Lack of masculinity is a large part of the shit mess this world is in.
Young Women Dating Older Men, Is This A Trend Now?
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You are saying prostitutes in general don't decide?
Anyway. The theme being discussed isn't trending in my neighborhood.
Maybe because the guys their age dress and act like they're still teenage idiots and they're tired of it. Can't count how many times I see beautiful young women, hair done, make-up on point, dressed well, alongside a guy who doesn't look like he's had a shower or clean clothes in a week, lost in his phone at the table. Then along comes an older dude, well presented, well spoken, interested in her and "whoosh"... she's gone. Slob fuck wonders what went wrong?
Or... ATM. Whatever.
Or... ATM. Whatever.
They don’t. Whoever pays is next. Which is fine. That’s what escorting is. Yes they can refuse someone of course. but it's not like choosing a partner who is richer and much older.
I used to watch some of the mixed team 'pitch to your own team' beer league softball at the Moss Park diamond, before the new Queen Street subway construction took away most of the outfield. I noticed a lot of mid-thirties guys with chiselled physiques who completely sucked at sports. Maybe they spend a lot of time in the gym, and never played any real sports.
Once there was a game there where both teams were French and gay. One of the batters was swinging at pitches as if he was blindfolded and trying to hit a pinata.
Once there was a game there where both teams were French and gay. One of the batters was swinging at pitches as if he was blindfolded and trying to hit a pinata.
Older blokes learned about interacting with women by interacting with actual women. The younger blokes learn through video games, porn, and will mediate the interaction through social media, and the plethora of super bad advice crowding out good advice on the internet. I'm surprised how the young blokes have no "game." I had an intern ask me to teach him how to talk to people face to face. And talking face to face is scary, you get rejected, you say dumb things, but you learn. You learn you need a thicker hide. The young blokes are not equipped with such hides, as they grow up in a world of people equating every minor stress of life as trauma.
This is an overgeneralization but the trends I've noticed are unmistakable.
This is an overgeneralization but the trends I've noticed are unmistakable.
There are some great looking zaddy out there. I personally wouldn't throw a relationship with an older man away. It's peaceful, no bullshit and most are gentlemen (open the door, ect.).
Pierce! Call me!
Pierce! Call me!
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Many of the responses in this Reddit are right on point, in my opinion.
And Jalimon makes an excellent point regarding the increased cost of living.
Everyone is behaving exactly as expected based on economic theory.
Young women at the height of attractiveness upgrade their lives by renting, directly or indirectly, long or short term, the valuable patch of real estate between their legs. Much of that renting in a relationship is to older males with more to pay. We can argue that they have more game, but they have more resources and experience to have game with.
Faced with high barriers, a not insignificant number of young men simply decline to participate.
Many of the young men trying to make something of themselves invest their time in an education and training process that for many high-paying jobs now takes a decade or longer. Some of them have mates who were willing to take the difficult ride along with them. Those that don’t not surprisingly look to date younger women once they become successful. The nature of a smaller percentage of people becoming successful, with more of society‘s resources accruing to them, means that there are fewer male targets for females. And as an aside, the greater education and occupational advancements of young women means that it is even more difficult for them to find someone who will “upgrade” their lives.
Everyone is acting rationally based on the variables, even poorly dressed young men playing a modified version of Twister. Read the good comments in the Reddit thread.
And Jalimon makes an excellent point regarding the increased cost of living.
Everyone is behaving exactly as expected based on economic theory.
Young women at the height of attractiveness upgrade their lives by renting, directly or indirectly, long or short term, the valuable patch of real estate between their legs. Much of that renting in a relationship is to older males with more to pay. We can argue that they have more game, but they have more resources and experience to have game with.
Faced with high barriers, a not insignificant number of young men simply decline to participate.
Many of the young men trying to make something of themselves invest their time in an education and training process that for many high-paying jobs now takes a decade or longer. Some of them have mates who were willing to take the difficult ride along with them. Those that don’t not surprisingly look to date younger women once they become successful. The nature of a smaller percentage of people becoming successful, with more of society‘s resources accruing to them, means that there are fewer male targets for females. And as an aside, the greater education and occupational advancements of young women means that it is even more difficult for them to find someone who will “upgrade” their lives.
Everyone is acting rationally based on the variables, even poorly dressed young men playing a modified version of Twister. Read the good comments in the Reddit thread.
Men over 45 that get dates with women in their 20's are obviously financially secure which is a huge deal in real life. Also, they are better conversationists due to more life experiences and know how to lead a conversation and ask questions to
keep it flowing. They have no problem picking up the tab and opening car doors (having an acceptable vehicle is huge for young women, it indicates masculinity).
keep it flowing. They have no problem picking up the tab and opening car doors (having an acceptable vehicle is huge for young women, it indicates masculinity).
Yup and 3rd wave feminism killed it with the indoctrination of young males in school. Always telling them that masculinity is toxic when in reality it is not.
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A lot of younger women in their 20s have horrible social and conversational skills as well.
That isn‘t a problem when the person they are talking to wants them to shut up so they can fuck them, anyway.
Some of the young women actually want to learn how to converse at a higher level than TikTok. Especially ones who are somewhat new to Canada. Give them some credit, not all are dingbat club chicks.
Women are attracted to intelligent men, history proves this.
Has it not always been a trend? Young woman with an old guy for the money. Or the rich athlete who regardless of looks has the hot babe as a girlfriend or wife.
The feminization of men and the masculinization of women in western society has been ongoing for decades which has resulted in this shit show
Oh I give them plenty of credit. The advancements and achievements of women in the past two decades has been extraordinary. But I don’t think it is as a result of young men not trying, and to an extent the achievements of young women have come at the expense of young men, given the limited resources of society. A few decades ago, who did college women converse with? Men of a similar age at that college. They had no internet and might not have even had a car. Now they can choose from a very large dating and interaction pool via technology. She might choose someone older and/or of the same sex to have intelligent conversations with. And some of those older dates might indeed provide her with greater financial rewards as well as intellectual stimulation. Those older guys were not more intelligent than her college peers when they were that age.
