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Brandon123

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Buick Mackane said:
She wouldn't tell him she was an escort, guys can't handle it.
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I agree with you that she would never tell him about her past but he might find out through a buddy or followed her to work one day. The odds are slim but i'm sure it has happened where the bf found out one way or another.
 
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Alona M said:
And this is why SPs would not want to date someone that they have met within the industry (though I will always stick to my guns and say that SPs are STILL human beings capable of falling for a john, as far-fetched as it may be). Who would want to be treated like this and be looked down upon by someone in this fashion? This is the baggage that comes with someone who met us in this industry - they'll assume the SP (retired or not) would be some kind of gold-digging nympho who can never be trusted. Everything comes full circle - how would an SP trust a former client not to hobby while together? Nothing works without trust and if a guy thinks he can't trust a girl, why would she trust him to treat her better than how he thinks she treats him?

That last point was a doozy!

OK so *this* is my last post in this thread. :p I had to explain an important point. Past this post, I don't plan on being involved in conversations about how sex workers are "all the same" and should not be trusted because all we want is EVERY man's money and that we will be unfaithful just because of our work history. Because of guys like the one I have quoted in this post, this is my very reason for personally never wanting to date someone that I've met in this industry, no exceptions. Also the same reason why I wouldn't date anyone outside the industry until I'm fully retired as well.

Happy hobbying everyone, and when in doubt: don't try to date a current SP!
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Alona, each gal is different, just like each guy is different. You're exciting to be with, but you also have a good head on your shoulders. I've met SPs who are way nicer to be with (and I mean outside of the bedroom) than civilians I've dated. So generalizations don't always apply to every individual.
 
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if the SP starts paying you for your time or she refunds all the money you spent of her then you know it's true love ! ^_-
 
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mrsCALoki

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I fall in love with almost every SP I see... Then one of us leaves and that's that.
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If you really think that is love, I feel incredible sad for you.
 
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Omg I think I figured out who she is by looking at your past forum posts. If it is who I think it is, then let me just say: I know she is young and sweet and sexy and provides great service and all that (no doubt about that), but I can see how you might be misconstrued. If it is the same person we're talking about I've seen her too, and I can definitely see why you're feeling the way you do. She's very sweet by nature, its hard not to feel the same when around her, but I think it's just in her personality. I wouldn't be surprised if there are others who feel the same way about her to other degrees though. That being said it might be possible there's something more for you, but maybe not. I don't know what to tell you. Listen to other people's advice and play it cool. Good luck.
 
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eqtrader said:
Omg I think I figured out who she is by looking at your past forum posts. If it is who I think it is, then let me just say: I know she is young and sweet and sexy and provides great service and all that (no doubt about that), but I can see how you might be misconstrued. If it is the same person we're talking about I've seen her too, and I can definitely see why you're feeling the way you do. She's very sweet by nature, its hard not to feel the same when around her, but I think it's just in her personality. I wouldn't be surprised if there are others who feel the same way about her to other degrees though. That being said it might be possible there's something more for you, but maybe not. I don't know what to tell you. Listen to other people's advice and play it cool. Good luck.
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you fucked his pretend girlfriend, you mother fucker.
 
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Kareena said:
How about dating someone you've met in the industry, who is also in the industry, while you are in the industry? Just seeking clarification... nothing else... just curious... no hidden agenda here... :)
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And who is East Indian... and loves Mickey D's ... and is related to Latika?

(I'm not known for being subtle.)
 
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eqtrader said:
Omg I think I figured out who she is by looking at your past forum posts. If it is who I think it is, then let me just say: I know she is young and sweet and sexy and provides great service and all that (no doubt about that), but I can see how you might be misconstrued. If it is the same person we're talking about I've seen her too, and I can definitely see why you're feeling the way you do. She's very sweet by nature, its hard not to feel the same when around her, but I think it's just in her personality. I wouldn't be surprised if there are others who feel the same way about her to other degrees though. That being said it might be possible there's something more for you, but maybe not. I don't know what to tell you. Listen to other people's advice and play it cool. Good luck.
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simon482 said:
you fucked his pretend girlfriend, you mother fucker.
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Sounds like he's saying lots of dudes banged his lady love. And that there's a lineup now...LOL
 
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Just be patient. That feeling always goes away, SP or not.
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Yup been there. The moment you start reading reviews of her doing the next 10 guys the same way as you, you realize you were just a number. If you disagree, find a way to PM her and ask her if she can even remember what you look like...
 
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mrsCALoki said:
If you really think that is love, I feel incredible sad for you.
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There's no smiley-wink face, but it's not what he meant.

There are also a few here who don't believe your personal arrangement is true love either my dear (with all due respect sweet MrsCALoki).
 
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letsn0twastetime said:
Yup been there. The moment you start reading reviews of her doing the next 10 guys the same way as you, you realize you were just a number. If you disagree, find a way to PM her and ask her if she can even remember what you look like...
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Wait a minute. I get turned on reading reviews of my fave, and when I see her, I use it as dirty talk to fuel the pounding I give her. (Yeah, I'm a bit of a freak - but I hear you loud and clear dude).
 
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eqtrader said:
Omg I think I figured out who she is by looking at your past forum posts. If it is who I think it is, then let me just say: I know she is young and sweet and sexy and provides great service and all that (no doubt about that), but I can see how you might be misconstrued. If it is the same person we're talking about I've seen her too, and I can definitely see why you're feeling the way you do. She's very sweet by nature, its hard not to feel the same when around her, but I think it's just in her personality. I wouldn't be surprised if there are others who feel the same way about her to other degrees though. That being said it might be possible there's something more for you, but maybe not. I don't know what to tell you. Listen to other people's advice and play it cool. Good luck.
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Whoever it is, there are MANY good SPs here that have a few smitten clients. So the OP should enjoy the ride and her company but not get too deep, unless in the unlikely event she wants him too, but he will have to either arrange for her to not have to work or accept her job.
 
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GPIDEAL said:
There are also a few here who don't believe your personal arrangement is true love either my dear (with all due respect sweet MrsCALoki).
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I guessed that. But Terb member's opinions do not have much impact on me, him, or our life together.

I do not know of any sure fire test for true love, so I guess it is a moot point. I know and he knows that I am not here for financial reasons. I can easily afford to leave and have a party girl life on Miami beech for a few decades. I am here because he and being with him make me happy. I am pretty certain he is happy with me and having me with him. I get a warm glow just sitting and thinking about him. I know I am a better person because he is in my life, and I think he is a better person because I am in his. And sex is :). So I think it is love. It was a weird and wonderful trip getting here, but I do believe in love.
 
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