It even catches up to married men and their marriage end up in divorce. I heard of a co-worker friend that lost his family and house due to this hobby. It's a risk we all take, catching an STD, getting caught by your wife or having a sex addiction. Everything eventually catches up to you.
In love with an sp, what to do...
- Thread starter azn.lover
- Start date
She wouldn't tell him she was an escort, guys can't handle it.I was referring to an SP that met a guy that didn't hobby.
I agree with you that she would never tell him about her past but he might find out through a buddy or followed her to work one day. The odds are slim but i'm sure it has happened where the bf found out one way or another.
Alona, each gal is different, just like each guy is different. You're exciting to be with, but you also have a good head on your shoulders. I've met SPs who are way nicer to be with (and I mean outside of the bedroom) than civilians I've dated. So generalizations don't always apply to every individual.And this is why SPs would not want to date someone that they have met within the industry (though I will always stick to my guns and say that SPs are STILL human beings capable of falling for a john, as far-fetched as it may be). Who would want to be treated like this and be looked down upon by someone in this fashion? This is the baggage that comes with someone who met us in this industry - they'll assume the SP (retired or not) would be some kind of gold-digging nympho who can never be trusted. Everything comes full circle - how would an SP trust a former client not to hobby while together? Nothing works without trust and if a guy thinks he can't trust a girl, why would she trust him to treat her better than how he thinks she treats him?
That last point was a doozy!
OK so *this* is my last post in this thread.
Happy hobbying everyone, and when in doubt: don't try to date a current SP!
if the SP starts paying you for your time or she refunds all the money you spent of her then you know it's true love ! ^_-
Omg I think I figured out who she is by looking at your past forum posts. If it is who I think it is, then let me just say: I know she is young and sweet and sexy and provides great service and all that (no doubt about that), but I can see how you might be misconstrued. If it is the same person we're talking about I've seen her too, and I can definitely see why you're feeling the way you do. She's very sweet by nature, its hard not to feel the same when around her, but I think it's just in her personality. I wouldn't be surprised if there are others who feel the same way about her to other degrees though. That being said it might be possible there's something more for you, but maybe not. I don't know what to tell you. Listen to other people's advice and play it cool. Good luck.
And we all feel incredibly sad for you. Because you are the saddest person on TERB.
And who is East Indian... and loves Mickey D's ... and is related to Latika?How about dating someone you've met in the industry, who is also in the industry, while you are in the industry? Just seeking clarification... nothing else... just curious... no hidden agenda here...
(I'm not known for being subtle.)
Sounds like he's saying lots of dudes banged his lady love. And that there's a lineup now...LOL
I sure did!! So that makes me a mother fucker eh. I'm only speculating though, not sure if it's the same girl. Either way I doubt he'll tell us who she is.
Yup been there. The moment you start reading reviews of her doing the next 10 guys the same way as you, you realize you were just a number. If you disagree, find a way to PM her and ask her if she can even remember what you look like...
There's no smiley-wink face, but it's not what he meant.
There are also a few here who don't believe your personal arrangement is true love either my dear (with all due respect sweet MrsCALoki).
Wait a minute. I get turned on reading reviews of my fave, and when I see her, I use it as dirty talk to fuel the pounding I give her. (Yeah, I'm a bit of a freak - but I hear you loud and clear dude).
Whoever it is, there are MANY good SPs here that have a few smitten clients. So the OP should enjoy the ride and her company but not get too deep, unless in the unlikely event she wants him too, but he will have to either arrange for her to not have to work or accept her job.
