best friend is dating an SP I saw but he doesnt know she escorts
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"Don't ask, don't tell" lol
In any case, even if you friend is going to find out about it, never ever reveal to him that you saw her.
In any case, even if you friend is going to find out about it, never ever reveal to him that you saw her.
Who are you trying to fool here ?? This same post was brought 18 months ago by Nathan Drake and I would believe him before I believe you !!
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This comes up now and then. The best advice has always been to talk to HER, not him. Tell her you know and tell her to find a way to let him know. Then wait. Let it work itself out between them in the context of the relationship they have.
You talking to her will put some pressure on her to come clean with him, but in her own way and on her own terms.
You talking to her will put some pressure on her to come clean with him, but in her own way and on her own terms.
Does your friend know you see escorts, and if not, do you want him to know? No idea about your personal life, but would him knowing that have potential impact on your life? I don't know how you plan to tell him without otherwise outing yourself in this. Maybe he already knows what she does and gets off on it. I know a guy who is dating a well known escort and totally loves that she does that, but then he has dated lots of strippers and escorts already.
What is the big deal here? Can't SPs have a personal life outside of the business? Can't SPs have a regular life after the business. Maybe he knows about it already. When a SP meets a client it is a business transaction not an emotional relationship. With this in mind is she really cheating on him? I say stay out of it. If you seen a friends girlfriend having an affair it would be a different matter.
No, don't fucking tell her anything.
Just observe your friend and let him figure it out on his own. Slowly start to infiltrate his mind to see how much he knows about her and all.
If he is your friend for real, you don't want to tell him what to do. Sometimes friends need to be hurt to learn a lesson, as long as they can recover from it or it does not hurt their real life and/or others in it.
If you sense he's falling for her, and eventually wants to marry this girl, but still don't know about it then you need to fucking tell him and still try to find ways to protect what they have. Although, if I was getting married to somebody I would expect that I know these things especially if it was going on during when we were dating.
If its just casual dating and stuff, just fuck it, let him have his fun and learn the hard way, just be in the sidelines if you need to jump in to give him a lifeline.
Just observe your friend and let him figure it out on his own. Slowly start to infiltrate his mind to see how much he knows about her and all.
If he is your friend for real, you don't want to tell him what to do. Sometimes friends need to be hurt to learn a lesson, as long as they can recover from it or it does not hurt their real life and/or others in it.
If you sense he's falling for her, and eventually wants to marry this girl, but still don't know about it then you need to fucking tell him and still try to find ways to protect what they have. Although, if I was getting married to somebody I would expect that I know these things especially if it was going on during when we were dating.
If its just casual dating and stuff, just fuck it, let him have his fun and learn the hard way, just be in the sidelines if you need to jump in to give him a lifeline.
Stay out of it all together. The best way to lose a friend is to interfere in his personal relationships. He'll find out on his own. Things like that always come to the surface if you're in the relationship long enough.
Plus, your friend is getting to enjoy better sex with her for free while you're having to pay. Give the man a pat on the back. Let him have his fun. The relationship will end by itself without any help or intervention from you.
The longer you're in a relationship with someone, the harder it's going to be to hide something of that magnitude.
Plus, your friend is getting to enjoy better sex with her for free while you're having to pay. Give the man a pat on the back. Let him have his fun. The relationship will end by itself without any help or intervention from you.
The longer you're in a relationship with someone, the harder it's going to be to hide something of that magnitude.
How do you know for sure that he doesn't know that she escorts? Maybe she is transitioning out of the trade even? Does your friend see escorts and does he know that you do as well? If your friend finds out that you knew about her but didn't tell him, then what?
You and she both know the truth about her, so you can talk to her about it. She doesn't know about your friendship with the guy she's dating, so it would be only fair to tell her about that complication in her relationship. At that point you and she share a problem: How and what to tell your friend/her boyfriend. That's a personal issue for both of you, with personal consequences all round, but at least you've gotten your client/SP issue out where it doesn't cloud things, and the two of you can deal with it.
A very big concern you haven't mentioned is the very large difference between a retired SP and one still seeing clients — never mind seeing you — which would make for two entirely different scenarios.
A very big concern you haven't mentioned is the very large difference between a retired SP and one still seeing clients — never mind seeing you — which would make for two entirely different scenarios.
You right Titalian. Another made up story from a boring and pathetic liar. Get a life sharp56 !!
its been 2 years since I banged her...she's in her 30s probably looking to get out of the biz.
Right on!
The lady is as deserving of being treated with respect and dignity -- and as deserving of your discretion -- as if she were your mother / daughter / sister. And even if you knew (say) she had a criminal record, it would still be none of your business.
