And this is why SPs would not want to date someone that they have met within the industry (though I will always stick to my guns and say that SPs are STILL human beings capable of falling for a john, as far-fetched as it may be). Who would want to be treated
like this and be looked down upon by someone in this fashion? This is the
baggage that comes with someone who met us in this industry - they'll assume the SP (retired or not) would be some kind of gold-digging nympho who can never be trusted. Everything comes full circle - how would an SP trust a former client not to hobby while together? Nothing works without trust and if a guy thinks he can't trust a girl, why would she trust him to treat her better than how he thinks she treats him?
That last point was a doozy!
OK so *this* is my last post in this thread.
I had to explain an important point. Past this post, I don't plan on being involved in conversations about how sex workers are "all the same" and should not be trusted because all we want is EVERY man's money and that we will be unfaithful just because of our work history. Because of guys like the one I have quoted in this post, this is my very reason for personally
never wanting to date someone that I've met in this industry, no exceptions. Also the same reason why I wouldn't date anyone
outside the industry until I'm fully retired as well.
Happy hobbying everyone, and when in doubt: don't try to date a current SP!