I guessed that. But Terb member's opinions do not have much impact on me, him, or our life together.There are also a few here who don't believe your personal arrangement is true love either my dear (with all due respect sweet MrsCALoki).
I do not know of any sure fire test for true love, so I guess it is a moot point. I know and he knows that I am not here for financial reasons. I can easily afford to leave and have a party girl life on Miami beech for a few decades. I am here because he and being with him make me happy. I am pretty certain he is happy with me and having me with him. I get a warm glow just sitting and thinking about him. I know I am a better person because he is in my life, and I think he is a better person because I am in his. And sex is . So I think it is love. It was a weird and wonderful trip getting here, but I do believe in love.