Would you ever teach about this....?

[Coolsin000]

Hello everyone,

After reading through several hobbyist commenting on, "Seeking arrangement - my advice" (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/seeking-arrangement-my-advice.664659/), "Do you guys have friends in real life that you can talk to you about this stuff?" (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/do-...-you-can-talk-to-you-about-this-stuff.722199/), "Meeting female civilians is a waste of time" (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/mee...is-a-waste-of-time.679405/page-5#post-6446557), and "Dating a SW, opinions." (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/dating-a-sw-opinions.722894/). It got me thinking about whether or not I should pass my knowledge, and my experiences to my kids, my nephews, friends et cetera.

A little back story about my life before I enter this hobby. When I was growing up, my dad and my older male cousins never taught me how to talk to girls, how to party and meet girls in the real world. Which I find it really strange because my parents - they LOVE to have fun, party and go out on multiple dates with the opposite sex.

But once my parents have kids - they become conservative (maybe because they are Asian?), and they don't want me to party and go out to socialize with friends. Once I enter University life, I had trouble to communicate with people (especially around girls), and I have a hard time socializing with people in any environment.

For me to solve this lack of knowledge about girl/find a girlfriend, I found, read and learn some of the Pickup Artist (PUA) manual/techniques (NOTE: I download the manual and didn't get a PUA teacher), The Art of Seduction, How to communicate effectively or How to win friends and influence people et cetera. Although, I didn't have much success with the ladies but I learn to effectively communicate with a lot of people or make small talks with people. But it's very superficial - nothing in-depth; which I could not make any connections with any of the girls. So, no passion and almost no romantic interest.

After my parents have divorced, - my parents starts to encourage me to meet and socializing with other people. As I have failed to mention that, my dad is a womanizer. He loves to meet woman but he never taught me anything about "The Game" or "The Art of seduction". Until these last two years, when I start my hobby two years ago that's when my dad start to tech me a bit of, "how to woo the ladies". NOTE: I think my dad actually encourages me to seek an SP; which I pretend I'm not interested or didn't know anything about the world of SP/MP.

Indeed, after several fail attempts to find another gf after my breakup - which I have stated on my other topic "What's your story for seeing an SP/being in this hobby?" https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/whats-your-story-for-seeing-an-sp-or-being-in-this-hobby.723911/) - I almost got into MGTOW (Men going their own way) before I start this hobby. Which I found this hobby really save me from a spiral of depression.

So, my question to you is, "would you ever teach/mentor your kids/nephews/younger brothers or friends about your experience(s) when they are struggling to meet girls?"

If you do mentor them - how would you start off the topic - through your personal life experience, PUA technique, MGTOW, SP/MP Hobby or let them figure it out?

 

[luvyeah]

The Rational Male is a decent book.

https://www.amazon.ca/Rational-Male-Positive-Masculinity/dp/1548921815

 

[escortsxxx]

Hello everyone,

After reading through several hobbyist commenting on, "Seeking arrangement - my advice" (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/seeking-arrangement-my-advice.664659/), "Do you guys have friends in real life that you can talk to you about this stuff?" (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/do-...-you-can-talk-to-you-about-this-stuff.722199/), "Meeting female civilians is a waste of time" (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/mee...is-a-waste-of-time.679405/page-5#post-6446557), and "Dating a SW, opinions." (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/dating-a-sw-opinions.722894/). It got me thinking about whether or not I should pass my knowledge, and my experiences to my kids, my nephews, friends et cetera.

A little back story about my life before I enter this hobby. When I was growing up, my dad and my older male cousins never taught me how to talk to girls, how to party and meet girls in the real world. Which I find it really strange because my parents - they LOVE to have fun, party and go out on multiple dates with the opposite sex.

But once my parents have kids - they become conservative (maybe because they are Asian?), and they don't want me to party and go out to socialize with friends. Once I enter University life, I had trouble to communicate with people (especially around girls), and I have a hard time socializing with people in any environment.

For me to solve this lack of knowledge about girl/find a girlfriend, I found, read and learn some of the Pickup Artist (PUA) manual/techniques (NOTE: I download the manual and didn't get a PUA teacher), The Art of Seduction, How to communicate effectively or How to win friends and influence people et cetera. Although, I didn't have much success with the ladies but I learn to effectively communicate with a lot of people or make small talks with people. But it's very superficial - nothing in-depth; which I could not make any connections with any of the girls. So, no passion and almost no romantic interest.

After my parents have divorced, - my parents starts to encourage me to meet and socializing with other people. As I have failed to mention that, my dad is a womanizer. He loves to meet woman but he never taught me anything about "The Game" or "The Art of seduction". Until these last two years, when I start my hobby two years ago that's when my dad start to tech me a bit of, "how to woo the ladies". NOTE: I think my dad actually encourages me to seek an SP; which I pretend I'm not interested or didn't know anything about the world of SP/MP.

Indeed, after several fail attempts to find another gf after my breakup - which I have stated on my other topic "What's your story for seeing an SP/being in this hobby?" https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/whats-your-story-for-seeing-an-sp-or-being-in-this-hobby.723911/) - I almost got into MGTOW (Men going their own way) before I start this hobby. Which I found this hobby really save me from a spiral of depression.

So, my question to you is, "would you ever teach/mentor your kids/nephews/younger brothers or friends about your experience(s) when they are struggling to meet girls?"

If you do mentor them - how would you start off the topic - through your personal life experience, PUA technique, MGTOW, SP/MP Hobby or let them figure it out?

I have mentored but not like these are the 10 commandments. Some pushes and warnings here and there, and a general offer for advice. Seduction applies to all aspects of life not just dating.
however, the conservative balance is necessary. Kids for example tend not to use condoms and be very naive. The safe approach is too go slow and the youth approach is crash and burn and start again.
Knowing what to do is not the same as being able to do it.

 

[jalimon]

Having 2 kids myself here are my toughs.

"Share your life experience about woman?"
Ho yes I already share my life experience with woman even if they are only pre-teens.

"Teach them PUA Technique / Learn the Game?"
"Teach them MGTOW philosophy about woman?"
Haha no way. Woman are way to complicated to try to teach my kid that a game, a technique or a philosophy exist to attract them! Even Einstein decided to study the theory of relativity because his first choice, women, was to tough a subject to handle

"Teach and show the SP/MP hobby lifestyle?"
No. Never. They will do it if they feel there is a need for it. Hopefully like me later in their 40's when they go into the hobby for pleasure only and not for a need.

"Let them figure it out?"
No they need to know a few things, read below.

Ok women likes tall men who are confident, humorous and successful.

Strike one I am not tall so my kids wont be either. So I will make sure they are confident in themselves (mostly via being great in sport) and or making sure they have a good sense of humor in any situation. And lastly making sure they pursue either a great school degree or entrepreneurial skills to become successful and earn good money. The combination of some of these factors will work getting a girl in your bed and in your life. It sucks because being tall would have been easier... But just just being tall by itself is not enough. Thankfully..

The most important thing I will teach them is not being afraid of being rejected. It sucks but shrug it off... I played competitive sports and that taught me that you loose a lot before eventually win something. Just hang on and forget about all the losses because when you finally win it will rock!

 

[canada-man]

 

[canada-man]

How to Deal with Flaky Girls – What to Do When a Woman Stands You Up?



Below are some strategies I’ve used to deal with a Flaky Woman:

• Treat a Flaky Woman like a Game of Baseball – I rarely give a woman more than two opportunities to meet with me, especially one that I don’t know well. After the third cancellation or flake, I usually strike her out and start talking to other women immediately. I might leave this girl in the back burner, or delete her number completely.
• Maintain a Masculine Presence – Many guys that tend to be needy and too approval seeking may begin to act disappointed, upset or frustrated. It is important to keep your cool. Part of being a man is setting your boundaries as to how far you can be pushed around (canceled or rescheduled and flaked on)
• Have a Backup Plan – I call this “Plan B.” Women are highly emotional and tend to live in the moment. For this, I usually have other potential dates lined up in the early stages of a relationship – especially if the relationship is yet to be committal. If a woman flakes on me, I simply call up another girl. Sometimes, I have another date lined up a few hours apart. Never put your eggs in one basket.
• Be More Interesting – Make your lifestyle so incredibly fun, interesting and intriguing that she cannot help but to keep her plans with you. This starts by making interesting dates, having positive momentum, a good career and many exciting developments happening in your life.
• Be Less Available and More Mysterious – This kind of goes hand in hand with the above, but women like men who are mysterious. In other words, women like to find out about their man gradually over time. If you spill the beans too soon, she may get bored and begin talking to other men. By being more mysterious, busier and less available – she’ll be vying for your attention more often rather than the other way around.

How to Deal with Flaky Girls: What to Do When a Woman Stands You Up?

Learning how to deal with flaky girls can be beneficial in maximizing your long term success with women. Discover why a woman might flake out on a date and what to do when it happens.

www.luvze.com

 

[canada-man]

that's all for today stay tuned for more

 

[scouser1]

PUA and MGOTW are some of the worst ideas to ever sprout for men in a very long time. The first is some lame ass technique developed by a bunch of douche bags (oh say this when she says that, touch her arm this many times, stand facing her this way) the latter has some merit but the direction is wrong, yes men should stop obsessing over getting women and work on developing themselves, goals and careers but it seems like they want to completely take women out of the equation of a man's life. This is just plain sad and it seems to have shades of misogyny in it, Darius the dude that canada-man has posted has some very interesting advice, not PUA but developing confidence, goals and working on yourself is what he promotes.

 

[canada-man]

 

[Coolsin000]

that's all for today stay tuned for more

It's a red pill coach. Thanks for sharing!

 

[xix]

I said No. Let them figure it out.
Why?
- From experience people will talk or open their mouth later in life. - happen to me. a cousin.
- A true friend will partake / participate with you, he won't open his mouth to anyone or future wife, and I told him this before he entered this environment.

Now when someone asks me a question I say...: "Look it up on the internet." , I have no idea.

 

[xix]

I said No. Let them figure it out.
Why?
- From experience people will talk or open their mouth later in life. - happen to me. a family member
- A true friend will partake / participate with you, he won't open his mouth to anyone or future wife, and I told him this before he entered this environment.

Now when someone asks me a question I say...: "Look it up on the internet." , I have no idea.

 

[y2kmark]

Hello everyone,

After reading through several hobbyist commenting on, "Seeking arrangement - my advice" (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/seeking-arrangement-my-advice.664659/), "Do you guys have friends in real life that you can talk to you about this stuff?" (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/do-...-you-can-talk-to-you-about-this-stuff.722199/), "Meeting female civilians is a waste of time" (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/mee...is-a-waste-of-time.679405/page-5#post-6446557), and "Dating a SW, opinions." (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/dating-a-sw-opinions.722894/). It got me thinking about whether or not I should pass my knowledge, and my experiences to my kids, my nephews, friends et cetera.

A little back story about my life before I enter this hobby. When I was growing up, my dad and my older male cousins never taught me how to talk to girls, how to party and meet girls in the real world. Which I find it really strange because my parents - they LOVE to have fun, party and go out on multiple dates with the opposite sex.

But once my parents have kids - they become conservative (maybe because they are Asian?), and they don't want me to party and go out to socialize with friends. Once I enter University life, I had trouble to communicate with people (especially around girls), and I have a hard time socializing with people in any environment.

For me to solve this lack of knowledge about girl/find a girlfriend, I found, read and learn some of the Pickup Artist (PUA) manual/techniques (NOTE: I download the manual and didn't get a PUA teacher), The Art of Seduction, How to communicate effectively or How to win friends and influence people et cetera. Although, I didn't have much success with the ladies but I learn to effectively communicate with a lot of people or make small talks with people. But it's very superficial - nothing in-depth; which I could not make any connections with any of the girls. So, no passion and almost no romantic interest.

After my parents have divorced, - my parents starts to encourage me to meet and socializing with other people. As I have failed to mention that, my dad is a womanizer. He loves to meet woman but he never taught me anything about "The Game" or "The Art of seduction". Until these last two years, when I start my hobby two years ago that's when my dad start to tech me a bit of, "how to woo the ladies". NOTE: I think my dad actually encourages me to seek an SP; which I pretend I'm not interested or didn't know anything about the world of SP/MP.

Indeed, after several fail attempts to find another gf after my breakup - which I have stated on my other topic "What's your story for seeing an SP/being in this hobby?" https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/whats-your-story-for-seeing-an-sp-or-being-in-this-hobby.723911/) - I almost got into MGTOW (Men going their own way) before I start this hobby. Which I found this hobby really save me from a spiral of depression.

So, my question to you is, "would you ever teach/mentor your kids/nephews/younger brothers or friends about your experience(s) when they are struggling to meet girls?"

If you do mentor them - how would you start off the topic - through your personal life experience, PUA technique, MGTOW, SP/MP Hobby or let them figure it out?

Stephen Hawkings was once asked if there were any mysteries he didn't understand, or something to that effect. His answer, only women.

YMMV is the only thing you can ever be sure about. Class dismissed...

 

[canada-man]

7 Behaviors That Kill A Woman’s Attraction (What NOT To Do)