Do you know how to tell if a woman had an orgasm.

[SofiaYork]

Can I chime in?

Every woman is different.

Unfortunately more women, more times than you think, fake orgasms with their guy. Some reasons for this can include.. 1) Seeing your partner "get off" increases YOUR stimulation. Some girls fake it to play a ping pong game.. "If I fake this orgasm, he will get more hard -- and then I will enjoy this even more"

Some girls fake it to make him feel better about himself. Especially SPs, since most believe its part of the act. If he feels he did a great job, he will genuinely believe they have a good chemistry together and will usually turn in to a repeat client. Ive seen a ton of girls do this!

Also, there are multiple TYPES of orgasms for women. This is usually how women can have multiple orgasms. There are the internal Gspot orgasms (some women can cum with just insertion), the outer clit orgasms (some women can cum with just rubbing the top), squirting orgasms (doesnt always mean it was "better"), and the repetitive convulsion twitches.. generally post-orgasm.. aftershocks.

Additionally, also sad -- I know plenty of girls who have experienced what they THOUGHT was an orgasm but actually isnt. A lot of the time, when a girl experiences a real orgasm for the first time.. if it is in her 20s, or worse.. 30s...40s?? :-o --- she is too embarrassed to mention that it is her first real orgasm, because all those other times when it "felt good".. she thought she was having an orgasm back then.. but they werent? MIND BLOWN. Right?

Also, women can get wet without being turned on. And also, women can have that "white stuff" or as someone referred to it as milking.. can start BEFORE an orgasm. Ive had sex before where it was barely even 10 minutes in to it, and there I was... all over him when he pulled it out to switch positions.

And FINALLY, when I *do* have an orgasm... ive asked many guys if they knew I was or felt it. 99% of the time they had no idea if it was not for me VERBALLY saying so. Even if I have a HUGE mind shattering orgasm. And for the record, I am in good shape and do my kegals. Ive "tested" this theory a few times where after I have a huge orgasm, I ask them to just hold still and lay down and feel it. Unless I put in the extra effort to *clench*, they cant. So i'd imagine its even that much harder to feel the "involuntary convulsions" if we were still having sex/thrusting.

I have recently been told that I do "something" when I am having an orgasm that I had NO idea I did until I was told, now I notice it almost every single time. Which is funny, since I am rather experienced and there is not something i havnt tried. Not afraid to get myself off -- (generally, why men like women in their 30s.. the sex is better because the woman as aged to the point of maturity past insecurity, and therefor is more concerned with getting off rather than how dim the lights are.) The more confident a girl is, the better the sex -- period, regardless of age. Not in my 30s.. just something i picked up on early. With that being said, having just learned this new "trick" when I have my orgasms, it has taught me to be that much more in tuned to my body to know when something is going right or wrong... even girls confuse girls! There are times when I am trying EVERYTHING possible to get off and it just wont happen.

Moral of my long story... every girl is different. Im sure there are some girls you can feel every little twitch.. But just because you DO, doesnt mean it's an orgasm. And just because you DONT, doesnt mean it isnt.

Just have fun.. dont slobber in her face or lick her ear and everything will figure itself out

 

[frankcastle]

To add something there..... a woman's secretion changes throughout her cycle..... e.g. near ovulation vs other times of the month. The clarity and consistancy of hte secretions changes....so that might complicate things for those looking for signs of orgasms from secretions.

 

[SofiaYork]

If she says she came I trust her. If she didn't cum I I would trust her to talk to me about how to do it better next time.

The clarity and consistancy of hte secretions changes....so that might complicate things for those looking for signs of orgasms from secretions.

Bingo!

Again, not all women know this stuff either! I wouldnt say its "Sad"... its part of the fun of life, figuring these little mysteries out. What is sad is women not masturbating enough or learning to please themselves properly. If you don't know how to do it, then don't expect a guy to know how to do it!

A good little test to run on yourself is to get yourself off when you are NOT even the least bit horny. In fact, forecfully masturbating when you are in a bad mood/totally not turned on/generally stressed out.. the results will hopefully surprise you.

I believe, if your dog just died, rent is late, tuition grant was rejected, just got fired, broke up with boyfriend -- if you can still get yourself horny (key phrase) and give yourself an orgasm.. you can learn how to orgasm in any situation, with any guy

 

[frankcastle]

Tuition grant? Mrs Loki is that you?

 

[great bear]

Can I chime in?

Every woman is different.

Unfortunately more women, more times than you think, fake orgasms with their guy. Some reasons for this can include.. 1) Seeing your partner "get off" increases YOUR stimulation. Some girls fake it to play a ping pong game.. "If I fake this orgasm, he will get more hard -- and then I will enjoy this even more"

Some girls fake it to make him feel better about himself. Especially SPs, since most believe its part of the act. If he feels he did a great job, he will genuinely believe they have a good chemistry together and will usually turn in to a repeat client. Ive seen a ton of girls do this!

Also, there are multiple TYPES of orgasms for women. This is usually how women can have multiple orgasms. There are the internal Gspot orgasms (some women can cum with just insertion), the outer clit orgasms (some women can cum with just rubbing the top), squirting orgasms (doesnt always mean it was "better"), and the repetitive convulsion twitches.. generally post-orgasm.. aftershocks.

Additionally, also sad -- I know plenty of girls who have experienced what they THOUGHT was an orgasm but actually isnt. A lot of the time, when a girl experiences a real orgasm for the first time.. if it is in her 20s, or worse.. 30s...40s?? :-o --- she is too embarrassed to mention that it is her first real orgasm, because all those other times when it "felt good".. she thought she was having an orgasm back then.. but they werent? MIND BLOWN. Right?

Also, women can get wet without being turned on. And also, women can have that "white stuff" or as someone referred to it as milking.. can start BEFORE an orgasm. Ive had sex before where it was barely even 10 minutes in to it, and there I was... all over him when he pulled it out to switch positions.

And FINALLY, when I *do* have an orgasm... ive asked many guys if they knew I was or felt it. 99% of the time they had no idea if it was not for me VERBALLY saying so. Even if I have a HUGE mind shattering orgasm. And for the record, I am in good shape and do my kegals. Ive "tested" this theory a few times where after I have a huge orgasm, I ask them to just hold still and lay down and feel it. Unless I put in the extra effort to *clench*, they cant. So i'd imagine its even that much harder to feel the "involuntary convulsions" if we were still having sex/thrusting.

I have recently been told that I do "something" when I am having an orgasm that I had NO idea I did until I was told, now I notice it almost every single time. Which is funny, since I am rather experienced and there is not something i havnt tried. Not afraid to get myself off -- (generally, why men like women in their 30s.. the sex is better because the woman as aged to the point of maturity past insecurity, and therefor is more concerned with getting off rather than how dim the lights are.) The more confident a girl is, the better the sex -- period, regardless of age. Not in my 30s.. just something i picked up on early. With that being said, having just learned this new "trick" when I have my orgasms, it has taught me to be that much more in tuned to my body to know when something is going right or wrong... even girls confuse girls! There are times when I am trying EVERYTHING possible to get off and it just wont happen.

Moral of my long story... every girl is different. Im sure there are some girls you can feel every little twitch.. But just because you DO, doesnt mean it's an orgasm. And just because you DONT, doesnt mean it isnt.

Just have fun.. dont slobber in her face or lick her ear and everything will figure itself out

Great Post!! GB

 

[mrsCALoki]

So what is the point should we be sticking pH meters up our partner's vagina to see if she orgasmed?

If she says she came I trust her. If she didn't cum I I would trust her to talk to me about how to do it better next time.

franky,

LIAR if someone said the sun came up, you would want to argue about it.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Tuition grant? Mrs Loki is that you?

Different schools call it different things. Horatio your small out house is not the universe.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Can I chime in?

Every woman is different.

Unfortunately more women, more times than you think, fake orgasms with their guy. Some reasons for this can include.. 1) Seeing your partner "get off" increases YOUR stimulation. Some girls fake it to play a ping pong game.. "If I fake this orgasm, he will get more hard -- and then I will enjoy this even more"

Some girls fake it to make him feel better about himself. Especially SPs, since most believe its part of the act. If he feels he did a great job, he will genuinely believe they have a good chemistry together and will usually turn in to a repeat client. Ive seen a ton of girls do this!

Also, there are multiple TYPES of orgasms for women. This is usually how women can have multiple orgasms. There are the internal Gspot orgasms (some women can cum with just insertion), the outer clit orgasms (some women can cum with just rubbing the top), squirting orgasms (doesnt always mean it was "better"), and the repetitive convulsion twitches.. generally post-orgasm.. aftershocks.

Additionally, also sad -- I know plenty of girls who have experienced what they THOUGHT was an orgasm but actually isnt. A lot of the time, when a girl experiences a real orgasm for the first time.. if it is in her 20s, or worse.. 30s...40s?? :-o --- she is too embarrassed to mention that it is her first real orgasm, because all those other times when it "felt good".. she thought she was having an orgasm back then.. but they werent? MIND BLOWN. Right?

Also, women can get wet without being turned on. And also, women can have that "white stuff" or as someone referred to it as milking.. can start BEFORE an orgasm. Ive had sex before where it was barely even 10 minutes in to it, and there I was... all over him when he pulled it out to switch positions.

And FINALLY, when I *do* have an orgasm... ive asked many guys if they knew I was or felt it. 99% of the time they had no idea if it was not for me VERBALLY saying so. Even if I have a HUGE mind shattering orgasm. And for the record, I am in good shape and do my kegals. Ive "tested" this theory a few times where after I have a huge orgasm, I ask them to just hold still and lay down and feel it. Unless I put in the extra effort to *clench*, they cant. So i'd imagine its even that much harder to feel the "involuntary convulsions" if we were still having sex/thrusting.

I have recently been told that I do "something" when I am having an orgasm that I had NO idea I did until I was told, now I notice it almost every single time. Which is funny, since I am rather experienced and there is not something i havnt tried. Not afraid to get myself off -- (generally, why men like women in their 30s.. the sex is better because the woman as aged to the point of maturity past insecurity, and therefor is more concerned with getting off rather than how dim the lights are.) The more confident a girl is, the better the sex -- period, regardless of age. Not in my 30s.. just something i picked up on early. With that being said, having just learned this new "trick" when I have my orgasms, it has taught me to be that much more in tuned to my body to know when something is going right or wrong... even girls confuse girls! There are times when I am trying EVERYTHING possible to get off and it just wont happen.

Moral of my long story... every girl is different. Im sure there are some girls you can feel every little twitch.. But just because you DO, doesnt mean it's an orgasm. And just because you DONT, doesnt mean it isnt.

Just have fun.. dont slobber in her face or lick her ear and everything will figure itself out

I agree I had just turned 25.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Bringing a man to orgasms is normally pretty straightforward. Even the first time with a new partner

Figuring out what gets a new woman off can be a little more involved, but what makes it MUCH easier is if she is confident, knows her own body and is willing to direct traffic, ask for what she likes, and my favorite, just take it.

I like feeling a little used after, like at one point she stopped paying attention to me and got selfish. VERY hot.

That brings up a topic I had been thinking of. If I have one or two orgasms, I am dome for a long long time (hours). Is that normal?

 

[Libra]

Why just litmus paper?

Why not also go one better and hook her up to a lie detector. Slap a couple of those electrodes to her bum. There's no way your going to fake it now Lil miss "oh oh"!

Talk about hawt sexy talk;

Question one: Is your name Lynn

Yes yes!

Question Two: is your underwear pink.

Yes yes! I mean no.

...

Meow! Thanks for the great ideas Mrs. Loki.

 

[frankcastle]

Different schools call it different things. Horatio your small out house is not the universe.

oh relax these are just jokes in reference to your posts.

 

[Viggo Rasmussen]

You don't need to orgasm to change your taste or pH, just being aroused and getting wet is enough.

 

[frankcastle]

hmmmm let me crack out the pH kit for a pool and play pool boy and the bored house wife.

why mrs robinson are you trying to seduce me?

 

[mrsCALoki]

oh relax these are just jokes in reference to your posts.

relax. I am just pointing out you might know something about your neighbourhood, but are sadly lacking in basic knowledge about things anywhere else

 

[mrsCALoki]

Why just litmus paper?

Why not also go one better and hook her up to a lie detector. Slap a couple of those electrodes to her bum. There's no way your going to fake it now Lil miss "oh oh"!

Talk about hawt sexy talk;

Question one: Is your name Lynn

Yes yes!

Question Two: is your underwear pink.

Yes yes! I mean no.

...

Meow! Thanks for the great ideas Mrs. Loki.

oh god, I will never ever read this out loud to LL

 

[mrsCALoki]

You don't need to orgasm to change your taste or pH, just being aroused and getting wet is enough.

I have not tasted myself or others in various states of arousal to know about taste. I do know that I do not change acidity much unless I have an orgasm. I sort of got curious and did some experiments, and the quick switch to the more basic me is only there with an orgasm. I know we can acidify ourselves by modifying our diet; but that is not a switch that occurs quickly.

WE need more data points.

 

[colt]

Why do I need to explain simple details to you guys?

Well, it is the details that really make any good lie.

He rubs one side ( I do not know which side for you I only saw it opened up after the entire thing was over lets pretend it is the top) before I orgasm. Right after I orgasm, he rubs the other side (pretend bottom). One part is a different colour than the other= big O. All the same = fake big O.

The "litmus paper" you are describing does not exist. True "litmus papers" just tells you whether a sampe is alkaline or acidic. It is true that, with a long enough strip, you could use each end to test different samples. However It does not provide you with any estimate of pH. It is the pink or blue strips people commonly think of when they think of "litmus paper". Seeing as your vaginal fluids would be moving from a state of alkaline to slightly more alkaline, Loki obviously wasn't using actual "litmus paper". The results would simply be the same. That leaves Alkacid paper or universal indicator strips. There are some products that turn different colours to indicate specifc pH levels - but you need changes of at least 0.5 - 1.0 pH to get different colours. The pH of your vaginal fluids is likely changing 0.1-0.2 at most so these strips aren't going to work for you. The super sensitive test strips have isolated cells or defined areas that react to specific pH levels and, as noted in my first post, are good for one shot only - they need to be completely immersed in the substance and then only one area reacts to indicate a fairly precise pH measurement. They are generally fairly rigid plastic strips and are not likely to be wrapped around anyone's finger.

Now, don't get me wrong. It was a nice story. Really, really, really cute - slightly nerdy engineer guy, in a slightly dorky, but irresitbly cute way, reduces sex to a scientific experiment - it had a real "Big Bang Theory" vibe. Hell, you should sell it to the Big Bang Theory producers as story line. It has about the same degree of credibility as most sit-com story lines - Loki wraps a piece of litmus paper around his little finger (why did he need his "engineering ring" to hold the paper in place when he was just wrapping it around his finger again?) and it doesn't react with his skin - thankfully he doesn't sweat during sex, and no sweat gets trapped under his ring because that would react with the litmus paper - thankfully his little finger also does not come in contact with lubricant, skin lotion, hair products, makeup or anything else that might react with the paper - he pulls out one end of the paper and takes a measurement near the start of coitis - he then proceeds to masterfully bring you to orgasm without contaminating the strip (see above) - pulls out the "other end" of the paper, takes a sample and it is a different colour.

You are to naive to figure out how he did it so I am lying?.

No, you and Loki are just a bad liar, I mean are bad liars.

You think maybe that the shift requires a meter to measure so I am lying?

You would have been better off incorporating a pH meter into the story from the start. You're tied up, blind folded, you think he is stimulating you with a sex toy ...SURPRISE, its really a pH meter - laughs all around. But don't feel bad, it was your first draft, every lie (woops, "story"), gets better with editing.

By the way, I will confess I do not know what manufacture or type or range test strip was used.

Don't feel too bad ....it doesn't exist.

May I suggest you do the experiment yourself instead of taking shots that are silly and just your opinion. You can even use a meter if you want.

Look, I am perfectly willing to believe that Loki starting sampling your nether regions with litmus paper. I am also perfectly prepared to believe that you saw a piece of paper that was pink at one end and blue at the other end. But don't tell me he used a single piece of litmus paper, somehow affixed under his engineer ring, to actually measure a change in pH.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Well, it is the details that really make any good lie.



The "litmus paper" you are describing does not exist. True "litmus papers" just tells you whether a sampe is alkaline or acidic. It is true that, with a long enough strip, you could use each end to test different samples. However It does not provide you with any estimate of pH. It is the pink or blue strips people commonly think of when they think of "litmus paper". Seeing as your vaginal fluids would be moving from a state of alkaline to slightly more alkaline, Loki obviously wasn't using actual "litmus paper". The results would simply be the same. That leaves Alkacid paper or universal indicator strips. There are some products that turn different colours to indicate specifc pH levels - but you need changes of at least 0.5 - 1.0 pH to get different colours. The pH of your vaginal fluids is likely changing 0.1-0.2 at most so these strips aren't going to work for you. The super sensitive test strips have isolated cells or defined areas that react to specific pH levels and, as noted in my first post, are good for one shot only - they need to be completely immersed in the substance and then only one area reacts to indicate a fairly precise pH measurement. They are generally fairly rigid plastic strips and are not likely to be wrapped around anyone's finger.

Now, don't get me wrong. It was a nice story. Really, really, really cute - slightly nerdy engineer guy, in a slightly dorky, but irresitbly cute way, reduces sex to a scientific experiment - it had a real "Big Bang Theory" vibe. Hell, you should sell it to the Big Bang Theory producers as story line. It has about the same degree of credibility as most sit-com story lines - Loki wraps a piece of litmus paper around his little finger (why did he need his "engineering ring" to hold the paper in place when he was just wrapping it around his finger again?) and it doesn't react with his skin - thankfully he doesn't sweat during sex, and no sweat gets trapped under his ring because that would react with the litmus paper - thankfully his little finger also does not come in contact with lubricant, skin lotion, hair products, makeup or anything else that might react with the paper - he pulls out one end of the paper and takes a measurement near the start of coitis - he then proceeds to masterfully bring you to orgasm without contaminating the strip (see above) - pulls out the "other end" of the paper, takes a sample and it is a different colour.


No, you and Loki are just a bad liar, I mean are bad liars.



You would have been better off incorporating a pH meter into the story from the start. You're tied up, blind folded, you think he is stimulating you with a sex toy ...SURPRISE, its really a pH meter - laughs all around. But don't feel bad, it was your first draft, every lie (woops, "story"), gets better with editing.


Don't feel too bad ....it doesn't exist.



Look, I am perfectly willing to believe that Loki starting sampling your nether regions with litmus paper. I am also perfectly prepared to believe that you saw a piece of paper that was pink at one end and blue at the other end. But don't tell me he used a single piece of litmus paper, somehow affixed under his engineer ring, to actually measure a change in pH.

I am sorry, you seem to lack a basic grasp of reality so that makes it hard to reason with you.

http://www.scientificsonline.com/ph-test-strips.html

The first litmus paper that came up on my search. It reads from 1 to 14 and changes different colours that you can read off a chart. See how nice and small they are? I assume they are like the ones on me. A lot like filter paper. They are easy to wrap around a finger and hold in place with a ring.

And like cheese dips, double dipping using opposite ends is allowed. Cheep people can do that to save money on litmus paper. It has to be submerged? Trust me, I am more than wet enough for a quick sample by pressing a finger to me. So are most women until menopause.

I have no idea why you do not know that most body fluids range from 6.0 to 7.4 in healthy adults. Did you think blood had to be 7.4 ? Only arterial blood. It can be as low as 7.33 in the venous side. (7.35 most common quoted number).

Most healthy vaginas, including mine, are in the 3.8 to 4.5 range "at rest". I become significantly more alkaline when I orgasm. I have no idea if my orgasmic pH is typical but it is like my body is trying to get ready to reward the man by making my body more welcoming to his sperm. (<--- more or less a joke) But I seem to produce a fluid that brings me to somewhere in neutral to slightly alkaline range. Sperm like 7,2 to 7.8 in case you care.

Contaminants? He washes his hands. I do not need lubricants. Are you going to ask about about iron ring reacting to the acidity? His is stainless steel.

Does all that information make your lack of knowledge more apparent to you? Think maybe you should get a clue before opening your mouth?



Want to go on and discuss adding a bit of potassium hydroxide first to check for a fishy smell? :frusty:

 

[mrsCALoki]

You don't need to orgasm to change your taste or pH, just being aroused and getting wet is enough.

I have no idea about taste. I do know that being aroused seems to keep the acidity in the normal range though

 

[scarlet6969]

regardless .... the story is just kinda creepy..... i mean come on LITMUS PAPER? doesn't he trust you?