dating women made me understand men
She sounds co-dependent, they can't go anywhere alone even if it is family gathering. Fear or show.
Mental maturity level is high for this woman.
Gabriel Iglesisas married a SM. Some of the stuff he had to go through. see video.Luckily for me, there are plenty of men out there who do not suffer this mentality.
There isn't a problem with SM, but most gender don't realize the issue lies on both camps.
1. The maturity level or psychological mind of the other person is what makes us determine our perception of them. Meaning, are they honest or are they playing a game/charade. Are they immature or a child inside. ( I seen people with Phd. MBA, and wow how did these people have kids)
2. Most people don't know or can't read other people that well, fast enough. Then it's to late.
3. Parenting skills, most people don't have it.
4. The Goal. This is where both sides fail big time, It's not me , it's you. / It's me, Not you. By the third month to 6 months, both sides or the intelligent one should lay the foundation path for the relationship. YES the kids will be her priority, that is a given, house work- kids have to share with all house members. There is more but I don't have time.
Usually.. Although some of the best sex I've had has been with slightly unhinged, overly possessive girlfriends.
I have dated single mothers in the past and found that it was not for me. Everyone is entitled to their own personal preference in who they'd like to date. I know a ton of my female friends have said they would never give a man that is shorter than them the time of day. Regardless of how nice, thoughtful, or successful he is, it takes that single factor, a factor that he has no control over, to cause an immediate rejection. This behaviour is socially acceptable; personally, I find that there isn't anything wrong with that - as everyone is entitled to their own preference with respect to who they date.
However, if it's socially acceptable for men to be rejected for their height, I don't see why woman shouldn't be rejected by whether or not they have children. Again, it all boils to preference; you live with the options that are available to us and we make peace with it.
However, if it's socially acceptable for men to be rejected for their height, I don't see why woman shouldn't be rejected by whether or not they have children. Again, it all boils to preference; you live with the options that are available to us and we make peace with it.
Looking back on my youth... I knew a guy in Grade 5 named Mike Smith... His single Mom was so hot. She had guy friends visit. Mike always came to our houses. We never went to his. True story.
It’s funny how females get upset when men apply the same forethought and strategies as they do for determining whether someone is worth being in a relationship with. Something they have done for thousands of years btw
I don’t think that is what men are saying.
I think, and I get it, they are saying;
1. You will never come first because her kids always will. Which these men seem to understand and accept. But I get it. I want to be first in someone’s life. That is why I would date. They want attention they understand is not available for a valid reason. Doesn’t mean they have to accept that for themselves. So they move on to someone without kids who can pay that attention.
2. Men can be on the hook for child support of a child that is not theirs if the relationship goes a certain way. I get this too. I would not want to pay for another persons child and becoming “loco parentis” is a very real thing. It would be a concern, a “con” to dating a single mom.
3. Not being able to discipline the child. Again a very real thing. I wouldn’t want some guy disciplining my child when they were young. That is my job. But I have been around people who’s kids need some immediate discipline and I get annoyed when a parent doesn’t do and I can’t either. I get this issue.
4. Time. Time revolves around the kids. Again, I get that. It is the way it should be. But if you are the type who has an already bad schedule or has to be more in control of their schedule or can’t meet the schedule of a typical “kid” schedule then I get it. If you want to see the women every weekend but can only see her every other weekend when the kids are gone to their dads, that would suck for you. You would understand but it would suck. Would it not be better to find a non single mom who didn’t have those types of schedule issues? It is not saying their is a fault against the women, just that schedules and wants don’t line up.
Single parents come with a certain type of baggage. This is not to say that people in general don’t, of course they do. Single moms just have baggage that can be seen before even getting into the relationship and that can make a determination for men before hand.
If I was able to see a man had the baggage of alcoholism, narcissistic personality, and an abusive nature I never would have dated the last guy I was with.
Guys get to see that baggage before hand. Does this mean men could be losing out on amazing women? Yup. But women lose out on amazing guys because they want Brad Pitt types only. So we are no different. Just have different things we want in terms of a partner.
But I don’t think these guys here are trying to tear down single moms and put them back in the kitchen. They are just talking some truths.
Men do the same thing. Complain all the time about how women choose their partners. Have you read some of the shit on this board? It is full of upset men who complain about women.
Shit, they complain if a woman doesn’t smile back at them. Because somehow we owe them a smile.
So before laughing at upset women, take a look around and see your fellow man doing the same thing.
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Single Moms and Dating: Exactly What to Know
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