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mrsCALoki said:
You raise an important point. There is never any certainty with any relationship. Meeting someone as a client and turning them into a love interest is very difficult. I would think that it is MUCH MUCH harder for an escort/client relationship to evolve into true love than it would be almost any other way of meeting.

In my relationship with Loki it was very difficult to get over the "dirty old man" / "gold digger" stereotypes. It took some very difficult and brave actions on both our parts to get over the way we met and our age differences. We also had to adapt to each others needs.

None the less, it is foolish to assume any relationship can get serious until people spend a lot of time together. If someone told me he loved me after only spending a few dozen hours with me, I would assume he was someone to avoid. At best a misfit that had little or no experience with life.
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Yes, good relationships are a chore to find or build.

If a customer says he loves you, he's not necessarily a misfit but someone overjoyed with the high of the moment.
 
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Conway_Stewart said:
You should not be expected to learn to tie knots. You could very easily break a nail or worse!!

Lord Loki has plenty of money. He could simply buy another boat if the first one floated away.

What a cheap *sshole. You deserve much better.
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Lol. No no, she should learn all the tricks of the trade. She may own her own sail boat one day, or need to navigate, port, etc. on her own in case of an emergency. She probably looks cute in her sailing outfit and sneakers. This is all part of the grooming for an Establishment Man's S.O.
 
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Dear Azn. I spent an afternoon with your "girl" yesterday. In between blow jobs she did tell me she will "love you long time". GB
 
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Best advice you can get from a very smart lady who is speaking from her personal experiences. Just make sure you don't get played by her. You can tell very easily if she's playing with you or she 's really into you by the way she communicates with you. If the lady is really into you, she will text you or call you whenever she's free. She'll respond to your text and calls immediately whenever possible, cuz she's always thinking about you and so eager to hear from you. She'll want to spend her times with you as much as she could. In my case, I am single and my lady came over and spent most of her time with me, cleaning my place , doing my laundries and cooking for me and such.
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Not necessarily true. I used to hang out with an SP who would always communicate with me at all times of the day/night almost every day. Even the littlest thing she'd let me know what was going on with her that day both in the industry and whatever personal crisis she was going through. We'd hangout a lot off the clock, dinners, lunch, swimming, shopping or spending the night. She trusted me enough to meet her family and have lunch with them and they let me into their home. At first i thought it was a signal of something bigger but she eventually let me know that all of it means nothing to her except that she trusts me as a friend. It took me a long time to get that information out of her as she tends to avoid any serious discussions but in the end i could see we're just good friends .

Signs are difficult to interpret... some people put more meaning into things than others do.. like how some people think sex is best saved for someone special... while others give it out like water.. its just for fun, something to keep away the boredom.... you just have to be on the same page as to what the signs you see mean to you and what it means to her cuz it could be two totally different things. You could be the guy she calls all the time thinking your the special one... but then again you could be the guy she calls among 6 or 7 other guys just like you who all think they are the special one too. You never know.
 
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Conway_Stewart said:
You should not be expected to learn to tie knots. You could very easily break a nail or worse!!

Lord Loki has plenty of money. He could simply buy another boat if the first one floated away.

What a cheap *sshole. You deserve much better.
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If you love something set it free, if it comes back it's yours - if not it was never meant to be.
 
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slewdem said:
Not necessarily true. I used to hang out with an SP who would always communicate with me at all times of the day/night almost every day. Even the littlest thing she'd let me know what was going on with her that day both in the industry and whatever personal crisis she was going through. We'd hangout a lot off the clock, dinners, lunch, swimming, shopping or spending the night. She trusted me enough to meet her family and have lunch with them and they let me into their home. At first i thought it was a signal of something bigger but she eventually let me know that all of it means nothing to her except that she trusts me as a friend. It took me a long time to get that information out of her as she tends to avoid any serious discussions but in the end i could see we're just good friends .

Signs are difficult to interpret... some people put more meaning into things than others do.. like how some people think sex is best saved for someone special... while others give it out like water.. its just for fun, something to keep away the boredom.... you just have to be on the same page as to what the signs you see mean to you and what it means to her cuz it could be two totally different things. You could be the guy she calls all the time thinking your the special one... but then again you could be the guy she calls among 6 or 7 other guys just like you who all think they are the special one too. You never know.
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My ideal SP friend is one who can still be a whore in the bedroom or my porno co-star too. I wouldn't want to be friend-zoned from lustful beginnings.

Did you start off as john/SP?
 
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you should stop everything else you are doing .... invite her (all expenses paid of course) to meet at the empire state building and if she shows, you are golden , if she doesn't, well you are the loser you were meant to be by posting this thread
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And when she doesn't show...jump
 
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Why doesn't anybody ever learn? Leave SPs, MPAs and strippers alone. There is way too much baggage, drama and assorted horseshit to be experienced. She will be the most irresponsible and unreliable person you will ever have to deal with.

Firstly, you cannot change her. You are a moron if you think you can.
Secondly, you wants you only for your money.
Thirdly, you cannot keep her secret forever, unless your family is equally and totally disfunctional.
Fourthly, she will be as loyal to you as a back alley cat. She will have lots of male friends and will drive you crazy with jealousy.

I should talk. My present squeeze is a dancer. My secret is that I don't take our affair seriously. It is just a way to get what I want. Her considerations must come second. It's thje only way to maintain your sanity with sex-related women, in general.
 
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Mr. Lucky said:
I'm in love with a MPA and I was thinking about marriage and kids :p
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Good for you if her massage skills are of the RMT quality. For you could
get easily tired of the sex however hot she may be but the weekly therapeutic
treatment at home is going to be a gift of a lifetime.
 
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The odds are against you but it can happen because it has happened more than once. Sometimes you have to take risks in life even if the odds of a successful relationship are slim to none. It's not easy being an sp and having a normal relationship even after they have retired. People in general have relationship problems so being an sp is no different. However, I would like to know how many sp had successful relationships during and after retiring. I'm assuming even after an Sp retires her past catches up to her and it had some sort of negative affect on her relationship. Everyone past catches up to them, even the smart ones.
 
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Brandon123 said:
I'm assuming even after an Sp retires her past catches up to her and it had some sort of negative affect on her relationship. Everyone past catches up to them, even the smart ones.
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You both have a past. Can she let go of the fact that you used to see escorts?
 
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Brandon123 said:
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However, I would like to know how many sp had successful relationships during and after retiring. I'm assuming even after an Sp retires her past catches up to her and had some sort of negative affect on her relationships. Everyone past catches up to them, even for the smart ones.
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Can a man who has received BBBJ from 100+ different SPs finally settle down to have
a happy marriage?

Can a hobbiing husband and father continue to expand his TDL without breaking
his marriage?

If yes then a SP shouldn't have any problem to have a normal relationship.
 
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